One of the grimiest parts was your "friends," liking her status about being out what her "new" man while y'all were still married. A motherfukker could never say anything to me in life after that.
The many L's I took during last 3 years of my 13 year marriage.
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BillyOcean
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I have a couple of friends going through something similar now. It's like something "breaks" in some women in their 30s. Both cases, the women were good/decent type of chicks in their 20s. All of a sudden they start hitting the clubs, hanging around other single thots, and go straight skeezer status. It's like some Manchurian-Thot-signal that is triggered in them.
"I aint saying I would do it.....but I understand"Then she started having this nikka driving around in the car that I pay for, 2010 Nissan Armada Platinum. She’s bringing my kids around this dude; he was arrested for arm robbery, assault with a deadly weapon, shyt load of dui’s –just all around a piece of work.
She get’s served with divorce papers at her job…
So we go to court. The judge says that we must maintain the status quo. I am asking for full custody. The judge ordered that she pays the groceries only, and I pay the bills and mortgage.
Gotta let em go through their hoe phase
Wifing up at an early age? Hell to the damn naw
Plus you in the military
Sadly there's no real absolute formula for women when it comes to them being hoes. Many females truly really never exit their "hoe phase" & only disguise or suppress it, while some older, more established women you would never think could fukk around on their husbands/boyfriends start having mid life crises & become major thots in their later years.
Elle Driver
Veteran
Y'all got together mad young, well y'all known each other since y'all was late teens. She might've felt like she was missing something, like reliving those single years and was mentally stunted. I've known my husband since I was 18 (just shy of turning 19) and I only married him when I was 28. Not because I felt like I was missing out, but because mentally I don't think I understood the responsibility and the duties I had to fulfill as a wife and him as a husband. Im glad you are self advocating and most importantly advocating for your kids. Props.
they shouldn't be kept away from their mother but she's clearly not fit to be a care giver.
Demon
Evil b*stard
aww bless your heart baby. i'm sooo sorry that happened to you. if you need anyone to talk to, a shoulder to lean on, i'm here for you
@Blaxican707
I'm gonna rep you.
My boy is starting to see the signs of his wife stepping out now, but refuses to fully believe. I mean, this heffa said she needed "space" two weekends ago and said she is going to stay elsewhere (besides their home)
Where did she stay you said? Well it was a hotel...(he later found out). She claimed she stayed there with her sisters to talk
Me and my other boy, are going to attempt to stage a breh intervention.
I'm gonna rep you.
My boy is starting to see the signs of his wife stepping out now, but refuses to fully believe. I mean, this heffa said she needed "space" two weekends ago and said she is going to stay elsewhere (besides their home)
Where did she stay you said? Well it was a hotel...(he later found out). She claimed she stayed there with her sisters to talk
Me and my other boy, are going to attempt to stage a breh intervention.
Damn man, I'm glad you where strong enough to bounce back from such Ls. The main problems was you was too soft and weren't around enough (because of your job). But yeah get your kids man, its fukked up that the system has to put you through all this. I find the way they treat men humiliating.
It's not about whether the marriage works out or not from my perspective. It's the fact that a single man would lower his standards & principles along with adding limitations & options to one's lifestyle during the prime years of their life to marry a woman with kids while dealing with another mans responsibilities raising his own children which I'm scrutinizing.
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Why did you beg her to stay?
Seems like you flushed your dignity down the toilet breh. Your kids will be fine, but don't use them as an excuse to excuse your dignity.
Seems like you flushed your dignity down the toilet breh. Your kids will be fine, but don't use them as an excuse to excuse your dignity.
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#SOG_soldier
New York knicks and phoenix suns stan
Where are the pics? 
I guess I don't understand being married and that level of commitment, but just don't get putting up with that much shyt. Everything I've ever seen says the first time a woman disrespects you like that it's a wrap. And begging makes it worse.
Paragraph #4 and be packing up her shyt
Paragraph #4 and be packing up her shyt
Rollo Goodlove
Palestine Titty
Damn breh , but how we know you ain't lying and trying to make this be all on her 
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Never beg a woman, for anything.
In the long run they won't respect you for it and will see you less and less of a man when you do it.
You are the man, either what you say goes or you guys come together and compromise to make a decision.
Not her saying no and you ultimately letting it slide.
In the long run they won't respect you for it and will see you less and less of a man when you do it.
You are the man, either what you say goes or you guys come together and compromise to make a decision.
Not her saying no and you ultimately letting it slide.