Steve Harvey shares what’s wrong with men of this generation |

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If He Got With A Teacher Who Made 100k A Year Or A Business Owner Who Made 1 Million A Year To Him They’re Just bytches Wasting Hours Of Their Life Making “Chump Change”

HIS Situation Isn’t A 1 Size Fits All Situation It’s Crazy He Thinks It Is lol

Imagine Him Telling The Average Household To NOT Double Their Income, You Sound Stupid
 

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It's a different day. The day of just getting that job staying for 40 years and getting enough money to buy a house get married and the wife stays home is dead in any mid to large city.

Steve Harvey lives in a different world . But if I can do it anyone can azz nikka



I hear this argument. Then I ask “If that is the outdated mind set, what is the mindset that should replace it?”
 

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Dude is a clown but there's something to the point about men and provider roles. If you are so caught up on gender roles and being the leader, surely that means being in position to lead right? Which means doing what fathers and grandfathers did decades ago: get a good job, get a car, get a wife, and build a home. Yea yea, grandad did that while working an automobile job that doesn't exist today. What are you doing to find the modern day equalivent? If that means being an accountant, doctor, mailman, or electrician...what are you doing to get there? Or are you playing videogames and crying on the internet?

You want traditionalism? Be traditional. And part of that means settling. Most of our granddads didn't marry the town hottie. They married the 6/10 schoolteacher who fit what they wanted out of a wife. But because brehs want to focus on dimes who are out of their league (and not even compatible with what they want in a partner) we've got men remaining perpetually single and lonely because they can't get their porn fantasy.
:manny:

Be true to yourself, be honest about who you are, and be honest about what you want. Until dudes stop playing games, stop expecting to bag dimes while making 35k a year, stop wasting career advancement opportunities, start taking school seriously, start taking trades seriously, start learning basic communication skills, and stop pursuing worthless women we're gonna keep failing while others achieve.
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Dude is a clown but there's something to the point about men and provider roles. If you are so caught up on gender roles and being the leader, surely that means being in position to lead right? Which means doing what fathers and grandfathers did decades ago: get a good job, get a car, get a wife, and build a home. Yea yea, grandad did that while working an automobile job that doesn't exist today. What are you doing to find the modern day equalivent? If that means being an accountant, doctor, mailman, or electrician...what are you doing to get there? Or are you playing videogames and crying on the internet?

You want traditionalism? Be traditional. And part of that means settling. Most of our granddads didn't marry the town hottie. They married the 6/10 schoolteacher who fit what they wanted out of a wife. But because brehs want to focus on dimes who are out of their league (and not even compatible with what they want in a partner) we've got men remaining perpetually single and lonely because they can't get their porn fantasy.
:manny:

Be true to yourself, be honest about who you are, and be honest about what you want. Until dudes stop playing games, stop expecting to bag dimes while making 35k a year, stop wasting career advancement opportunities, start taking school seriously, start taking trades seriously, start learning basic communication skills, and stop pursuing worthless women we're gonna keep failing while others achieve.
I agree.

However, nowadays a lot of average women believe that they are the town hottie. Though that's attributed to thirsty guys gassing them up on the street and social media.

Gotta filter through them now to find wifey
 
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The c00n Walrus has been married
3 times and is now married to one
of the most notorious gold digging
dikk suckers in the history of detroit.
steve harvey can shut the fukk up.....


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Dude is a clown but there's something to the point about men and provider roles. If you are so caught up on gender roles and being the leader, surely that means being in position to lead right? Which means doing what fathers and grandfathers did decades ago: get a good job, get a car, get a wife, and build a home. Yea yea, grandad did that while working an automobile job that doesn't exist today. What are you doing to find the modern day equalivent? If that means being an accountant, doctor, mailman, or electrician...what are you doing to get there? Or are you playing videogames and crying on the internet?

