Stop being the boring guy

[TaxCollector13459]

A girl once told me I needed to be more adventurous and take risks.

I told her she better get one of them white boys from them mountain dew commercials

 

[Savvir]

thats not how it works breh

whoever it hits more is entirely dependent on the person ... introvert or extrovert, it doesn't matter

if there was a scientific study that contradicts what you're saying..

would you concede the point?

 

[Shadow King]

Yea exactly these coli dudes aren’t getting it. Honestly the dude in the video shouldn’t have included the word “woman”

Nobody is failing to "get it". This is biological wiring, nature being in conflict with civil advancements in concepts.

When everything is boiled away the extra presentation, adjustments, and activities are undergone by a man to best position himself for female companionship.

 

[Mowgli]

Be exciting and attract more whores

 

[africngiant]

im tired of hearing this shyt. fukk women

 

[pete clemenza]

All he's saying is just have a life.

That's it, no more no less.

If you're doing stuff you're experiencing stuff, if you're not doing anything you're not experiencing anything.

So why would someone want to hold hands with that?

It's called being well-rounded.

Beyond yams, you'll just be a better person with more perspective.

Facts but the way he came off in the video was like you have to be this "hyped all the time nicca". The stay in character dude who stays talking that big sh*t like he's that dude that always has it poppin 24/7/365. If we're going to a restaurant it has to be the hottest steakhouse, if we're going to the game its gotta be the luxury suite.. The type that when a female hits him up he's either doing something or about to go do something and you're invited. That sh*t is exhausting.

 

[Mr.bocario]

Yea exactly these coli dudes aren’t getting it. Honestly the dude in the video shouldn’t have included the word “woman”

It’s not that we don’t get it breh, we’re just the wrong audience. Most of the coli men are older 27+ and understand how fickle women can be whether you’re being the adventurous court jester or the low key nikka that can dress

Dating coaches advice only works on the 24 under inexperienced impressionable crowd

Cause at the end of the day. “I ain’t doin all that shyt for a funky azz bytch”.
- in my Corey Holcomb voice

 

[Piff Perkins]

I'm not gonna comment on him since I don't know anything about his angle but I def agree with the sentiment. Lot of women are turned off by the perpetual adolescent state of many modern men. Guys who work then spend the evening playing videogames, consuming children "content" (Star Wars, cape shyt, etc), and ordering pizza. That's not wavy and if you bag a chick while doing that...eventually she's gonna get frustrated and end things.

I don't consider myself a "fun guy" but I'm def the guy who will invite you to do different things. I love theater dates, going to see a play. Low key also a good way to get a sense of how a woman thinks ("what did you think about xyz part of the play?"). I love taking chicks to hole in the wall restaurants, or a nice restaurant. Lot of shyt you can do to blow your competition out the water.

 

[Womb Raider]

This nut ass advice is gonna have nikkas being taken advantage of…just cuz you take hoes on dates doesn’t mean they gonna give up the box. You need to do shyt that you enjoy, that includes getting out of the house sometimes. But don’t let this nikka fool into spending all your money on bytches and ruining your life cuz you thought you needed to go out every single weekend to impress bytches who don’t have shyt going on for theirselves. It’s a balance. And honestly, every man needs to find his own path to what he wants.

 

[old_timer]

I spend more time trying to deflate the ball than pump everything up
I definitely like to have fun, but i can't go around max turned up all day and night

First people think you are a goof

Second people get very suspicious and start believing every preposterous thing they hear about you

Third everyone thinks you have the attention span of a gnat and the depth of a puddle,,, so you start getting excluded from real conversations and deep stuff

Fourth you lose variety of friendships,, cause calm and quiet people get tired of constantly being one-upped and relegated to spectators who exist merely to witness your antics

Fifth - even fun loving people grow resentful cause they will feel excluded and think they are missing good stuff happening when they arent with you 24/7

Etc etc

The better move is to be in the moment with whoever is with you.. Give them some of what they need, and take some of what you need
Make it feel mutual and then build up from there

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

cod> spending money

 

[African Peasant]

Another dating guru.

These dudes are like Pokemon. They keep popping up.

 

[Satsui no Hadou]

Just fukking be yourself. Either she fukks with you or she doesn’t. Trying to be something you’re not is exhausting and stupid if you’re just doing it to get tail.

 

[thefloorislava]

It's really telling that breh's on here revolted at the idea of going outside more

 

[Sway]

That’s all y’all think about.