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Like it dosent have to have hardship and all these games for it to be "rewarding". If you have been honest with her and yourself about how you feel and she is on the same page you can experience things that took couples years on end to accomplish a lot quicker than normal.
 

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I used to do that shyt as well. I stopped. I know it came be overwhelming especially since I've experienced it from some women but here's the thing: if they can't handle it or appreciate it that lets you know where their mind is at that moment. At that point it's clear that they aren't on the same page as you emotionally because it's not like men and women don't experience this. No one is that calm and in control over their emotions. Ball is your hands you can either find a woman who will appreciate that type of affection or just keep it in check until she feels ready.

The point I'm trying to say is that it's not wrong to have overwhelming emotion like that. For some reason there is a mentality where people who experience emotion like that are wrong. It's just a matter of if you want to put up with the wait until she warms up. Or find someone who can handle your speed. In my situation I chose to stick around and put up with it because I love her and it's been rewarding. But anything that has genuine and honest investment put into it will always be rewarding.
true. i dont do that shyt anymore. nor will i waste time with women who do that shyt. i have no problem blocking them and cutting them out of my life with ease. the thing is i care. yet im not getting smitten in a week though. i just dont want to end up looking like a care bear shooting rainbows out my chest.
im honestly too hesitant at the moment. :ld:
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true. i dont do that shyt anymore. nor will i waste time with women who do that shyt. i have no problem blocking them and cutting them out of my life with ease. the thing is i care. yet im not getting smitten in a week though. i just dont want to end up looking like a care bear shooting rainbows out my chest.
im honestly too hesitant at the moment. :ld:
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And that's fine as long as you remember that no one is wrong in this including yourself for how they handle these things. The only time someone is wrong is when they start giving others shyt for being cautious or embracing their feelings because when you look at how things are, can you really blame them?
 

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Like it dosent have to have hardship and all these games for it to be "rewarding". If you have been honest with her and yourself about how you feel and she is on the same page you can experience things that took couples years on end to accomplish a lot quicker than normal.
:ehh:true it just seems like, thats the only choice thats highlighted these days.
 

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And that's fine as long as you remember that no one is wrong in this including yourself for how they handle these things. The only time someone is wrong is when they start giving others shyt for being cautious or embracing their feelings because when you look at how things are, can you really blame them?
not at all. things are just wild.
 

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not at all. things are just wild.

I really just stress this stuff because for once I feel at peace about such a serious topic. There's no extra calculations I gotta do in my head that have a negative tone. I can focus on positive things with a woman. It's so mentally draining trying to keep up with lies and games and doing this extra stuff.
 

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I really just stress this stuff because for once I feel at peace about such a serious topic. There's no extra calculations I gotta do in my head that have a negative tone. I can focus on positive things with a woman. It's so mentally draining trying to keep up with lies and games and doing this extra stuff.
it really is. these games just come off as cowardly. its mouse and mouse .
 

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I can't believe dudes on here believe that the most valuable thing on a woman is her vagina...

They're constantly going ugly girls don't have much value and the little value she has is only because she has a vagina.

Then the same males are upset when we say a man is not that cute to us and we wouldn't date him. It seems that women dont place as much value on the ugly guy's dikk like they do the ugly girl's vagina.


In their mind p*ssy is p*ssy...
 
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Turned my Do not disturb on and woke up to a missed call and text from my homeboy saying that he's into me. Definitely an OH shyt moment. I just saw him at a skate party on Saturday night and he kept telling people we were dating :heh: but I thought it was a joke. Only bad part is he used to mess with a close friend for years, she has since married but that's still mad awkward. Plus he didn't treat her all that well at the time.
 
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