I see what you're saying. I'm not necessarily trying to disprove you, just saying things from my point of view. I realize that the time commitment that comes with working can drag you down, but depending on the work you're doing you can make progress in other areas. I just want people to keep their options and opportunities open because you never know how they might turn out.I'm not doubting that. But at the end of the day you have a time commitment that's greater than 0 hours a week. That your top competition didn't have. Could you have made up for it yes. But who would I bet my money on and who has the advantage all things else being equal , your competition that didn't work.
Not an argument.its just you haven't disproven my point that all else being equal to work or not to work the person that doesn't work has the clear advantage in time to get things done and not worry about a job even if the job involved you "not working". That's all I'm saying.
To all your young brehs going into the college if you had the chance not to work and can afford the loan or scholarship do it that way and maximize your time. You will have the advantage over your peers.
I've watched too many people work just to live off campus and afford a lifestyle during those four years that it seemed sweet then but they were living in the moment and not thinking about the investment.
I've witnessed the same thing as you with people living in the moment. I've been trying to hit some of them with some long-term thinking knowledge. For example, I was talking with a dude in a couple of my classes and we were talking about post college and financial security. His view? I'm going to get a job and get an apartment and buy a nice car... and that's it. And this comes from a middle class kid who has faced little to no adversary in life. Now, what did I lay out for him? Get a Entry-Mid level job. Within 5 years move into a senior position. Within 5 years of that move into project management, then assess my options following that.. All the while investing in the market and building assets (and I realize this sounds like given the posts you'll find on The Coli). I don't know what it was, but this past summer changed me from thinking a year down the line to thinking 5, 10 years down the line. I personally was never "living in the moment" type of person but when I realize the possibilities out there...