I'm 29 no kids, no wife. Still look like I'm 21, I guess I had my fun and im suppose to settle down right?
The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:
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I'm 29 no kids, no wife. Still look like I'm 21, I guess I had my fun and im suppose to settle down right?
A lot of these older women will try to make you feel bad for not marrying or dating women their age, especially if they are desperate and see you with younger women on the regular.
Nintendough
#Kliq
Little by little i'm getting tired of the emotional baggage this current crop of marriage age women offer. Almost every single one has some attitude problem, a strange sense of entitlement or emotionally warped beyond repair. The ones who aren't have been cuffed since the junior year of college. I'm pretty much prepared to wait another 10 years so that this current crop can wither off. I can't name one woman that I would marry today.
I keep myself in shape, have a career and have limitless potential. I'm not settling.
I keep myself in shape, have a career and have limitless potential. I'm not settling.
Breh, this next crop of women aren't going to be any better. You think these current women have baggage, shiiiitt, this next crop's baggage is going to be documented and archived on social media. SMH.
Your best best is to get a foreign bytch or groom a bytch fresh of out high school!
Yup ive already got the what's wrong with you? Why aren't you married. Or its a accomplishment I don't have a b*stard or baby momma.
Also accuse you of being a player etc.
Women need to realize every day a new crop of chicks turning 18 are coming in
Every year they fall off a little bit more.
Also accuse you of being a player etc.
Women need to realize every day a new crop of chicks turning 18 are coming in
Every year they fall off a little bit more.
All you old ass nikkas think you look youngI'm 29 no kids, no wife. Still look like I'm 21, I guess I had my fun and im suppose to settle down right?
Haha
Stay away from our yung bytchesYup ive already got the what's wrong with you? Why aren't you married. Or its a accomplishment I don't have a b*stard or baby momma.
Also accuse you of being a player etc.
Women need to realize every day a new crop of chicks turning 18 are coming in
Every year they fall off a little bit more.
Nintendough
#Kliq
Your right. The next generations will probably go even more to shyt due to this skinny jeans and dumb shyt era. I see why cats like Derek Jeter and George Clooney operate the way they do.
Yup ive already got the what's wrong with you? Why aren't you married. Or its a accomplishment I don't have a b*stard or baby momma.
Also accuse you of being a player etc.
Women need to realize every day a new crop of chicks turning 18 are coming in
Every year they fall off a little bit more.
That "you must be a player " line always gets me
Let me clarify something before you continue...
Women's desire to have a family is not "desperation". Is embedded in our biological coding to have children to nurture etc. The reason that most women press the gas pedal late 20s-early 30s is because by that time, most women have accomplished academic, career, and financial stability as well as knowing the type of husband/father they would like to build a family with. Also, our bodies have been telling us to procreate since the time we get our first period; although, we don't consciously know that is what is happening. So, when you are finally ready to make that next step in your life and time is "running out"...this is what you guys call "desperation" and we call it the next phase of being a woman. I met an associate and she is my age; she told me that she has no desired to have children. That was the first time, a woman has ever told me that and I looked at her like she had a third eye.
like, how do you do that? 
Anyways, I was married at 22 years old and in my case it did not work out because both of us were acting like early 22 year old do. Then, I met someone else and we got engage lasted almost five years...and that did not work out, I was in my late 20s when that relationship ended. Now that I am 32, the type of man that I need to procreate with is a totally different man than those two previous relationships. I also feel more in control of my emotions, I have accomplished my academics, career wise, I am not there but I don't think I'll ever be there because I am always looking for ways to progress; however, that may change if I have a family. Overall, my priorities have simply evolved and accomplishing those desires does not mean that anybody will do, because I know that in the long-term is not going to work.
ain't nobody desperate
Women's desire to have a family is not "desperation". Is embedded in our biological coding to have children to nurture etc. The reason that most women press the gas pedal late 20s-early 30s is because by that time, most women have accomplished academic, career, and financial stability as well as knowing the type of husband/father they would like to build a family with. Also, our bodies have been telling us to procreate since the time we get our first period; although, we don't consciously know that is what is happening. So, when you are finally ready to make that next step in your life and time is "running out"...this is what you guys call "desperation" and we call it the next phase of being a woman. I met an associate and she is my age; she told me that she has no desired to have children. That was the first time, a woman has ever told me that and I looked at her like she had a third eye.
like, how do you do that? Anyways, I was married at 22 years old and in my case it did not work out because both of us were acting like early 22 year old do. Then, I met someone else and we got engage lasted almost five years...and that did not work out, I was in my late 20s when that relationship ended. Now that I am 32, the type of man that I need to procreate with is a totally different man than those two previous relationships. I also feel more in control of my emotions, I have accomplished my academics, career wise, I am not there but I don't think I'll ever be there because I am always looking for ways to progress; however, that may change if I have a family. Overall, my priorities have simply evolved and accomplishing those desires does not mean that anybody will do, because I know that in the long-term is not going to work.
ain't nobody desperate
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Real talk
It's one thing if your momma wants you to give her grandchildren but it's another when the chick your age that you're with will try to apply that age bullshyt on you. I've had my lady tell me that I'm "old" even tho I look much younger than her, take good care of myself, hairline is in tact (I'm a year into growing a fro) and I'm handling my business.
But because she foresees some
ness in her future, I should wanna act like I'm 50? fukk that. Don't let these females try and tell you to "act like a man" because you're not simping out like the nikkas that married their homegirls. A lot of these thirsty dudes out here simping know that whatever they have is the best it's gonna get. But you can't tell a dude in NY who's making corporate $, got his own crib, prospects, freedom and the world as his oyster that he should quit while he's ahead because you don't have it in you love the experience for what it's worth.