A lady is a lady. I've gotten it from black girls too. Been called creep 5 times in my life, and that word sticks out. It's a half step from calling me a murderous rapist.
STOP TALKING TO WOMEN. Don't say anything to Random women. #HOH
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A lady is a lady. I've gotten it from black girls too. Been called creep 5 times in my life, and that word sticks out. It's a half step from calling me a murderous rapist.
Not really attraction is subjective. The problem here imo is that many of us can't read other people well. You can pick up cues to if a female wants you or not. This is not a natural skill for a lot of people but it can be learned through trial and error and there are other aids, books etc. The best thing is that it comes in handy in the career forget using it to get females.I keep tryna tell yall if you're attractive, this is a non-issue. You can literally talk to women anywhere.
Makavalli
Sinister is a system
Damn! New nikkas is mad anti social. Yea use social media and be message #433 in some average broads inbox who getting gassed by thirsty ass dweebs. Catch a broad at the supermarket and ask where some random shyt is
YeLovesBoston
Superstar
nikkas in here 
get out there and get ya pussi however you can bro
get out there and get ya pussi however you can bro
Closed mouths don't get feed
it's simple biology and anatomy. the the penis goes in the vagina, if you want to put it there, youre going to have to ask.
sorry to be so coarse
Woah, never been called / looked at as creepy by a Black girl
I feel your pain Breh, for real.Edit: Yeah it has happened
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Playa With Tha Passport
Mr International
With all this harassment shyt going on
You should be very cautious
A chick can you locked up quick now
You should be very cautious
A chick can you locked up quick now
Yea, during my less formative years, I was the Steve urkle type with women. Not on that "hey baby, how you doing" with the eyebrows and shyt. I had no fear, and got to the point. "I like you" or some shyt. Obviously more to it, but I wanted to be respectful without wasting time. Turned out, I lacked nuance and context, so the reason brothas could say some goofy, objectively offensive shyt WA because they at least tried to make some sort of connection first. Me? I was going for mine. Problem? I was a short, largely unpopular kid. I couldn't pull the handsome guy moves. Took some hurt to put me on game and stop laying out things in such a way that a chick could panic in my presence.Woah, never been called / looked at as creepy by a Black girl
Playa With Tha Passport
Mr International
I think there just talking about cat calling not specifically approaching
Cat calling happens all day everday
PhonZhi
Veteran
Pretty much homegirl. Unfortunately people will make excuses all day. It ultimately comes down to a fear of rejection.
When I was making $35K a year, wearing jeans and tees to work, scruffy, taking the bus I was hollering at girls because I ultimately believed that i was that dude or had the potential to be regardless of my current situation. I once bagged a chick wearing a lime green cast for my broken ankle and using crutches.
Making $60K, going to work dressed in trousers, dress shirts and ties and its the same story. I'm gonna put my bid in regardless. If you decline its on to the next one. If you willing to kick it with a real nikka, get to know one another and build however...lets do it. Dudes need to start believing in themselves because generally if youre polite human beings arent that rude or off putting. Just be respectful and open your mouth to blurt something out. It works fellas.
Yep, when i moved to ATL i had nothing. An 03 chevy malibu and an almost empty 1-bedrm apt. Thats it. I was working an $11.00/hr job at the time that allowed me to move here. I was still getn at chicks and pullin tho. I didnt have much but they still liked me as a person. I was confident and honest. I never pretend to be something im not. Matter fact, thats a breath of fresh air to alot of women: honesty and humility. Reminds me of that Nas line about how women knows his story.
Here i was, a cat with a low paying job at the time and an apt with nothin in it and yet i had a pretty nice roster within my 1st year here. One of the chicks works at the Center for Disease Control. Gooood money. Thats why the whole "outta her league" comments is str8 BS.
Most women are just looking for a good person period. You aint gotta front like you pullin in 100k/year. Just be authentic and genuine and people will respond. That goes the other way around also. If yall are chasing these attention whoring, wanna-be IG models then dont be suprised when you find she's only after you for superficial reasons.
No. No no no no. Boooo! Op you suck, get off the stage!
I'm just now reading through this thread, I can't believe how many people are DEFENDING COLD APPROACHING.
Yall are part of the reason the game is so fukked up. You all are CONTRIBUTING to the gassing up of these women.
Women have all the power, and the one thing a man can have some power, his own self-control, is being thrown out the window. I'm not saying don't cold approach, or that it doesn't work. I'm wondering WITH ALL THE ODDS STACKED AGAINST YOU....WHHHHYYYYYYY Cold approach?
PhonZhi
Veteran
Locked up for what exactly? I dont understand this "street harrassment". Cats are actually going to jail for attempting to talk to women?
true. i just want to feel happier. prolong my life and do something great. its like i KNOW i can get women. had 2 girls by myself. i know i can be interesting yet i have too much of a defeatist attitude at the moment. but ill work on that.