The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[El negrito de tejas]

Man you think the desperation from getting married is bad.you should see the ones who start getting baby making fever. They get so irrational they don't even care who impregnates them cause "they can take care of the baby themselves!"
It's like the clock from 24 starts to sound when they hit 30.

 

[Arianne Martell]

So, you're telling us you'll look better at 35 than at 25?

yes.

I was a runner when I was 25...now I mainly lift.

my face is more refined now because 25 I still had a baby face

when I was 25 my hair was relaxed and shoulder length...now is natural and below my shoulder blades...

so...yes, again

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

If u wanna start a family then yeah get married. But if u wanna have free time and a life, stay single. Facebook ruins it because everyone sees couples and a bunch of fake we are so happy together bullshyt. People believe the hype an when they knee deep in it they go "fukk.This is boring. "

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

When women stop caring about what is expected of us and how others will perceive us if we're still single and childless at a certain age then the desperation for marriage would decrease.

That desperation leads to settling which can lead to unhappiness and then the inevitable divorce.


Personally, I'm looking forward to my 30's without marriage and children. They will be about making myself happy and not living for other people.

 

[Piff Perkins]

The casual denigration of black women on this forum is fukking disgusting. I expect to hear this shyt on st0rmfr0nt, not on a majority black forum.



Marriage in your 20s seems like a waste to me. Early to mid 30s...sure I guess. But I'd rather spend my prime years with my options open until I find someone who is worth it.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

If u wanna start a family then yeah get married. But if u wanna have free time and a life, stay single. Facebook ruins it because everyone sees couples and a bunch of fake we are so happy together bullshyt. People believe the hype an when they knee deep in it they go "fukk.This is boring. "

Folks that are really happy don't have to post stuff like that. Folks are trying to convince themselves. People use social media to push stuff they don't really feel or represent. It's like when Shakespeare said, "All The World's A Stage", he was really thinking about Social Media in the distant future without knowing it.

 

[YouMadd?]

This is why I fukk with feminist... Currently dating a 22year old law school feminist that is rich as fukk off of daddy's money...

No hiccups, everything is so simple... Kids and marriage are an afterthought for her.

 

[MushroomX]

Also though the nightlife these girls in the 20's take. All that smoking and drinking to be cool, it time warps their skin so much more ahead.

In moderation. No these chicks pound shots. So when they are in their 30's, they spent their looks. Girls can look absolutely hot at 30's which is alright with me if they have that fine quality; not looking like a desperate mother.

Fatchicks are another story. If the girl is slighty with a stomach, I be down for that shyt as is a 'project' Teach her how to eat better, maybe she is a rusted dime underneath. As for the full blown, it's a sign to me they have a serious dependence on unhealthy eating. Those girls have the thirst, but that it overpowered by the doughnut-thirst when they say, "DONT JUDGE ME BY THE WAY HOW I EAT." when it's probably also they have 3 cats or maybe much more

Although not all ladies are the same, but I just like to advise there are some projects where if the damage is slight they can be made into dimes.

 

[Amulet of Immortality]

Homosexuals get married.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I'm about to be 30 in 2 weeks and the dating game is like NBA Free Agency so many options...

 

[Amulet of Immortality]

actually my looks have increased as I get older, my body, skin, hair, fashion sense etc. and I look for the same in potential mates...if dude have the slight beer belly potential .

Men that don't workout and do not take care of themselves would mean a risk for me in the future so I don't entertain them

my friend get on me for that, talking about I can change them...no ma'am I am not here to change no one, if they are not fit when I meet them, there is a great probability that is not going to change.

Stop lying holmes. Cell regeneration each generation reforms weaker and less desirable than the prior stage. This is the reason for DEATH. You are not fooling anyone with these lies

 

[Chris.B]

27 is too young to get married anyways...

for a man yes...not a woman.

Black women don't count here since no one is marrying them outchea :what1:

 

[Tae]

So on one hand you all are #GMB
On the other you all will criticize a woman who is over 35 never been married and childless. How is she to get married if most men are not interested in marriage? And let's even forget about the childless aspect, if she decided to keep a baby from a previous relationship you already know you all would be
I think men and women operate on different sides of the same coin.
On one side women want to be the one-in-a-million woman that will make a man change his "player" ways, on the other men are not interested in marriage unless they come across some one-in-a-million woman who will make him want to change his "player" ways.

 

[Easy-E]

It's hard out here for black women, my first year of college there was this 27 year old that somehow started likin me. She was fine with a damn job and her own place, can black chicks really not find a damn man out in the world? shyt is that bad?

It's very much true. Most black women have attitude/behavior problems that don't show up until later in the relationship when she finally let's the mask slip. Most of us men don't want to deal with the drama they constantly cause.

The OP says "women" and it took this <10 posts to turn into a referendum on black women.

 

[thegreatwb]

It's especially true for white women. They tank in looks very quickly. So, they basically have to be married before 30. Otherwise, the likelihood of becoming a cat lady increases, exponentially.

Men will always go for the younger chick.



Dave literally hit her with the and followed it up with a little

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/robin-korth/sex-over-50_b_5563576.html

WTF did Dave expect if he's dating a 55 year old white woman