Steve Harvey shares what’s wrong with men of this generation |

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Gen Z dudes ignore these old ass simps because they leave out the part about social media's impact on relationships, cost of living, debt, housing crisis and social media on relationships.

But they wanna cap about men. If you don't got social media that's a red flag to alot of chicks

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Lol gen Z dudes competing with Shaq and Drake to get women in their age range that work at Home Depot.
 

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Not possible in any big city anymore even burbs super expensive.

To buy a house in my city or suburbs (even a hour away)

Most homes in Toronto remain above $1 million, requiring a 20% downpayment. A gross household income of over $200,000 is needed to qualify for a home in Toronto

200k downpayment to have a 800k mortgage at 6 percent interest rate =
Your Monthly Payment will be:

$5,257.16


but just elevate breh :blessed:
Yea no excuses.

Again, I’m asking you. Like the real you not the avatar made up name. You don’t even have to answer just ask yourself this in real life.

What are you REALLY doing to better yourself?

Bra I’m from one of the most expensive cities to live on planet earth.

You can def get a spot for 300ks first of all, because I googled affordable homes in Toronto.

But if that’s a shytty area, you know what people do? They stack their bread and move TF away.

That’s it. You wanna sleep on your momma couch just to say you live in SF or Toronto or some shyt?

Again. Go dig graves part time and work at Starbucks while still holding down your full time, and study a new craft for free using Youtube university. Not even a year, six months. You will be in a while new mental space.

Because it’s not really the money that holds people back, it’s that most can’t save or acquire a lump sum.

Make your own lump sum, then you can make shyt happen.

I ain’t lying to you my guy.

it’s amazing to me that I read this ish on social media and The Coli of men complaining like lil girls but when I go outside, from the dudes I grew up with that made it past 21 to the super entrepreneur always get it doners, they maintaining a quality lifestyle and got wives and Gfs and not complaining about “splitting a damn food bill” :russ: , like that’s so corny bro.

If you can’t afford to date don’t fukking date, get your money up, be a damn hustler
 

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Steve Harvey stays talking out of both sides of his mouth. He tells women to know your worth, don't settle etc. Then tells men to man up, step up, be a leader etc. Boomers didn't pass on anything to the generations after them, then tell average millenial or younger to get it out of the mud.
 

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Yea no excuses.

Again, I’m asking you. Like the real you not the avatar made up name. You don’t even have to answer just ask yourself this in real life.

What are you REALLY doing to better yourself?

Bra I’m from one of the most expensive cities to live on planet earth.

You can def get a spot for 300ks first of all, because I googled affordable homes in Toronto.

But if that’s a shytty area, you know what people do? They stack their bread and move TF away.

That’s it. You wanna sleep on your momma couch just to say you live in SF or Toronto or some shyt?

Again. Go dig graves part time and work at Starbucks while still holding down your full time, and study a new craft for free using Youtube university. Not even a year, six months. You will be in a while new mental space.

Because it’s not really the money that holds people back, it’s that most can’t save or acquire a lump sum.

Make your own lump sum, then you can make shyt happen.

I ain’t lying to you my guy.

it’s amazing to me that I read this ish on social media and The Coli of men complaining like lil girls but when I go outside, from the dudes I grew up with that made it past 21 to the super entrepreneur always get it doners, they maintaining a quality lifestyle and got wives and Gfs and not complaining about “splitting a damn food bill” :russ: , like that’s so corny bro.

If you can’t afford to date don’t fukking date, get your money up, be a damn hustler


:dahell: Why would you degrade ur quality of living just to say you own a home in a terrible part of your city.
 

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It ain’t no different day stop being a lame and typing on the Coli so much if you so damn broke

You know what you could do? Get you a 2nd job and save up for a solid 12 months then buy you a crib right outside of the damn city since quiet suburbs are typically affordable as opposed to city living.

It’s like, what do you do in life? What’s your education? What’s your aspiration? What are you doing TODAY to elevate? Real talk bra

I done seen the poorest of the poor go get SOMETHING when they got older (public transpo jobs pay 100k) but there’s always gonna be a complaining “I can’t do it” type of dude

Then he wanna say “come cook for me I’m a woman’s leader” lmao

@Hov what would you say are the best cities to move to and live?
 

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Gen Z dudes ignore these old ass simps because they leave out the part about social media's impact on relationships, cost of living, debt, housing crisis and social media on relationships.

But they wanna cap about men. If you don't got social media that's a red flag to alot of chicks

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I was talking to my brother about this last night. There are way too many changes that happened in the world. That make old advice obsolete.
 

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:dahell: Why would you degrade ur quality of living just to say you own a home in a terrible part of your city.
Did you skim what I wrote?

I said if there ain't no options, MOVE TF AWAY

People do it every day, from all walks of life.

What's your quality of living btw if you so broke you can't afford anything where you live???
 

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@Hov what would you say are the best cities to move to and live?
I say it changes every few years, but always pay attention to where people that look like you are migrating and seem to be thriving...

In 2023 I'm seeing a lot of people migrate to the Carolina's (I think Charlotte?), Texas, basically the South.

It looks like if you have a dope remote job (the cheat code) or a skill set where you can apply and get hired before you relocate, you can afford great homes for much lower costs.

Even in the DC area, if you move an hour away from the city you can get a 5 bedroom mansion looking home for the 500ks - but same house even bigger down South be CHEAP AF.

It's all about choosing your destiny. But I'm not gonna act like Im better than everyone else, I was caught up in the city/this is where I grew up for a long time too, and it held me back until I smartened up.
 

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Stamp this

If you really bout your shyt, you can get a bad ass woman.

And the baddest ones really dont be on social media like that. They are, but their pages are private because they aint selling nothing and don't need to be seen.

So first thing, stop goosing the same damn IG chicks with thousands of followers trying to sell themselves or promote.

Second, once you get a real one or date for real, you will realize that you are a man and your woman has aspirations and will go get the the bag too, WITH YOU and FOR YOU. So all that "old generation" shyt is for the lames. Women follow the LEADER when the LEADER ACTS LIKE ONE.

ASK YOURSELF: WOULD YOU FOLLOW YOU??? IF YOU CAN'T FIGURE shyt OUT ON YOUR OWN WHO TF WANTS TO BE WITH YOU TO GET LED TO THE HOMELESS SHELTER??

Why TF are you trying to date an IG model who wants to be with an NBA player so she doesn't have to work but she settled for you lol?

Them chicks dont even be as bad as the real ones, they be heavily made up with fake bodies that never look as good in real life as they do on IG.

Im trying to give yall the game but only a few will listen.

You can do it, just shift your mindset. and remember living solid doesn't mean we all will be in mansions but we can def all make something happen. The women come...
 

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@Hov how can I get a good skill set? any online websites you recommend that I can learn an in demand skill set without having to pay to learn? I work a dead end job currently.
 
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