Sydney Sweeney - "This entire industry, all people say is “Women empowering other women.” None of it’s happening. All of it is fake and a front......

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It’s not about hating each other. It’s about hating how how society treats women and us not knowing how to verbalize it or deal with it.


You have to learn/be taught not to internalize society’s beauty standards.

So some men get jealous when they encounter a man who is more successful than them. But guess what? If you put in the work you will be like him.

When a woman sees a really attractive woman, especially if she doesn’t look old yet, there’s nothing you can do because women are judged by the looks we were born with. A short, ugly man can still get his money and status up. An unattractive woman can’t actually DO anything about her face (unless she gets surgery or wears make up all the time).

This is why ppl say you’re lucky when you are born with good looks. You were blessed with something that gives you favor and you didn’t have to work for it.

Society is shallow as hell. And ppl understand that a pretty woman can receive great things in life simply because of her looks.


So it’s not about hating other women, per se. It’s hating that society ranks/rates you in a way that you can’t help or change. A man can change society’s perception of him based on his success.

That’s why I said she needs to soak it up and run up the bag. No one wants to say “you’re young and hot and you can get whatever you want right now”.
And she isn’t my cup of tea, but that doesn’t mean I can’t acknowledge that she’s hot right now.

You know how many women of all races probably wanted to kill Halle or Salma simply because they were born with beautiful faces and bodies to match?

The things that I have heard over the years from really attractive women about their inner lives and inter group dynamics are always somewhat shocking, insightful and maybe not horrifying, but something like that.

The pettiness and group conflict regarding attractiveness and how that it is weaponized in friend groups, like what guy liked what woman. I would hear these stories and just be shocked that they would spend any of their time thinking about things like that. Like those kinds of things take up zero space in my mind.

and in some cases, these are highly educated professional class women. I am far from the "average guy" like I read women's lit on gender issues, I can quote female scholars and writers, from a range of perspectives from Kaite Rophie to Amia Sirvinasian, to Roxanne Gay, to shyt like Susanna Moore, Annie Ernaux, Christine Emba (who you may want to check out) Redefining Sex is what I read

Doesn't mean I take every position they do, or even understand their postion, but it gives me perspective sometimes - too far into the minds of academics, because day to day woman I know don't think the same, but like you said they don't have the knowledge.
 
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I think she gets it.

They all "get it" when they're in their 20s. Then they marry RFK Jr.

I like a good looking white woman like any red blooded male, but they're probably more full of shyt than any class of people alive.

Most people get a little more "conservative" as they age, but nobody switches up the playbook and does more of a 180 than white women.

I'm sure if she was brave enough to name some of the names of the women she's talking about who are giving her a hard time behind closed doors, you could go back to the early 00s or the 90s and they have similar quotes in their interviews that she's giving now.
 

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They all "get it" when they're in their 20s. Then they marry RFK Jr.

I like a good looking white woman like any red blooded male, but they're probably more full of shyt than any class of people alive.

Most people get a little more "conservative" as they age, but nobody switches up the playbook and does more of a 180 than white women.

I'm sure if she was brave enough to name some of the names of the women she's talking about who are giving her a hard time behind closed doors, you could go back to the early 00s or the 90s and they have similar quotes in their interviews that she's giving now.
Because white women give their daughters the playbook. They know how and when to capitalize on looks and youth. They use their looks and youth like currency, which is shrewd and sets you up for a comfortable future if you do it right. So they definitely GET IT, which is also why they are the most vocal about this shyt when they are old and lose their looks.
 

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The things that I have heard over the years from really attractive women about their inner lives and inter group dynamics are always somewhat shocking, insightful and maybe not horrifying, but something like that.

The pettiness and group conflict regarding attractiveness and how that it is weaponized in friend groups, like what guy liked what woman. I would hear these stories and just be shocked that they would spend any of their time thinking about things like that. Like those kinds of things take up zero space in my mind.

and in some cases, these are highly educated professional class women. I am far from the "average guy" like I read women's lit on gender issues, I can quote female scholars and writers, from a range of perspectives from Kaite Rophie to Amia Sirvinasian, to Roxanne Gay, to shyt like Susanna Moore, Annie Ernaux, Christine Emba (who you may want to check out) Redefining Sex is what I read

Doesn't mean I take every position they do, or even understand it, but it gives me perspective sometimes too far into the minds of academics, because day to day woman I know don't think the same.
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Because, like I said, society doesn’t really value women based on our education. When you are older and need to show that you’ve done something with your life or need to provide for yourself, sure.

