The thing is, I feel like some bigger people or people with low self esteem see working out as a gateway to Freedom so they workout as hard as possible the moment they get In the gym. Cause they feel like, "this is the place where my happiness lies!" So they try to do so much so soon and they slip up quick. It's like, some of them hold their happiness hostage, and never allow themselves to feel happy until they look a certain way.A lot of people are addicted to working out. I've noticed people with low self esteem or who were really fat go overboard with body building.
Well said my friend. Happiness is a feeling not a body type.The thing is, I feel like some bigger people or people with low self esteem see working out as a gateway to Freedom so they workout as hard as possible the moment they get In the gym. Cause they feel like, "this is the place where my happiness lies!" So they try to do so much so soon and they slip up quick. It's like, some of them hold their happiness hostage, and never allow themselves to feel happy until they look a certain way.
Definitely. I started off with that mindset, and I felt like I wasn't good enough as I was. Even though women told me otherwise. I felt my personality wasn't good enough so I thought if I got into shape things would balance out. But I wasn't happy with the reasons why I was losing weight. I was chasing validation.Well said my friend. Happiness is a feeling not a body type.
You should share your story when you're ready. It could help people, a lot of young people with body issues.Definitely. I started off with that mindset, and I felt like I wasn't good enough as I was. Even though women told me otherwise. I felt my personality wasn't good enough so I thought if I got into shape things would balance out. But I wasn't happy with the reasons why I was losing weight. I was chasing validation.
LOL I'm not surprised. That camp only releases fire. They've been doing it for almost twenty years now.The NERD album is good
Trying a female no porn no fap, day 4 and I'm on #struggle.
I want to. In due time. I feel like I still have a bit of a journey to go on. I think when I stopped being so thirsty and awkward it helped a bit. I was walking around thinking if I was in shape itd be easy to talk to women.You should share your story when you're ready. It could help people, a lot of young people with body issues.
Don't do what? Watch porn or masturbate? Cuz both happen frequently over here lolGirls don't do that......... I don't believe ya!
Don't do what? Watch porn or masturbate? Cuz both happen frequently over here lol
@BrokePhiBroke panicking PMing people because she fell in love with a "bisexual" man
"How couldn't I have known a dude with a perm who uses heart emoji filters was a homo " - @BrokePhiBroke
Hoes falling in love and pillow talking to homosexuals telling other folks business then getting embarassed