He gave good feedback on the subject. I know this may not be popular on The Coli though since there's some here who don't care how the foundation of the relationship is with a non-black woman. As long as she's non-black, preferably white, then dignity be damned.
Many black people enter into IR relationships with blinders on. Thinking that this person "gets" it and will see things from a black perspective or at least be sympathetic to it. And that's not necessarily true. As Tariq stated, a non-black person can date and marry black yet still think non-black. But generally when blacks date and marry non-black, you start hearing "all lives matter" and "what about black on black crime."
Unfortunately, due to lack of racial dignity, created by racism/white supremacy, some black people are easily co-opted by non-black partners to act in a way that is against their own interests as a member of the black population.
Peace