The Normalization of Violence Against Black Women

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The Normalization of Violence Against Black Women
The House stood and applauded the shooting death of Miriam Carey, further perpetuating the idea that black women’s lives are not worth as much as others.

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OCTOBER 8, 2013
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Valarie (center) and Amy Carey (second right), sisters of Miriam Carey, the woman involved in the Capitol Hill shooting, address during a news conference outside their home in Brooklyn, October 4, 2013. (Reuters/Carlo Allegri)

The US House of Representatives applauded the death of Miriam Carey before they knew who she was. They didn’t know about her postpartum depression, or that she talked about “wack men” on Facebook, or that she had been fired from a job last year, or that she lived in Connecticut or that she had been called a great mother. They simply applauded the unpaid work of the DC police in shooting and killing her.

Carey caused a panic last Thursday when she allegedly attempted to ram her vehicle through the White House barricades. Early reports were that a shooter was on the loose, giving everyone paying attention flashbacks to just a few weeks ago and the Navy Yard shooting. But early reports are almost always unreliable, and we eventually learned that Carey was not a shooter, did not have a gun, had her 1-year-old child in the car with her and was shot as she stepped out of the vehicle. This is what our Congress stood up for and clapped.

In the aftermath, with more facts at their disposal, has there been any great sense of remorse? Does the House regret that standing ovation? Put another way: has finding out that the police shot an unarmed black motherchanged anyone’s perception of this fatal incident?

It should, but by and large, it won’t. This is America. Violence against black women is routine and unchecked.

That’s why Marissa Alexander finds herself in prison.* Last year, Alexander was convicted of assault with a deadly weapon with no intent to harm and under Florida’s mandatory minimum laws sentenced to twenty years in prison after firing a warning shot to ward off her abusive husband. Her case gained widespread national attention during the George Zimmerman trial, as the now infamous Stand Your Ground law came under intense scrutiny. Alexander had attempted to have her case dismissed under Stand Your Ground, claiming her right to protect herself from a man who had repeatedly beat her, but was unsuccessful. Through appeal, Alexander has been granted a new trial, but what reason does she or her supporters have to be optimistic? The law failed to protect her before, and as Kiese Laymon points out, “The new trial is still going to have new American jurors, a new American judge, new American lawyers determining [her] black womanly right to fear.”

And still, being convicted once again may be the best luck Alexander can hope for. At the very least, she can expect to escape with her life. Far too often, the violence against black women turns deadly. Islan Nettles knows. In August of this year, Nettles, a Harlem resident and transgender woman, was attacked and beat to death while standing on the corner of W. 148th St. and Frederick Douglas Boulevard. She was with a group of friends when several men walked by, among them 20-year-old Paris Wilson, who allegedly started cursing and taunting them with homophobic slurs. Nettles and Wilson exchanged words before Wilson allegedly punched her in the face, knocking her to the ground, and then continued beating her to the point of unconsciousness. She arrived to the hospital brain dead, her mother describing the horrific scene by saying “half of [her] baby’s [was] brain missing.” Wilson was arrested for misdemeanor assault.

When the House stood and applauded the death of Miriam Carey, did they consider of any of this?

Keep in mind this is the same Congress willing to commit its own violence against black women with the current government shutdown. As Brittney Cooper put it at Salon: “One of the programs most immediately affected by the shutdown is the Women, Infants, and Children (WIC) program, which provides vouchers for food and infant formula. The program can be sustained at the state level through the month of October, but will jeopardize the lives of 8.9 million people if the federal government doesn’t get its act together. The program disproportionately serves working-class women of color.” And according to The New York Times, in the effort to expand healthcare coverage under Obamacare, two-thirds of poor black and single mothers will be left out because they live in states under Republican control—Republicans who have decided it’s best for their states to not participate in the expansion of Medicaid. To take food out of people’s mouths and deny them healthcare is an insidious form of violence, but because it’s happening to black women, there is no national outrage. We would rather hem and haw about war memorials not being open to veterans.

The violence takes many forms, but this is consistent: black women suffer and little is done about it. It is exacted with no regard for black women’s humanity. It is simply the way things are.

(*Full disclosure: I am currently participating in a campaign aimed at freeing Marissa Alexander.)

Rick Perlstein previously blogged about the culture of fear that contributed to the killing of Miriam Carey.

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Black men collectively need to place more value on black female lives. A lot of black men really value, respect, and admire black women, but far too many couldnt give two shyts about a black woman. I recently had to put hands on my 10 year old brother for saying he'll hit this girl in his class if she ever raised her voice at him. The lil nikka knows better and he broke my heart with that comment. Misogyny is really contagious amongst young boys, some think it's cool to shyt on women. And a lot of them have a special strain of vitriol for black women


Just because she isnt your mother, sister, grandma, aunt, etc doesnt mean her life doesnt hold value.


