What u must understand and realize is that you're not talking to a fool. I can't tell you many situations and shyt I'v seen married men risk too much for extra activities...for Porn, gambling, whores on the side, 18 year old babysitters who give them compliments, sexting,...dont try to convince me because I can investigate anybody and bring that extra truth out. Females acting independent in 2018 is some funny shyt to me...that phone in their hand reveals, more often than not, that they are sneaky beyond comprehension. Especially in small towns and big cities.