In a strange way everyone could use a hypothetical stint in prison.
Because what are you focused on while you're in there. Nothing but yourself. You don't have work distractions, people distractions, mass media distractions. So if you're motivated and inspired, you can make yourself a better person. You can't just "take 5 years off" if you're living a normal life.
This thread is the one for me, but having ideas = very different than putting it in practice.
1. Instrument 2. Cooking 3. Language
I'm set with language, knowing enough Spanish and Portuguese. Education... not very good. Getting a bachelor's but not in anything special that can get my foot in the door, puts me at an instant disadvantage. Plenty of lazy years and wasted potential. Already knowledgeable about plenty of random things (a lot of reading and exposure to things growing up), can carry conservations if I can be bothered, people generally like me (not that that's what this is about, but still). Generally lacking both in accomplishments and intangibles, rate myself a 3/10 right now. Random twists along with focus and seizing opportunities could've seen me graduated from an Ivy at a prestigious job right now, but that's the way it goes.
I'm always looking out for things to expand my mind. I hate the traditional literature/philosophy route people go to seem cultured. I prefer things like the Freakonomics podcast for example, learn a lot aobut random subjects. Or a podcast like the Joe Rogan Experience, sometimes I wonder how he got so wise and how he finds/found time to learn about so many random subjects. For example, I'd consider someone like Joe Rogan a modern renaissance man. Comedian, commentator, a bit of a drug legend, extremely smart, jiu-jitsu black belt, etc.
I do hate people who come in and turn into something that's not "them" however. Being young-ish in NYC I see this so often. Instant food experts, instant culture experts, no you can't read the NY Times arts section and then be looked upon as someone cultured. As artificial and creepy as it gets. Generally trying too hard, but what do I know, maybe they've fooled themselves into liking it and don't find anything strange about it.
let me ask you this how was the transition from Spanish to portuguese?
Up. Man...
I'm self employed, been killing it with work and working on MYSELF. I read The Little Prince and The Alchemist (). They changed my life, especially The Alchemist. I'm also working to get my money right and work toward financial independence, which I think is the cornerstone of this whole movement. I'm bouncing between reading Think and Grow Rich, The Prophet, The Richest Man in Babylon and Eleven Rings (Phil Jackson's book) and will be done with all soon.
I've also started Yoga and meditating and I can't tell you how much it's helped my focus, confidence, energy and sex. I got a crazy amount of goals I'm working toward, including writing a book, so I'll need focus and energy moving forward.
I realize that rather than chasing material or societal pats on the back, life is all about improving yourself from the INSIDE out, and the accolades and success will follow. A quote I came across sums that up:
"What you become in the process is far more important than the dream."
it crazy discovering you have interests similar to my own. one thing i need to do personally is cop the alchemist (you are the third person to mention this book). I find the Richest Man In Babylon and Khalil Gibran The prophet are dope reads.
Me myself been reading alot of Jiddu Krishnamurti Books and Taoist Texts. One thing i suggest for the brehs in here are Mantak Chia books (check amazon.com and you'll see what im referring to)