The many L's I took during last 3 years of my 13 year marriage.

[Mr. Jack Napier]

You screwed up by wifing her when she already had a child by another dude. That should've been the 1st major red flag.

 

[Diondon]

Gotta let em go through their hoe phase
Wifing up at an early age? Hell to the damn naw
Plus you in the military

 

[David_TheMan]

To the OP
I"m sorry you went through that and I'm happy you have gotten out of that situation.
I hope you get your kids and get them in the right situation.

 

[Frida Giezman]

Swear to God I would've killed that bytch. I don't know if it's this Louisiana blood in my veins, but if anyone ever humilate and disrespect me like that, they dead. I just have that much pride.

That's why I'm very cautious about the people I date or let real close to me. Bcuz I know I'm a crazy fool.

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

Damn bro

Hold your head

Makes me realize how lucky I am with my fiancee

 

[Black]

TL;DR:

Bout to put this on a t shirt.

 

[1 other person]

Damn bro

Hold your head

Makes me realize how lucky I am with my fiancee

You're not 13 years in yet, tho

 

[joeychizzle]

I'm glad you stayed calm and civil and avoided anything unsavoury. You played it smart and exposed her in sublime fashion. It sucks that you had to deal with this after over a decade, but in the end you have your kids, and you don't have to fork over a chunk of your paycheque.

 

[Ol’Otis]

Sounds like she going thru a delayed hoe phase

 

[1 other person]

Sounds like she going thru a delayed hoe phase

DHS

delayed ho syndrome

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

One day I go in her room to find a power cord for my ipad, I open her night stand and there is a fukking condom in there. I confront her about it and she said her “friend” left it in her purse for her to hold. Me being an idiot wanted to believe and even psyched myself into believing it.

The fukk ?

 

[Dank Hill]

Was watching "Snapped, Women who kill" few weeks ago.There was a similiar story to this. Girl got bored of her fiance who was also in the army, started dating a thug/dope dealer while he was away with the army. He found out, they broke up and she moved out, but he let her still use his car, the new thug/dope dealer bf used to drive the car too. They got over a fight over this car situation, thug/dope dealer bf ends up killing the exfiancee.

A similar thing happened down by where i keep my house in ga now by robins afb. Long story short, married af dude deploys to the desert, wife hooked up with other af dude while husband is gone, husband comes back after x months, wife cuts off side dude, side dude catches feelings and proceed to kill off the husband, wife, and himself, husband didnt know nothing before he died.

 

[jwonder]

Better man than me, i would of done some things that would put me in jail , but fortunately i would of cut her off after she first started to act up.

So glad I never got married. Was engaged twice though.I couldn't go through what OP went through. That bytch would have end up missing. Definitely would have some insurance money after they deemed her dead.

A man doesn't win in the court room in the US. Archaic laws that benefit low life funky ass women. @Blaxican707 with all the shyt you got on your wife. I want to know the chances you have to get your kids. Did the lawyer say you are in good shape? I've had way too many friends lose even though their broad was cheating.

 

[Ironman]

Gotfukkingdammnit @Blaxican707 Brotha at least you wised up man it's all good. Just do what you can to get your kids and keep that negative shyt with her away. Best of luck to you man armor up your heart Some of these chicks are ruthless

 

[Sccit]

U SOUND LIKE A LIFELONG BETA WHO IS BLOSSIMING INTO AN ALPHA