Anyone that has gone to uni and don't have rich parents can acquire debt. You know as well as I do that most blackS are way behind on that front.
The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:
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She was a Bad bytch then..........now don't let her see her friends getting married and even worse having kids with the husband.........Shiit married women are competitive, if you aint got kids its harsh, then when the weddings and bday parties and all that is popping you known as the chick there by herself. Trust my wifey got a fine ass friend always at functions by herself. A 10 and straight nuts, insane and crazy all wrapped in one. I have a front row seat to the insanity. That's why when I see some bad bytches out there by themself I know why, LOL. bytch is baaad but that crazy smh, aint no real nikkas dealing with it and the dudes who would be running and loving to deal with it she looks down on.
The desperation will have these women saying and doing anything.
Know your value, brehs. The rest is easy. Trust me.
Like a man telling you he will be your friend even though you have turned him down. It certainly goes both ways...
Most Black men don't throw "degrees" in Black women's faces and simultaneously hope they can chip in to service their student loan debt.
A lot of these "degreed" Black women are secretly hoping for a paid nikka to enable them "retire" without having to worry about those student loan payments anymore!
Most Black men don't throw "degrees" in Black women's faces and simultaneously hope they can chip in to service their student loan debt.
A lot of these "degreed" Black women are secretly hoping for a paid nikka to enable them "retire" without having to worry about those student loan payments anymore!
I won't say mist, cause I don't know....but many BM that have certain high level positions do their their own versions of "degree flaunting".
My mother has been on the receiving of two if them. I have experienced the uppity Ness of other BM in high positioNS and their arrogance.
Those bridal shower, baby shower, wedding, etc. situations are rough on the 30+ single woman.
A lot of them try their best to wiggle out of those situations, only to sit at home on Facebook later and look at the pictures on some
shyt.I don't feel sorry for them. They dig their own graves.
What is that mean her value is dwindling? The point is in both situationsides people say what you want to hear to get what they want.
A lot of women today look better older than before, when they take care of themselves. As for reproductibe value it depends if the man wants children. Men and women in theor 30's are more likely to be divorced with children.
I don't understand the question?
Are you insinuating that women are more likely than men to have student loan debt if they have both gone to university?
It seems so according to this article....Millennial women are saving half as much as millennial men - Fortune
For multiple reasons: pay gap, post secondary education and mat leave.
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Fukk the govt I got my own Deficit
I'm pretty sure that's not what he's saying and I'll add to what he meant.
My ex of 6 yrs was getting her master's degree and working a salary job as a general manager of a restaurant. Never in the previous 5yrs did she ever say she wanted to be a stay at home mother and just be a house wife. Once I graduated and started looking into jobs in the oil and gas industry her entire tune switched up. She went from "I can take care of myself" to "I don't want to do this anymore I see no problem being a stay at home wife and watching the kids."
I'm sitting here thinking "oh Hell no!!! Whose supposed to pay for your student loan debt of 85k you racked up?" I for damn sure am not gonna be paying for anybody's education. I didn't make you go get your master's degree.
But guess what? It's pretty much expected that me as her boy friend/future husband should have no problem paying her student loan debt
Most people that I know both have debts that they consolidate and both parties work together to pay that off. Plus, finance should be discussed before and during marriage.
I plan on paying my debt off myself....I have seen my share of selfish people so I can understand that. I just don't know too many women who stay home and expect their spouses to pay off their loans.