This was true years ago but women are now more educated than men to the point schools have to admit more dudes to even out the ratio. Half of this MAGA shyt is dudes falling behind women. So yes - women are judged on looks and it’s easier for a successful regular looking dude to get an attractive woman than vice versa - but it’s not as extreme as people make it out to be. It’s thst women want a certain guy, the way men want a certain woman, and there aren’t too many of them. Most people end up marrying someone of their equal education and looks status.
Rarely do you see some fat corporate dude with a bad ass wife unless he really has bread or was tricking on her. Sydney is in a field that is damn near entirely based on looks so it’s a different ball game.
Oh of course, but what I was saying was at the end of the day the reason women still have these catty moments is because we are judging each other the way society judges us.
Of course it’s not cool to be a cute stupid chick or a cute bum with nothing going for yourself, but at the end of the day women still feel the judgement and comparisons from society when it comes to our looks, weight, age, etc.
You don’t get it because you aren’t a woman. I listen to older women because that whole becoming “invisible” thing is real and happens to most. You can prolong it if you actually look good, but I’ve literally had patients in my office talk to other staff and their face and attitude completely change when they see me, or hell, light up even more if there’s a girl younger than me.
It’s a real thing, and that’s what women react to.
At a certain point it becomes evident that society was nice to you because you were young, or young and pretty. That’s why I said it’s a mindfukk if you aren’t prepared for it. I had women in my fam saying slick shyt to me when I was a kid because my looks were coming in, and I didn’t know wtf was going on. Now, the women in my fam who were baddies when they were young, they pulled me aside at one point and said “hey, you came out beautiful”. But that was AFTER some ppl were giving me attitude for no reason. It’s because no matter how accomplished you are, someone will still initially take more interest in someone else who looks cuter or is younger.