Just because you dont consider her attractive doesnt mean her life is less valuable than an attractive woman's life

Like the thread in TLR about the old dusty nikka slapping the teenage girl. nikkas are actually condoning his behavior and victim blaming :mindblown:

What if he had a knife and chose to stab her instead of slap her?


Also, the Islan Nettles story really broke my heart because it happened in my neighborhood and I frequently saw her around the hood. She was senselessly attacked by a fake tough guy who wanted cool points
 

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Looks to be an old article but its as true now as it was 2 years ago when this happened. White people can be the perpetrators of crime and get immediate analysis on their mental health. Black people can be the victims and get immediately criminalized.

For Black women there seems to be an added component where our victimization is either ignored entirely--which is why despite having such high DV rates, its never talked about or included in Black on Black crime conversations--or the violence is applauded and made the butt of jokes, like you see with all these worldstar videos and social media memes.
 

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There needs to be more awareness and more solutions being centered around making Black women's issues as important as Black male issues. There is a mindset held among a number of brothas that Black women don't face the same discrimination and violence that we do. It's as if they think the Black male experience in America is the only one that matters.

Alot of brothas don't value themselves, so it's no wonder that they don't value or have respect for women either. At the end of the day, common courtesy,respect, and appreciation is all most people strive for. We need to do a better job of seeing the humanity in each other.
 
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something tells me the thread will be ignored just as any topic that has anything to do with protecting or defending Black Women.
Yeah it will be ignored because realistically who the fukk is in a position to need to "protect" the black woman? Its stupid honestly because who has had to "protect" a black woman on this message board? I don't see this with black woman or really any woman IRL. This is a mainly online thing this topic
 

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There needs to be more awareness and more solutions being centered around making Black women's issues as important as Black male issues. There is a mindset held among a number of brothas that Black women don't face the same discrimination and violence that we do. It's as if they think the Black male experience in America is the only one that matters.

Alot of brothas don't value themselves, so it's no wonder that they don't value or have respect for women either. At the end of the day, common courtesy,respect, and appreciation is all most people strive for. We need to do a better job of seeing the humanity in each other.

Your half cac musings aside, when they stop killing black males, they'll stop killing black females by association. They only kill black female as a function of black males anyway.
 

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something tells me the thread will be ignored just as any topic that has anything to do with protecting or defending Black Women.
Most men here are already against thug culture and violence against women so I don't think this thread would interest members here :yeshrug:
Go make this thread on LSA if you want more comments
 

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Muslim Bushido was right. Black males have always dog the shyt out of black women throughout history (hence our attitudes towards them.) She predicted that violence against us perpepuated by black males would be normalized when access to other mens' women became available. We already can see they don't give a shyt about our lives nor our concerns. And will ride with other races(men and women) to hurt us. Lets be honest black males don't see value in us because we are not white. I see it daily irl. No wonder our elders always said never depend on black males. Black women better wake up right now seriously!!! Black males kill black women/girls AND their children every night in Memphis.

We don't have the complexion for protection nor support. shyt is concerning and black women are not taking it seriously enough.
 

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Muslim Bushido was right. Black males have always dog the shyt out of black women throughout history (hence our attitudes towards them.) She predicted that violence against us perpepuated by black males would be normalized when access to other mens' women became available. We already can see they don't give a shyt about our lives nor our concerns. And will ride with other races(men and women) to hurt us. Lets be honest black males don't see value in us because we are not white. I see it daily irl. No wonder our elders always said never depend on black males. Black women better wake up right now seriously!!! Black male thugs kill black women/girls AND their children every night in Memphis.

We don't have the complexion for protection nor support. shyt is concerning and black women are not taking it seriously enough.
/Fixed...and choose better black men then.:coffee: There will always be shytty people wherever you go. Black men dont have a monopoly on family violence.
 
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Black men collectively need to place more value on black female lives. A lot of black men really value, respect, and admire black women, but far too many couldnt give two shyts about a black woman. I recently had to put hands on my 10 year old brother for saying he'll hit this girl in his class if she ever raised her voice at him. The lil nikka knows better and he broke my heart with that comment. Misogyny is really contagious amongst young boys, some think it's cool to shyt on women. And a lot of them have a special strain of vitriol for black women


Just because she isnt your mother, sister, grandma, aunt, etc doesnt mean her life doesnt hold value.


Just because you dont consider her attractive doesnt mean her life is less valuable than an attractive woman's life

Like the thread in TLR about the old dusty nikka slapping the teenage girl. nikkas are actually condoning his behavior and victim blaming :mindblown:

What if he had a knife and chose to stab her instead of slap her?


Also, the Islan Nettles story really broke my heart because it happened in my neighborhood and I frequently saw her around the hood. She was senselessly attacked by a fake tough guy who wanted cool points


It's a two way street.

A lot of black girls don't respect black boys/men, so they're not going out of their way to give black boys/men something to respect about black girls/women.In turn, you get boys with a "bytches ain't shyt mentality".Everybody has dirt on their hands

It's circular...a vicious cycle.

You really can't point the finger at one gender.
 
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