The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[Yup]

The legit ones aren't the loudest voices in the community, talking about "Black male shortages" and other dumb shyt.

The sub-par chicks need to be addressed, which is why I address them.

Black women certainly aren't going to do it.

Why should bw address crappy women to men? You taking about crappy women is not doing anything than add to the negativety.

 

[Yup]

The legit ones aren't the loudest voices in the community, talking about "Black male shortages" and other dumb shyt.

The sub-par chicks need to be addressed, which is why I address them.

Black women certainly aren't going to do it.

I see plenty of bw being very critical of other women and how they behave, like all the time. I don't what you are talking about.

The evil mother in law trope has existed for centuries...women are harder on each other than men are sometimes.

 

[mamba]

Why should bw address crappy women to men? You taking about crappy women is not doing anything than add to the negativety.

These desperate 30+ women are out here talking about Black male shortages, how horrible Black men are, etc., where are the Black women to check them?

Where are the Black women holding those Black women accountable for squandering their youth?

Where are the Black women holding those Black women accountable, demanding that they do a realistic evaluation of their value in the dating market?

All I see is Black women being silent while those desperate Black women spread hate and misinformation about Black men.

It's one thing for Coli nikkas and others to joke around on a message board. Black women take to CNN, BBC, ABC, Ebony Magazine, ESSENCE and other outlets and shyt on Black men.

 

[mamba]

I see plenty of bw being very critical of other women and how they behave, like all the time. I don't what you are talking about.

The evil mother in law trope has existed for centuries...women are harder on each other than men are sometimes.

The mother-in-law suggests the woman has gotten married. We're not talking about those women.

We're talking about the "single" voices on their Black male shortage, Black men ain't shyt crusade.

Black women aren't checking those types.

 

[Yup]

Then these desperate 30+ women are out here talking about Black male shortages, how horrible Black men are, etc., where are the Black women to check them?

Where are the Black women holding those Black women accountable for squandering their youth?

Where are the Black women holding those Black women accountable, demanding that they do a realistic evaluation of their value in the dating market?

All I see is Black women being silent while those desperate Black women spread hate and misinformation about Black men.

It's one thing for Coli nikkas and others to joke around on a message board. Black women take to CNN, BBC, ABC, Ebony Magazine, ESSENCE and other outlets and shyt on Black men.

Ok breh, you clearly want to continue to solely make these bw ain't ish threads and 30+ ain't ish threads without switching it up. I'll be the one accused of back and forth on here anyway.

I'll let you cook. Keep on...

 

[El negrito de tejas]

Was there every any expectation of you wanting her to submit to you, or follow your lead, or let you be the man?

If so, I dunno what you guys expect. Its almost as if you don't see women as human just like you. Why would someone who has worked just as much and as hard as you turn over all their power to you while continuing to work just as hard? It doesn't make any sense. Would YOU do that? If men are so hellbent on not helping women financially, which it seems most of you on this site are, you should be strong supporters of Black women's equality. But you're not. Therein lies the disconnect. You want women to consider themselves inferior or at very best secondary to you, while doing everything that you do plus more.

Not saying this applies to your situation, although it might, just speaking in general.

There was never an expectation that she would submit to me. I don't want any woman submitting or bowing down to me.
I believe in truly equal relationship 50/50. We are a unit,companions, partners in crime.

 

[JerseyFinest!]

These desperate 30+ women are out here talking about Black male shortages, how horrible Black men are, etc., where are the Black women to check them?

Where are the Black women holding those Black women accountable for squandering their youth?

Where are the Black women holding those Black women accountable, demanding that they do a realistic evaluation of their value in the dating market?

All I see is Black women being silent while those desperate Black women spread hate and misinformation about Black men.

It's one thing for Coli nikkas and others to joke around on a message board. Black women take to CNN, BBC, ABC, Ebony Magazine, ESSENCE and other outlets and shyt on Black men.

Black women are also the biggest advocates for Black men. So it's a double edge sword.

And with any women regardless of race, when do women ever take responsibility for anything? Even when they take some, best believe some way some how it's going to be spun into them being the victim...that's what they do.

I can only speak about my people really, because that's who I only deal with on a social level really. But if you're a successful Black male in America, you're consider a "diamond in the ruff" and we know that and play our hands accordingly. It's not in women nature to want to be single while for us It takes a lot for us to be dedicated to 1 person. So the combination of the two has a lot of them frustrated.

 

[JerseyFinest!]

She was a Bad bytch then..........now don't let her see her friends getting married and even worse having kids with the husband.........Shiit married women are competitive, if you aint got kids its harsh, then when the weddings and bday parties and all that is popping you known as the chick there by herself. Trust my wifey got a fine ass friend always at functions by herself. A 10 and straight nuts, insane and crazy all wrapped in one. I have a front row seat to the insanity. That's why when I see some bad bytches out there by themself I know why, LOL. bytch is baaad but that crazy smh, aint no real nikkas dealing with it and the dudes who would be running and loving to deal with it she looks down on.

I live by the logic of if she's bad and been single for a hot min....95% chance she crazy

 

[iBrowse]

Ok breh, you clearly want to continue to solely make these bw ain't ish threads and 30+ ain't ish threads without switching it up. I'll be the one accused of back and forth on here anyway.

I'll let you cook. Keep on...

Now you're getting it finally goddamn

 

[JLova]

You have to think about having children. Broads ain't trying to get pregnant at 40.

They're on a stopwatch the minute they hit 20.

 

[Londilon]

Are a lot of Black women not bringing a lot of debt to the table along with their "degrees" and other shyt?

And expecting a nikka to help carry that debt load after marriage?

What type of job is a night doing that don't have a degree? Why are you so insecure that women have degrees, they have school debt, but most Americans have school debt unless you are a lazy fukkboy.

 

[Londilon]

What is that mean her value is dwindling? The point is in both situationsides people say what you want to hear to get what they want.

To fukkboy's a women's value is how good their body can hold up.

 

[mamba]

What type of job is a night doing that don't have a degree? Why are you so insecure that women have degrees, they have school debt, but most Americans have school debt unless you are a lazy fukkboy.

I don't have a problem with degrees at all. I have them!

I just don't like how Black women get on media and throw nikkas under the bus who don't have them. Especially when their degrees are in shyt that isn't paying more than what a man is making in a lot blue-collar jobs.

Those blue-collar brehs are making money without the student loan debt behind it, and some of those chicks have the nerve to look down on those dudes.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

How come all these women 25+ so desperate but whenever I ask out a 25+ woman she rejects me

- blackierobinson

 

[NicoleNecole]

I'm 29 no kids, no wife. Still look like I'm 21, I guess I had my fun and im suppose to settle down right?

When you feel ready and mature. Don't get married if your not mentally there yet. You will be miserable.