But, those professional women are being catty about each other’s looks because in the grand scheme of things society is catty about our looks. Despite their achievements, they know that if a woman with half their experience and twice the looks walks in the door, people will pay attention to her. That’s the experience of womanhood.
It’s a man’s world, and men like em young and pretty. If we didn’t interact with men at all it wouldn’t matter what other women look like.

Men are judged by status, women looks.

We get the raw deal ultimately when it comes to these dynamics.

Who is the female Donald Trump? The female Harvey Weinstein? Etc.


Cher is paying for a boy toy half her age, and Madonna does that too, but really…other than that, does society accept women throwing our money/status around to get what we want? Oprah doesn’t get to be as obnoxious as rich male celebs.


Women should strive to achieve great things simply because we deserve the right to pursue intellectual pursuits and control our lives, but society as a whole puts a priority on our age and looks because woman= baby factory.

I mean, look at the way ppl talked about Hilary Clinton during her presidential campaign VS Kamala. Even how they talked about Kamala vs Michelle Obama.

NOOOOO ONE attacked Kamala’s looks.
Trump even stated how beautiful one of her magazine covers was :deadrose:

Attacking a woman’s looks is always #1 but they didn’t dare try it because anyone with eyes can see she is beautiful AND intelligent.



This shyt is a mindfukk if you don’t know what the deal is, and most women don’t because people don’t break this shyt down.
 

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Well yes,we know women are very competetive when it comes to attention from who they desire attention from. But thats literally what they are supposed to do in Hollywood:mjlol:. Some of them are competing for the same roles. And of course they want to be seen by the people who can make their career. Everything shes complaining about is practically the nature of her sport.


This is like when female rappers complain about other female rappers not being able to coexist,and coming for their spot. I see the point but thats kindve the nature of the sport of hiphop. And for women there was a time when it seemed like less spots at the top were available.


Plus if I had to guess I would say people question her success more than they "hate". Is questioning someones success hating? Im sure the beautiful women in Hollywood see her,and wonder how shes so in demand. Her face is honesly about a 6. So the dimes are probably questioning how she is where shes at. Then you have the world class actresses,and the charismatic actresses thinking "Her acting is okay,but does it warrant the success and visibility shes gettig:comeon:.




Cant really fault women for questioning and looking sideways at women they deem middling in looks or acting. The #MeToo era told the world alot of these women were fukking their way into roles and stardom. They didnt mind taking away from more deserving women when they were throwing it back for Weinstein:respect:
 

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I LITERALLY just acknowledged this :deadrose:




It’s jealousy over something we can’t control/change.

We are ranked over something we can’t help.


Are they going to hate her in 20 years? NO.
It’s now because she’s hot and young NOW.

If more women were honest about their experiences and how society treats/views us, women and girls would be better prepared.


I had a candid talk about this shyt with my aunt when I was out of town last week and she looked me in the eye and asked me to talk to her granddaughter. No one broke it down for me for real. It was the men in my family who were like “yeeeeeeea you’re the kind of girl who can get by on your looks”.
Y'all hate everlasting. Sydney will be hated in 20 years cuz she's still gonna have them THANGS looking fire
 

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Demi Moore’s new movie “Substance” is a great film about this topic. Like another breh said thats the nature of Hollywood. Its designed that way too so that the gatekeepers can keep them bussin it open for low pay and get them hooked on coke.

Women always been competitive about their looks but social media highlighted even more to the slow ones who didnt get the message right away. U notice there aint really a big or ugly girl out of a group anymore to elevate the other ones. They just all stay together and hate on the other groups like a group of big girls will hit IHop while the group of hot girls will hit the pool party
 

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Once them big juicy t*ts start looking like dinosaur eggs she gonna end up being treated like Demi in The Substance. I have to ask.. what is Psycho Syd doing for other women? She gotta make sure her grass is cut before stepping out like this. Hopefully she not just out here having her way and expecting women to support her just because.
 

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Because, like I said, society doesn’t really value women based on our education. When you are older and need to show that you’ve done something with your life or need to provide for yourself, sure.
This was true years ago but women are now more educated than men to the point schools have to admit more dudes to even out the ratio. Half of this MAGA shyt is dudes falling behind women. So yes - women are judged on looks and it’s easier for a successful regular looking dude to get an attractive woman than vice versa - but it’s not as extreme as people make it out to be. It’s thst women want a certain guy, the way men want a certain woman, and there aren’t too many of them. Most people end up marrying someone of their equal education and looks status.

Rarely do you see some fat corporate dude with a bad ass wife unless he really has bread or was tricking on her. Sydney is in a field that is damn near entirely based on looks so it’s a different ball game.
 
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