It may not bother you but in general it does bother black women
Just like no matter how much black men deny it, we would be bothered by black women chasing white men in large numbers
The biggest lie ever told: "Black men chase white women"
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Just like no matter how much black men deny it, we would be bothered by black women chasing white men in large numbers
Desirous
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Baah. I don't like her cause I don't really like people that generalize.
My girlfriends who are black don't fit the stereotype she talks about. I think in every culture there are more rotten apples than good ones. But you'd date a black female, just not one that fits into those stereotypes (just like you prob wouldn't date a white chick that fits into certain stereotypes), correct?
I just really really believe in judging people individually, at the end of the day.
No he wouldn't date any black woman.
He's got a pretty extensive post history on this site to support that.
I believe that too...but majority of black women have attitude problems and start drama for no reason. Your friend maybe an exception.
Remember this a black women talking about her experiences with other black women and she has nothing positive to say about most and she also has a disclaimer on the video.
"This video does not apply to all black women and all black men."
13 mins? this bytch better have the lines on ALL of tomorrow's football games too
and its not that we dont wanna be serious with black women. we just dont want to be serious with WACK women
Desirous
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Ahem don't judge people exclusively on their posts though
Touche.Ahem don't judge people exclusively on their posts though
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
You a white chick right?Ahem don't judge people exclusively on their posts though
Im sure he got to you too.
Desirous
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I haven't really encountered that, so I guess my experience is different. To me, saying "black" or "white" women is too broad, because characteristics are individual, but also, things like: where you live, how you grew up etc. do have an impact on how you might act. Example: you grow up in a neighbourhood/culture where men are aggressive, maybe you're more aggressive in order to be able to defend yourself around them.
My parents are from two different countries in Europe...and although the cultures are somewhat similar, the dynamics of how women, in general, act are very different. Bulgarian women are seen as more aggressive/progressive while Macedonian women are seen as more submissive and traditional. They're both European, white, Balkan cultures, but there are still differences. Then, within that grouping, you have Bulgarian women from the countryside vs city women - and there are differences there too (and lastly, individual differences, of course).
I understand that she has that disclaimer and people do judge based on their personal experiences, which is understandable, but I never understood not giving someone a chance just because they "might be like this or that" - cause you never really know until you put your experiences/pre-judgement aside and just try to deconstruct that particular person without letting outside factors get in the mix.
Basically it's a black woman saying she would never date a black woman if she were a black man.
She had this realization after seeing black men dating other races on college campuses and asked her self why?
She makes some good points but it's not even a race thing to me, but a culture thing. A lot of white dudes are complaining about their white women too. I recommend brothas who still want to date black women to travel abroad.
Desirous
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Stop.You a white chick right?
Im sure he got to you too.
