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Mojo Jojo Morpheus
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I understand where you're coming from but it's more nuanced than that.
As @Kant mentioned, in her upbringing there was a division of labor which was gender specific but not oppressive.
Your experience may differ but that doesn't automatically make yours right and hers wrong.
You mentioned yourself that the "coddling" phenomenon is a by-product of single mother homes.
But that is a description of a dysfunctional family model.
With children being expected to fulfill roles properly assigned to adults.
I was raised in a 2-parent household, I imagine Kant was too.
Having witnessed gender-roles performed dutifully and to the benefit of the family as a whole, I have no negative prejudices towards them.
Mojo Jojo Morpheus
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Agree to disagree.
THIS!!!
Exactly this!
I find that much of the railing against the way society is organized currently is made ignorant of the factors and history which brought us to this point in the first place.
Historically, people came together in groups because we NEEDED each other to survive.
Groups of people require leadership.
Here is where our most basic models for gov't were born.
Over time, these groups became larger and their governance more complex.
Because resources are limited, groups competed with other groups to establish dominance.
The most successful societies are the ones we see present and flourishing today.
We KNOW they were successful because they're still around today.
History, then, proves that patriarchal societies which put an emphasis on training men to become disposable yet efficient tools of war and women to be homemakers and babymakers (to replace those disposable men), has been the most effective model for power and social control, to date.
Hence, why patriarchal societies are damn near universal.
They worked.
CountryBoyL
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I think its time for a divorce. This married life aint what i imagined. shyt makes a young breh feel old
. Bout to stack a few more gs and get a apartment asap.
. Bout to stack a few more gs and get a apartment asap.
AlwaysLurkin
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Is this slow?
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
Nah not slow, just not great either
Decent for basic SD quality streaming and playback as well as online gaming
Downloading you'll get about 300 kb/s
So about 1 hour per gb
4k streaming might do you in though
I think its time for a divorce. This married life aint what i imagined. shyt makes a young breh feel old
Welcome to the #GMB life my brother.
I dead ass was about to tie the knots with my ex until she pulled a Trump on your boy.
You'll LOVE the bachelor life, my nikka. You'll love it!
Do you have any kids with her by any chance? If so...
What's wrong?I think its time for a divorce. This married life aint what i imagined. shyt makes a young breh feel old
CountryBoyL
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Na no kids with her and the house and all the bills are in her nameWelcome to the #GMB life my brother.
I dead ass was about to tie the knots with my ex until she pulled a Trump on your boy.
You'll LOVE the bachelor life, my nikka. You'll love it!
Do you have any kids with her by any chance? If so...
. So the divorce will go pretty smooth and quick. I already got my plan to dip out. Just gotta save a lil more so when i move im damn comfortable. I honestly cant wait to be a bachelor again bruh
CountryBoyL
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Man everything tbh. I married a women 10 years older than me and even though we dont fight or nothing like that, im just bored with this shyt honestly. nikka done gained weight and shyt. Gotts get back right and focus on myself and being a better father to my kids. My kids are by someone else btw alk is good wit that tho
Na no kids with her and the house and all the bills are in her name
You could've said all that instead of me rooting for you.
Nah, but if you ain't happy then all wishes to you. Marriage takes work.