The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[mamba]

The marriage desperation doesn't really hit Black women until their early 30s. But, these white bytches are borderline depressed if the stars don't start aligning for them after 25.

I know white bytches who've attended 6-7 weddings this summer! After they've attended a few of them, they start getting antsy! Like I said, by 30, it's a wrap for most white chicks unless they wear a pound of makeup. So, 25-30 is crucial for them if they want to get married.

 

[Rawtid]

God bless those women.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

The marriage desperation doesn't really hit Black women until their early 30s. But, these white bytches are borderline depressed if the stars don't start aligning for them after 25.

I know white bytches who've attended 6-7 weddings this summer! After they've attended a few of them, they start getting antsy! Like I said, by 30, it's a wrap for most white chicks unless they wear a pound of makeup. So, 25-30 is crucial for them if they want to get married.

Some of these bytches cannot accept the fact that they are basic bytches. They see one of their extra average homegirls get married and start silently losing their minds and impressing that bullshyt on whoever they are with.

Start acting like a total head case over this marriage/kids bullshyt and then wonder why dudes like the energy of young broke chicks who just wanna know that their ass got a proper arc to it.

 

[mamba]

Let me clarify something before you continue...

Women's desire to have a family is not "desperation". Is embedded in our biological coding to have children to nurture etc. The reason that most women press the gas pedal late 20s-early 30s is because by that time, most women have accomplished academic, career, and financial stability as well as knowing the type of husband/father they would like to build a family with. Also, our bodies have been telling us to procreate since the time we get our first period; although, we don't consciously know that is what is happening. So, when you are finally ready to make that next step in your life and time is "running out"...this is what you guys call "desperation" and we call it the next phase of being a woman. I met an associate and she is my age; she told me that she has no desired to have children. That was the first time, a woman has ever told me that and I looked at her like she had a third eye. like, how do you do that?


Anyways, I was married at 22 years old and in my case it did not work out because both of us were acting like early 22 year old do. Then, I met someone else and we got engage lasted almost five years...and that did not work out, I was in my late 20s when that relationship ended. Now that I am 32, the type of man that I need to procreate with is a totally different man than those two previous relationships. I also feel more in control of my emotions, I have accomplished my academics, career wise, I am not there but I don't think I'll ever be there because I am always looking for ways to progress; however, that may change if I have a family. Overall, my priorities have simply evolved and accomplishing those desires those not mean that anybody will do, because I know that in the long-term is not going to work.

ain't nobody desperate

At 32, you also realize you're not the same women you were at 22 in the looks department, so your expectations in terms of a mate have been reduced. You know you have to cast a wider net these days.

 

[Trillion]

I've already posted my picture on here kewn.

Let me judge u nohomo
Noway u look 21

 

[mamba]

Some of these bytches cannot accept the fact that they are basic bytches. They see one of their extra average homegirls get married and start silently losing their minds and impressing that bullshyt on whoever they are with.

Start acting like a total head case over this marriage/kids bullshyt and then wonder why dudes like the energy of young broke chicks who just wanna know that their ass got a proper arc to it.

Yeah, breh. A lot of women overrate themselves. It's due in part to the numerous simps out chea. bytch can't cook, has no personality, looks are fading; yet, she thinks a top-notch nikka is going to stop playing the field for her. LOL!

A lot of these chicks get a reality check in the late 20s/early 30s. But, they don't use it as a teachable moment. Instead of working to improve, they try to shift blame on others.

 

[151_Pr00f]

Shell find a white man

I highly doubt that bruh, all her previous boyfriends and crushes have always been black. Pops instilled a sense of racial pride in us even though race has never been a qualifier for who we should date.

 

[MikelArteta]

Let me judge u nohomo
Noway u look 21

 

[Arianne Martell]

At 32, you also realize you're not the same women you were at 22 in the looks department, so your expectations in terms of a mate have been reduced. You know you have to cast a wider net these days.

actually my looks have increased as I get older, my body, skin, hair, fashion sense etc. and I look for the same in potential mates...if dude have the slight beer belly potential .

Men that don't workout and do not take care of themselves would mean a risk for me in the future so I don't entertain them

my friend get on me for that, talking about I can change them...no ma'am I am not here to change no one, if they are not fit when I meet them, there is a great probability that is not going to change.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

Women's desire to have a family is not "desperation". Is embedded in our biological coding to have children to nurture etc.

Okay so explain the women who do NOT want anything to do with children. Are they demon spawns then? Are they purposely ignoring their biological coding? Or *drumroll please* is the WANT to have a child an individual preference *gasp*

The reason that most women press the gas pedal late 20s-early 30s is because by that time, most women have accomplished academic, career, and financial stability as well as knowing the type of husband/father they would like to build a family with.

Lesbianest, we know from the age of 16 what females are going to be pressing that gas pedal. A female could not have all those things going for her and still be fiending for a husband.

 

[MikelArteta]

Sure, whatever you say .

How's your pof account treating you

actually my looks have increased as I get older, my body, skin, hair, fashion sense etc. and I look for the same in potential mates...if dude have the slight beer belly potential .

Men that don't workout and do not take care of themselves would mean a risk for me in the future so I don't entertain them

my friend get on me for that, talking about I can change them...no ma'am I am not here to change no one, if they are not fit when I meet them, there is a great probability that is not going to change.

 

[Arianne Martell]

Okay so explain the women who do NOT want anything to do with children. Are they demon spawns then? Are they purposely ignoring their biological coding? Or *drumroll please* is the WANT to have a child an individual preference *gasp*



Lesbianest, we know from the age of 16 what females are going to be pressing that gas pedal. A female could not have all those things going for her and still be fiending for a husband.

it could be any of the choices you mentioned, is all up to the individual.

I guess, blame it on Disney princess stories

Sure, whatever you say .

How's your pof account treating you

I don't have one or any online dating account.

 

[AAKing23]

Some true shyt being said in this thread


Just for the record I don't have anything against marriage itself and I would easily get married and commit myself to a woman who I felt was deserving. But I just don't see many women who are worthy, most of them got baggage and this entitlement complex that turns me all the way off. I knew shyt was real when men in my family started telling me "Don't get married".

 

[mamba]

actually my looks have increased as I get older, my body, skin, hair

So, you're telling us you'll look better at 35 than at 25?

 

[Trillion]

Nah forreal tho