The biggest lie ever told: "Black men chase white women"

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Imma have to disagree with this bullchit. Black men are usually the ones pursuing non-black women. Just look at this forum, dudes gass up non-black women as if they're their own yet you never see this on a white girl message board. You guys are deluded.

LOL so you're using this forum as a reference to how people act in the real world? I'd say you're the one that's deluded.

And we have a white girl posting in this thread right now. :bryan:
 

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no its not...it is a generalization tho....

there are a lot of black women who DO in fact have a problem with it.....

but like all generalizations they dont speak for every individual...

That's why I always wonder why people don't use words like "some" or "a lot" (like you just did).

People can't paint everyone with the same brush and expect someone to not take exception. Most of the women I know personal don't give a damn because it's never stopped us from getting men. It just seems like an older generation issue, in my experience. I know it probably makes some people feel good to think it, but a good portion of black women are NOT sitting at home crying (especially this new generation of black women who are accustomed to multiculturalism and want to date out as well).
 

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I'm not sure if this is a European thing...I'm European and I don't initiate - I like assertive men.

I really meant "White European" girls. Meaning White European girls seemed more assertive than Black European girls, but that's only in my personal experience.
 

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I really meant "White European" girls. Meaning White European girls seemed more assertive than Black European girls, but that's only in my personal experience.
I'm White European. But I understand if that has been your experience though...can't argue with that.
 

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That's why I always wonder why people don't use words like "some" or "a lot" (like you just did).

People can't paint everyone with the same brush and expect someone to not take exception. Most of the women I know personal don't give a damn because it's never stopped us from getting men. It just seems like an older generation issue, in my experience. I know it probably makes some people feel good to think it, but a good portion of black women are NOT sitting at home crying (especially this new generation of black women who are accustomed to multiculturalism and want to date out as well).

Exactly. I have NEVER cared about black men dating white women (or any woman at that) and from what I notice other black women don't care either but for some reason some black dudes always try to make it seem like all black women are just sooo angry when they date other races. :heh:
 

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Exactly. I have NEVER cared about black men dating white women (or any woman at that) and from what I notice other black women don't care either but for some reason some black dudes always try to make it seem like all black women are just sooo angry when they date other races. :heh:
Unless someone is fukking with my health, money, or people I love, I could care less what they do/who they're with etc.
 

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Exactly. I have NEVER cared about black men dating white women (or any woman at that) and from what I notice other black women don't care either but for some reason some black dudes always try to make it seem like all black women are just sooo angry when they date other races. :heh:
So if all black men just stopped dating black women completely, do you think most black women just wouldn't care? :mjpls:
 

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So if all black men just stopped dating black women completely, do you think most black women just wouldn't care? :mjpls:

The black women that only want to date black men would probably care. But I wouldn't. :manny:
 

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So if all black men just stopped dating black women completely, do you think most black women just wouldn't care? :mjpls:
lol that's never going to happen. A lot of people also date both black and white and whomever they just happen to be feeling at the moment...it's not always an exclusivity thing.
 

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I'm not really sure how me not caring who black men date is c00ning, but ok.
You said you wouldn't care if the Black men stopped dating Black women completely, so you obviously don't care for the Black family, right?
 
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