America isn't at war with Muslims(Islam).
I feel like educated Americans have been really trying to understand Islam, and the Middle East since around 2000 possibly before to a lesser extent in the 70's/80's due to terrorism, Israel/Palestine, Saudi Arabia, interest in Islam, Pakistan, Afghanistan etc.
What you could say is "Will America ever fall in love with Afghanistan the same way they did with Japan?".
With that said following the official narrative Afghanistan didn't attack us as a state it was "Al Qaeda".
People don't "hate" Afghanistan if anything they feel sorry for the people living there or are indifferent.
I almost died in a Carrera and I don't hold Afghanistan responsible.