STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

[VFib]

how tall are you?

5'4

 

[Yup]

5'4

I'm shorter 5'2" I wish I was your height

 

[Ohene]

Think about it like this, what is your reaction when an able-bodied homeless grown ass man comes up to you with his stories of hardship trying to get some money?

the thing with homeless folks is that they are stinky, dirty and literally have NOTHING to offer you as a stranger.
so i ask fam, did you really just compare yourself to a stinky, dirty homeless man with nothing to offer? because thats your implication

see how effed up that is? Confidence brehs.

 

[VFib]

I saw her approaching from the parking lot and held the door....for 4 or so seconds as she approached. Chivalry held that L that day.

I would have given you the biggest smile and thank you. I love chivalry.

 

[Audemar]

Maybe because those guys have low self-esteem? Maybe they feel they aren't attractive enough, tall enough, etc.? You won't know how those guys feel unless you've been in their shoes.

Some guys were fortunate enough to automatically have the talent of successfully approaching and attracting women and some guys aren't so fortunate.

False. Even the homie @PhonZhi will agree. No one starts out automatically with anything; you just have to be willing to accept rejection. If you're really afraid of rejection, start small i.e conversation without the goal being sex then work your way up. For self-esteem issues, like I said before, work on self-improvement first. The problem is some cats expect to bag to women of all caliber even though they are

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[PhonZhi]

Females so cruel nowadays. Wanna be so stuck up and harsh. Scroll through my fb timeline and see bytches post screenshots of nikkas tryna spit game.

Honestly, this is the problem rite here: the internet. Fuk FB, fuk IG, fuk Twitter. I dont fuk with none of it. FB a little and thats it. There ARE good approachable women out there. I cant understand why most of you Coli dudes hate women, especially black women. Maybe its because im a normal, "square" type black dude who's only dealt with normal, "square" type black women, but i just cant relate to the mindset that most of you have towards women.

 

[Brofato]

5'4

you're taller than me

 

[At30wecashout]

Breh, don't you see why she told you no?
Nah, no strange face. We have this large mall in Lincolnwood, and In the evening it can be pitch black in the lot on the way to the front entrance. It's damn winter and this lady is on the phone with one hand tucked under her arms. I hold the door...and hold it....and hold it...she approaches, nods affirmatively and I say "no problem." A little more than earshot within the entrance is a auntie Anne's pretzel spot, near an escalator. She was headed toward the escalator and I toward the pretzel stand. Suddenly she says "oh nothing, some creepy guy near the door." I shoulda stole her purse to pay for my pretzel.




Did you have the instead of the ?



A respectful approach goes a long way, even with "feminists".

Awww

 

[YeLovesBoston]

Honestly, this is the problem rite here: the internet. Fuk FB, fuk IG, fuk Twitter. I dont fuk with none of it. FB a little and thats it. There ARE good approachable women out there. I cant understand why most of you Coli dudes hate women, especially black women. Maybe its because im a normal, "square" type black dude who's only dealt with normal, "square" type black women, but i just cant relate to the mindset that most of you have towards women.

yo chill g, i just made an observation

 

[PhonZhi]

Don't listen to what internet posters says. There are plenty of women who appreciate men who respect them. Log off FB, IG, Twitter,TheColi, etc. Get out there in the actual world. Put your cellphones away. We are out there.

Thank you

 

[TEH]

@At30wecashout

What was her race, ethnicity? Just curious?

 

[At30wecashout]

I would have given you the biggest smile and thank you. I love chivalry.

Eh, thanks, but nah. Chilvalry died. I ask myself:

"I did it for Brianna...would I do it for Brandon?"

If I wouldn't do it for a dude I didn't know, I wont do it for a lady now. Least I'm not playing favorites. Rather be called an a$$hole than a creep.

 

[At30wecashout]

What was her race, ethnicity?

Some random white lady. Looked to be early 20s.

 

[TEH]

Some random white lady. Looked to be early 20s.

 

[b_priest9mm]

I keep tryna tell yall if you're attractive, this is a non-issue. You can literally talk to women anywhere.