the myth that "its so hard to find a woman without a child"

[Uncle Kingpin]

I would say that even though the numbers are declining, lets not pretend that there aren't way too many young black women and men who are single parents. I think the younger girls (21 and under) aint about that teen / single mom life, thank God.

 

[MikelArteta]

That the women who have kids are not getting married

But more women than ever are not having kids

Which is it bruh

WASHINGTON, D.C., January 4, 2013, (LifeSiteNews.com) – The number of children living in single-parent homes has nearly doubled since 1960, according to data from the 2010 Census.
The Washington Times analyzed the most recent census data, showing that the percentage of two-parent families has dropped significantly over the past decade in all 50 states. Even as the total number of American households with children increased by 160,000, the number of two-parent households decreased by 1.2 million.

Today, one-third of American children – a total of 15 million – are being raised without a father. Nearly five million more children live without a mother.

 

[Desirous]

Women don't seem to mind a man with children seeing how they don't have custody.

Depends. I was dealing with a guy who has full custody of his son. The mother isn't as involved in the child's life...his son lives with him, he drives him to school, to basketball practice, etc. I don't mind someone having a kid though...if he takes care of his child, then I respect him because it's an indication that he's a family man and knows where his priorities are.

 

[Colilluminati]

Also the myth about single mom's is a lie.Black men not taking care of their kids is a lie also.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Which is it bruh

WASHINGTON, D.C., January 4, 2013, (LifeSiteNews.com) – The number of children living in single-parent homes has nearly doubled since 1960, according to data from the 2010 Census.
The Washington Times analyzed the most recent census data, showing that the percentage of two-parent families has dropped significantly over the past decade in all 50 states. Even as the total number of American households with children increased by 160,000, the number of two-parent households decreased by 1.2 million.

Today, one-third of American children – a total of 15 million – are being raised without a father. Nearly five million more children live without a mother.

One article is saying more young women are not having children.

The other article is saying that more of the children that that are being born are being raised by single parents.

They're not conflicting each other, how is this confusing you?

 

[Dooby]

I don't know how I still keep having run ins with bytches with batches of b*stards.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup totally Different for a female.

Depends. I was dealing with a guy who has full custody of his son. The mother isn't as involved in the child's life...his son lives with him, he drives him to school, to basketball practice, etc. I don't mind someone having a kid though...if he takes care of his child, then I respect him because it's an indication that he's a family man and knows where his priorities are.

 

[MikelArteta]

Uh no its not

Also the myth about single mom's is a lie.Black men not taking care of their kids is a lie also.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

That the women who have kids are not getting married

But more women than ever are not having kids

Bruh the kids is already here. You talking about a trend going forward or something I'm talking about RIGHT NOW TODAY. A good 70% of chicks 26-33 got at least One kid fam. And you can talk that, well that's just Alabama or that That's just the South, or whatever. I can't think of very few women professional or otherwise in that age range without a kid.

 

[Malta]

We date guys our age or older, usually...late 30's to mid 40's. A 32 year old with a 23 year old...I mean, good for them if they find things in common, but they're probably in different places in life. That's a huge age gap.

The vast majority of dudes are in their late 30s and mid 40s though, gravity and father time going to work on em if they haven't been vigilant in the gym.

It just seems easier for a man to prolong the dating life and still end up with someone really attractive and with their life in order, whereas women seemingly have to make a trade off if they do the same, stability and financial well being...but he looks like Danny Trejo.

 

[Spoonz]

One article is saying more young women are not having children.

The other article is saying that more of the children that that are being born are being raised by single parents.

They're not conflicting each other, how is this confusing you?

they're all bullshyt that's why

 

[SouthernBelle]

My friend's that aren't married are 30-32 and they are going after 23-25 year old women, the game gets hard for women after 25 when all these up and coming younger females start looking at older men.

That's when women start looking at even older men. There's always 34-40 year olders who think 27-30 (especially if she looks good) are great ages for a woman they may want to marry The cycle continues.

 

[MikelArteta]

Bruh the kids is already here. You talking about a trend going forward or something I'm talking about RIGHT NOW TODAY. A good 70% of chicks 26-33 got at least One kid fam. And you can talk that, well that's just Alabama or that That's just the South, or whatever. I can't think of very few women professional or otherwise in that age range without a kid.

 

[Just like bruddas]

 

[SouthernBelle]

Yup totally Different for a female.

It depends on the woman. The majority of the women I know, including myself, are straight when it comes to men with children. I think he should make his child his first priority...not someone woman he is trying to date.