The Audacity: Dad offers son $30K. Son's fiancée wants written agreement of 50/50 split of the gift

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Can’t tell anyone personally what to do with their money.

With that being said, if someone offered me that amount and then my fiancé complained, she wouldn’t be my fiancé any longer...

 

[Trajan]

She sounds toxic

 

[Turbulent]

GMB

 

[NotaPAWG]

that relationship is doomed

i didn’t even read past the first two paragraphs to know that this man should bush his fiancé

 

[Panther]

son’s a fukking idiot

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[skokiaan]

She's planning an exit before they even get married

If duke can't see that, I don't know what to tell him

when it's #gmb before u gmb

 

[Peter Popoff]

Father should wait on it until the eminent future divorce. The writing is on the wall that this woman does not love him and is only looking out for herself and a quick cash grab. Selfishness and love cannot coexist with one another and that relationship is clearly one sided if he's willing to succumb to her demand over his own father.

 

[Peter Popoff]

The student loans alone should make that bytch toxic waste.

The student loans shouldn't even be an excuse to not have children. I doubt they have an interesting sex life.

 

[Originalman]

Few things. One the dad shouldn't offer until they are married.

Two the heffa dumb cause now she done burned bridges and hasn't even married into the famliy. The smart way to handle this (which ignorant mothafukkas have no tact now a days especially young folks) is to say to her fiance lets wait until after we get married to get a house. See that way you ain't burning any bridges and probably getting some points from the family cause you handling business the responsible way and you still getting what you want.

But nooo this dumb heffa gots to be a big mouth...shooting off at the hip and shooting herself in the foot.

Cause like the writer said if your son marries her everything they accumulate together gets split if they get divorced even their debt.

For the young lady this is what we call when keeping it real goes wrong aka fukking yourself out of money cause your mouth too big.

 

[Umoja]

It is a red flag and the son knows which is why he told his dad and is no longer looking at new places.

He effectively wants someone to confirm to him that it isn't right. Think about how bent out of shape women get when asked to sign a prenup. Now think about what it would take to demand agreements that secures goodwill not intended for her.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

bush that bytch before it's too late

 

[Originalman]

Imagine a boy engaged to a young lady.

The young lady nor her finance have a car. The mom steps in and buys the young lady a car for say 15k cash and wants to put her daughter (young lady) name on the car title.

Concerned that if they separate he won't have a ride...the boyfriend/fiance demands that his finance's mother includes his name on the car title.

Now if this was a true story ain't no one worth a damn who wouldn't tell that young lady to dump that sorry ass boy and run for the hills as fast as she can.

 

[NotaPAWG]

She's planning an exit before they even get married

If duke can't see that, I don't know what to tell him

bingo

if your fiancé already discussing divorce what if’s.. she using you as a come up

she sees this man as a mark!

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Few things. One the dad shouldn't offer until they are married.

Two the heffa dumb cause now she done burned bridges and hasn't even married into the famliy. The smart way to handle this (which ignorant mothafukkas have no tact now a days especially young folks) is to say to her fiance lets wait until after we get married to get a house. See that way you ain't burning any bridges and probably getting some points from the family cause you handling business the responsible way and you still getting what you want.

But nooo this dumb heffa gots to be a big mouth...shooting off at the hip and shooting herself in the foot.

Cause like the writer said if your son marries her everything they accumulate together gets split if they get divorced even their debt.

For the young lady this is what we call when keeping it real goes wrong aka fukking yourself out of money cause your mouth too big.

It’s because they REALLY BELIEVE they’ve “earned” it somehow

the power of “belief” is a really amazing thing. Makes ppl believe the earth is flat...

 

[Rawtid]

He shouldn’t marry her if that’s what she is concerned about. If someone is offering us as a couple $30k to buy a house, I’d be looking for a house, not worrying about a split.

Then her dumb ass parents.