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I hate when the weather changes!
Welp, I relapsed.. :francis:
Maybe a hand poke tattoo kit would be a better alternative? I mean, I do like tattoos. :ehh:
Idk, just rambling. maybe this wasn't smart to post? :manny:
 
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The is more about trauma...Has anyone here either been molested and dealt with that trauma or dated someone who has?

Been seeing this women who it happened to I love hanging with her but I notice she’s used to toxic and drama filed relationships.

Is that how it usually is when you have that type of trauma/abuse that toxic relationships seem normal?

I feel like she feels uncomfortable almost being in a stable relationship with me at times
 

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Never thought i would have to contribute to a thread like this.


Limerence caused me anxiety, paranoia (which lead to extreme insecurity) and ultimately depression for many months of this year.


A culmination of covid, work stress and courting a woman who is too beautiful for what i'm used to.


Surprised she still with me.


Even though things got better and we hashed a lot of my issues... the anxiety and random heart palpitations at 4 am are still prevalent.



Trying to train my brain to heal and not subject myself to meds... but man it got bad over the summer when i wanted to murk myself.



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The is more about trauma...Has anyone here either been molested and dealt with that trauma or dated someone who has?

Been seeing this women who it happened to I love hanging with her but I notice she’s used to toxic and drama filed relationships.

Is that how it usually is when you have that type of trauma/abuse that toxic relationships seem normal?

I feel like she feels uncomfortable almost being in a stable relationship with me at times
Sadly this is very common. I'm not sure what your approach will be perhaps gather some resources online or articles or Google podcasts that touch on that subject to help her see that behavior post after abuse and the affects of it of how she acting or encourage her to see a therapist of course she may act defensive. If she is fresh out of an abusive relationship she might need time to heal or or you can be their as a friend and fall back on the situation. Ultimately it won't be cool if she is that way continuously and it becomes normalize and nothing is being done about it.good luck man
 
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