Dude is a clown but there's something to the point about men and provider roles. If you are so caught up on gender roles and being the leader, surely that means being in position to lead right? Which means doing what fathers and grandfathers did decades ago: get a good job, get a car, get a wife, and build a home. Yea yea, grandad did that while working an automobile job that doesn't exist today. What are you doing to find the modern day equalivent? If that means being an accountant, doctor, mailman, or electrician...what are you doing to get there? Or are you playing videogames and crying on the internet?
You want traditionalism? Be traditional. And part of that means settling.
Most of our granddads didn't marry the town hottie. They married the 6/10 schoolteacher who fit what they wanted out of a wife.
But because brehs want to focus on dimes who are out of their league (and not even compatible with what they want in a partner) we've got men remaining perpetually single and lonely because they can't get their porn fantasy.
Be true to yourself, be honest about who you are, and be honest about what you want. Until dudes stop playing games, stop expecting to bag dimes while making 35k a year, stop wasting career advancement opportunities, start taking school seriously, start taking trades seriously, start learning basic communication skills, and stop pursuing worthless women we're gonna keep failing while others achieve.