STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH

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Get your money up. Plus all your dates don't have to be expensive.

Swagless and under 6ft? So? What the F is swag anyway? Nick Cannon is a cornball and he got Mariah.
I have dated men from 5'6 all the way to 6'4. I'm short so as long as you are taller then me, we are good.
Pretty much homegirl. Unfortunately people will make excuses all day. It ultimately comes down to a fear of rejection.

When I was making $35K a year, wearing jeans and tees to work, scruffy, taking the bus I was hollering at girls because I ultimately believed that i was that dude or had the potential to be regardless of my current situation. I once bagged a chick wearing a lime green cast for my broken ankle and using crutches. :mjlol:

Making $60K, going to work dressed in trousers, dress shirts and ties and its the same story. I'm gonna put my bid in regardless. If you decline its on to the next one. If you willing to kick it with a real nikka, get to know one another and build however...lets do it. Dudes need to start believing in themselves because generally if youre polite human beings arent that rude or off putting. Just be respectful and open your mouth to blurt something out. It works fellas.
 

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you late fam,i been a part of this movement for 22 years
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I didn't understand the concept when it was first introduced to me by my dad.
 

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lately ive been trying to find some books on those subjects. making friends is something i need to take initiative in. so far im about to get this job on monday. then lose weight. i feel if i lose weight my confidence will grow.

I wont front, most of my confidence stems from my looks. Not tryna sound vain or anything but i keep myself in shape and my body lookin rite. Ive been an avid gym rat for the last 8 or so years so im confident in my looks. Even with that said tho, even prime Denzel or Brad Pitt cant pull 100% of the time. You're NOT going to be everybody type no matter how good looking u are. Thats why its called "a numbers game". But it definantly helps to be in as good shape as you can be when it comes to approaching a stranger

A female pretty much knows if she'll fukk you within 3secs. So if you're PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE that will up your chances. All you really have to do is not say anything stupid.

Women LOVE confidence so i would def advice to lose weight. Do it for YOU tho. Get that money and work on YOU. The confidence will grow and talking to women will become easier.
 

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Ignore those who are cold hearted and focus on those who aren't. I don't give my time to men who clearly hate women. If he is disrespectful, he gets ignored. Respectful men get my time.

Don't listen to what internet posters says. There are plenty of women who appreciate men who respect them. Log off FB, IG, Twitter,TheColi, etc. Get out there in the actual world. Put your cellphones away. We are out there.
 

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I'm saying b. How can you as a man (historically accepted as socially dominant) say to yourself: "I'm not going to approach a chick I like because I'm out of her league:flabbynsick::mjcry:?" :martin:

Maybe because those guys have low self-esteem? Maybe they feel they aren't attractive enough, tall enough, etc.? You won't know how those guys feel unless you've been in their shoes.

Some guys were fortunate enough to automatically have the talent of successfully approaching and attracting women and some guys aren't so fortunate.
 

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Dudes need to start believing in themselves because generally if youre polite human beings arent that rude or off putting.
Facts. I just think for a lot of dudes it's hard to get confidence without having that first bit of success so they essentially get stuck in a position where they never make the initial move. Also, a lot of dudes need to just focus on themselves first and watch how the confidence builds on itself.
 

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Pretty much homegirl. Unfortunately people will make excuses all day. It ultimately comes down to a fear of rejection.

When I was making $35K a year, wearing jeans and tees to work, scruffy, taking the bus I was hollering at girls because I ultimately believed that i was that dude or had the potential to be regardless of my current situation. I once bagged a chick wearing a lime green cast for my broken ankle and using crutches. :mjlol:

Making $60K, going to work dressed in trousers, dress shirts and ties and its the same story. I'm gonna put my bid in regardless. If you decline its on to the next one. If you willing to kick it with a real nikka, get to know one another and build however...lets do it. Dudes need to start believing in themselves because generally if youre polite human beings arent that rude or off putting. Just be respectful and open your mouth to blurt something out. It works fellas.
Asantehene is the man
 

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I appoarched this girl at the gym one time and she was like I have a boyfriend, so I ended up following her home for a couple of weeks I didn't see a boyfriend.

Why don't women just say " No." ? There's no need to lie and say you have a boyfriend when you don't.

Breh, don't you see why she told you no?



I once opened a door for a woman and she called me creepy.

Did you have the :shaq::takedat: :datazz: instead of the :myman::banderas::biggrin:?

I don't think there's anything wrong with approaching anyone, but I see where you're coming from. Some of these women have lost their damn minds with this street harassment shyt.

A respectful approach goes a long way, even with "feminists".
 

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Get your money up. Plus all your dates don't have to be expensive.

Swagless and under 6ft? So? What the F is swag anyway? Nick Cannon is a cornball and he got Mariah.
I have dated men from 5'6 all the way to 6'4. I'm short so as long as you are taller then me, we are good.

how tall are you?
 
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