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I'm gonna resurrect one of my old blogs and post what I can recreate and create on there since groups is extinct.
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Gully Bull
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So this girl left the house knowing it is pouring rain
And done got in an accident
With her no driving ass
And done got in an accident
With her no driving ass
K.Dot
African American
It's not, but I was thirsty as shyt. I basically just came off as desperate when I was around relatively attractive women, especially when I treated myself as lesser than cause I didn't feel like I was good looking enough.
Even on herefor a while.
The only thing that snapped me back to reality was getting a job where I work with a lot of people. Mostly women in particular.that and having a good friend to open up to and break everything down to find an understanding of self.
A lot of self reflection happened this summer
I would just talk to people like I except nothing out of it. Then there is no pressure on yourself about being good enough or not. Contrary to popular belief you don't have to be "good enough " just to speak to someone.
That helped me too I was very shy and self conscious. My first retail just helped me with small talk and then I had a job where I was forced to have conversations with strangers over and over because I was going over paper work with them face to face. That helped a lot.
But I'm glad you are doing better. Remember, everyone has some kind of issue and flaws.
Whoever the person was that posted a link to that chick from ETSY with the earrings, this bytch is shady as fukk. I ordered my shyt on June 9th, and I'm still due half my order. She consistently lies about sending packages and tracking numbers. Like who sends merchandise in the mail and is nonchalant about it getting lost? Talking about if you get the other packages you can keep them. bytch, there are no packages! You didn't send that shyt.
ill_will82
What you see, is what you get
K.Dot
African American
I missed you love
That's what I'm learning to do honestly. It's an easier way to talk to women when the expectations aren't there. I just try to create a relaxed environment and just talk. I used to think because I was a bigger dude, even though I'm somewhat tall, so i dont look that big, that id get turned away instantly, so i was a reserved dude for a while.
I would just talk to people like I except nothing out of it. Then there is no pressure on yourself about being good enough or not. Contrary to popular belief you don't have to be "good enough " just to speak to someone.
That helped me too I was very shy and self conscious. My first retail just helped me with small talk and then I had a job where I was forced to have conversations with strangers over and over because I was going over paper work with them face to face. That helped a lot.
But I'm glad you are doing better. Remember, everyone has some kind of issue and flaws.
I basically work in a big clothes store and I'm moving around a lot so I come in contact with people needing help, throughout the day, and it somewhat helps me honestly.
And thank you. I realize people are flawed, but it can be hard to see that in the midst of self loathing.
But I know I'm not really worthless. I really feel like I have the potential to be great.
success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm 
letti cook
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K.Dot
African American
walking to work.....white dudes on motorcycles rolled by, gave me the nod and black power fists/
