career rant of the month:
so i had an actual job offer i was all set to act on. completely different field and would be like a fresh start for me. i had signed up to attend a conference for said job in november and everything. i was about 2 seconds away from leaving here and ready to give notice. my dumb ass never accounted for the fact that the entire mortgage application process is based on my compensation and employment here. the offer i was going to take is for about 1/3 of what i get paid here, after all it is basically entry level even though i'm in my 30s. i'd basically be committing mortgage fraud by submitting my income verification based on my situation here, then leaving the second i signed a commitment letter from the bank. that debt to income ratio would have went the whole otha way and i ain't tryna be no nj housewife.
i also started crunching the #s a little better after coming to this realization and to take that kinda income hit would be putting so much unnecessary pressure on myself to cover my monthly nut. all i want to do is get my family into this house and have some peace and normalcy for a year or 2. and the more and more i analyze sh!t i can't take kinda $$$ cut. i'm stuck here forever and ever.
FMMFL
so i had an actual job offer i was all set to act on. completely different field and would be like a fresh start for me. i had signed up to attend a conference for said job in november and everything. i was about 2 seconds away from leaving here and ready to give notice. my dumb ass never accounted for the fact that the entire mortgage application process is based on my compensation and employment here. the offer i was going to take is for about 1/3 of what i get paid here, after all it is basically entry level even though i'm in my 30s. i'd basically be committing mortgage fraud by submitting my income verification based on my situation here, then leaving the second i signed a commitment letter from the bank. that debt to income ratio would have went the whole otha way and i ain't tryna be no nj housewife.
i also started crunching the #s a little better after coming to this realization and to take that kinda income hit would be putting so much unnecessary pressure on myself to cover my monthly nut. all i want to do is get my family into this house and have some peace and normalcy for a year or 2. and the more and more i analyze sh!t i can't take kinda $$$ cut. i'm stuck here forever and ever.
FMMFL