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Because you tell someone to take a backseat to someone else's needs while it affects their ego, their goals and what not. They're not gonna want to do that and if they do commit it's after a long thought process. That should explain the magnitude of the type of decision making we are talking about.

Like the whole leaving a woman over her not having kids. A lot of people's goals are to have children. If your partner can't have kids and you leave them because of that because you rightfully want that in your life, can you really say you genuinely love them through sickness and health? The moment you make that decision you are putting your wants and needs over your partners.

But remember you aren't wrong for putting yourself first. It's considered smart. Because you are taking care of yourself. Hence why genuine love is "stupid".
true. i wouldnt want to up and dip because of that. :francis:
yet if someone left me i couldnt do nothing but :yeshrug:
 

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I could never get on the phablet wave, wtf I need that size phone for? :mindblown:
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I know right? It had everything and it was the new release, plus I had a small cheap smartphone so I said fukk it, go big or go home. Plus it was the only phone during it's time with the new version of pure Android:ohlawd:, and I can not fukk with that wack ass UI like touchwiz.:scust:
 

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its a sad dilemma. when i joined the coli i used to feel this way. because i was fukked up. we let the few sheisty people we saw something in fukk our love lives up. i admit. we got so excited only to feel like a cold knife pierced our soul.
honestly i was bitter until about 19-20 because of experiences i had with dating. that hurt is a shield we put
up. people out here living like bubble boy because someone got over on them. so they stay in their bubble, firm in their beliefs of the opposite sex. i dont want to live like that. lately, its not about trust for me. its about trying not to get my hopes
up immediately.

I had experienced that mentality for a short period. That's all dating these days are really. The games and bullshyt are defense mechanisms we use on each other to protect ourselves. It's why I have a hard time believing that people are truly that savage. It just dosent seem natural. There's a natural need/want to be open and vulnerable to a partner. To want that type of love and to give that love.

I feel like this stuff has to end now because no one wins, everyone just hurts each other in the end. Innocent and the ones who put others through these grinders and drama. Why are ones who try to make things work with someone stupid for having hope and trying not to let this type of stuff ruin them? Stuff along the lines like that. You shouldn't try to repress getting your hopes up. This type of shyt feels good and is natural to feel this way about stuff such as this.
 

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I had experienced that mentality for a short period. That's all dating these days are really. The games and bullshyt are defense mechanisms we use on each other to protect ourselves. It's why I have a hard time believing that people are truly that savage. It just dosent seem natural. There's a natural need/want to be open and vulnerable to a partner. To want that type of love and to give that love.

I feel like this stuff has to end now because no one wins, everyone just hurts each other in the end. Innocent and the ones who put others through these grinders and drama. Why are ones who try to make things work with someone stupid for having hope and trying not to let this type of stuff ruin them? Stuff along the lines like that. You shouldn't try to repress getting your hopes up. This type of shyt feels good and is natural to feel this way about stuff such as this.
its fukking sad how some dudes gotta come up with a strategy to text women so they wont come off as clingy or too invested. why cant i care about a woman? and actually give a fukk? why do i gotta waste my time with childish cat and mouse games that end with someone becoming severely depressed?
i want to be able to get to know someone while being loco. not like im a war general trying to overthrow a country. when i talk to women i cant help but care. but sometimes i feel like it comes off as weak to some women. so i try and cut back on it. :francis:
 
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I'll fade away and classify myself as obsolete.......


Obsolete......
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Vice truly is dead. She's not coming back, gimmick or not.


I am washed and I feel fine about it. No need to be a weed smoking, booze guzzling internet felony committing nympho. I am washed. If I am meant to hold a camera and write films and novels I will. Right now. I just want to embrace this oblivion I find myself in.
 

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its fukking sad how some dudes gotta come up with a strategy to text women so i wont come off as clingy or too invested. why cant i care about a woman? and actually give a fukk? why do i gotta waste my time with childish cat and mouse games that end with someone becoming severely depressed?
i want to be able to get to know someone while being loco. not like im a war general trying to overthrow a country. when i talk to women i cant help but care. but sometimes i feel like it comes off as weak to some women. so i try and cut back on it. :francis:

I used to do that shyt as well. I stopped. I know it came be overwhelming especially since I've experienced it from some women but here's the thing: if they can't handle it or appreciate it that lets you know where their mind is at that moment. At that point it's clear that they aren't on the same page as you emotionally because it's not like men and women don't experience this. No one is that calm and in control over their emotions. Ball is your hands you can either find a woman who will appreciate that type of affection or just keep it in check until she feels ready.

The point I'm trying to say is that it's not wrong to have overwhelming emotion like that. For some reason there is a mentality where people who experience emotion like that are wrong. It's just a matter of if you want to put up with the wait until she warms up. Or find someone who can handle your speed. In my situation I chose to stick around and put up with it because I love her and it's been rewarding. But anything that has genuine and honest investment put into it will always be rewarding.
 
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