Calling a grown ass black man buddy. White men need to chill out with that shyt. I know in their culture it doesn't much, but in our culture men are not referred to as children, especially if they're grown with kids.
I used to get asked exclusively by white cops how I can afford the car I have. They pocket watch hard. They ask me how I afford my clothes and to be in the neighborhoods I'm in.
I was eating a burger in front of Jack In The Crack. I was sitting in my car in the JB parking lot. I got pulled over while my car was off and parked. Dude shined a flash light in my eyes and asked what I'm doing in this part of town. He then escorted me out of town. Dude drove behind me until I hit the freeway.
It happened to me twice in my life. It's a big reason why I don't drive anymore. My mom gets hella mad when I talk back to cops. Out of respect to her not wanting me to be killed by the police for literally just driving a nice car and working hard.
I know all my brothers and sisters have stories like this. I love you all and we'll be okay. I promise.