This is an issue.To distill the issue, it's a sick, twisted, and widespread Oedipus complex in the black community.
Women in general remind these dudes of their mothers and they wanna for those women. Combine that with the fact that many men don't come from 2-parent homes and are starved for female attention and this is the result.
The ironic part about fat/broke women's inflated collective ego is that they're usually the first ones to shame dudes for having standards and preferences.