That's what I'm learning to do honestly. It's an easier way to talk to women when the expectations aren't there. I just try to create a relaxed environment and just talk. I used to think because I was a bigger dude, even though I'm somewhat tall, so i dont look that big, that id get turned away instantly, so i was a reserved dude for a while.
I basically work in a big clothes store and I'm moving around a lot so I come in contact with people needing help, throughout the day, and it somewhat helps me honestly.
And thank you. I realize people are flawed, but it can be hard to see that in the midst of self loathing.
But I know I'm not really worthless. I really feel like I have the potential to be great.success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm
Retail will do that, you have to deal with people. I hate it lol.
Even if you did get turned away, they are just people. But I do realize that when you are down on yourself rejection is just another thing added to a long list you have of things wrong with you. Sometimes it can be a breaking point.
That's why I tell people you should focus on yourself, self improvement so you have a good foundation to just shake stuff off. All the stuff will come, your goals will even change. So keep doing you and getting better.
You do have potential, so just focus on that, don't compare yourself to others and be real with yourself. Also don't assume, guys psyche themselves out before the girl can even do anything.
@ you tagging him
you look familiar