You want traditionalism? Be traditional. And part of that means settling. Most of our granddads didn't marry the town hottie. They married the 6/10 schoolteacher who fit what they wanted out of a wife. But because brehs want to focus on dimes who are out of their league (and not even compatible with what they want in a partner) we've got men remaining perpetually single and lonely because they can't get their porn fantasy.
:manny:

Be true to yourself, be honest about who you are, and be honest about what you want. Until dudes stop playing games, stop expecting to bag dimes while making 35k a year, stop wasting career advancement opportunities, start taking school seriously, start taking trades seriously, start learning basic communication skills, and stop pursuing worthless women we're gonna keep failing while others achieve.
They not gonna listen, they just gonna scroll past this and dap the post that complains about “modern women” and “being broke”
 

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It's a different day. The day of just getting that job staying for 40 years and getting enough money to buy a house get married and the wife stays home is dead in any mid to large city.

Steve Harvey lives in a different world . But if I can do it anyone can azz nikka
It ain’t no different day stop being a lame and typing on the Coli so much if you so damn broke

You know what you could do? Get you a 2nd job and save up for a solid 12 months then buy you a crib right outside of the damn city since quiet suburbs are typically affordable as opposed to city living.

It’s like, what do you do in life? What’s your education? What’s your aspiration? What are you doing TODAY to elevate? Real talk bra

I done seen the poorest of the poor go get SOMETHING when they got older (public transpo jobs pay 100k) but there’s always gonna be a complaining “I can’t do it” type of dude

Then he wanna say “come cook for me I’m a woman’s leader” lmao
 

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It ain’t no different day stop being a lame and typing on the Coli so much if you so damn broke

You know what you could do? Get you a 2nd job and save up for a solid 12 months then buy you a crib right outside of the damn city since quiet suburbs are typically affordable as opposed to city living.

It’s like, what do you do in life? What’s your education? What’s your aspiration? What are you doing TODAY to elevate? Real talk bra

I done seen the poorest of the poor go get SOMETHING when they got older (public transpo jobs pay 100k) but there’s always gonna be a complaining “I can’t do it” type of dude

Then he wanna say “come cook for me I’m a woman’s leader” lmao

Not possible in any big city anymore even burbs super expensive.

To buy a house in my city or suburbs (even a hour away)

Most homes in Toronto remain above $1 million, requiring a 20% downpayment. A gross household income of over $200,000 is needed to qualify for a home in Toronto

200k downpayment to have a 800k mortgage at 6 percent interest rate =
Your Monthly Payment will be:

$5,257.16


but just elevate breh :blessed:
 

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Dude is a clown but there's something to the point about men and provider roles. If you are so caught up on gender roles and being the leader, surely that means being in position to lead right? Which means doing what fathers and grandfathers did decades ago: get a good job, get a car, get a wife, and build a home. Yea yea, grandad did that while working an automobile job that doesn't exist today. What are you doing to find the modern day equalivent? If that means being an accountant, doctor, mailman, or electrician...what are you doing to get there? Or are you playing videogames and crying on the internet?

You want traditionalism? Be traditional. And part of that means settling. Most of our granddads didn't marry the town hottie. They married the 6/10 schoolteacher who fit what they wanted out of a wife. But because brehs want to focus on dimes who are out of their league (and not even compatible with what they want in a partner) we've got men remaining perpetually single and lonely because they can't get their porn fantasy.
:manny:

Be true to yourself, be honest about who you are, and be honest about what you want. Until dudes stop playing games, stop expecting to bag dimes while making 35k a year, stop wasting career advancement opportunities, start taking school seriously, start taking trades seriously, start learning basic communication skills, and stop pursuing worthless women we're gonna keep failing while others achieve.


one more time
 

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The older generation always talks down to the younger generation.

It’s tradition.

But if Steve Harvey has a problem with the younger generation today, he ought to send his frustration or counseling or advice to the generation that raised this young generation.

So you can shyt on all these kids now. But save some shyt for the 40-50 year olds who made them this way.
Steve is right, but his gen did a shyt job of passing tradition down to the next gen. His gen was the first gen that did for themselves before anyone else and it's the root cause for a lot of disfunction today.
 

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It's a different day. The day of just getting that job staying for 40 years and getting enough money to buy a house get married and the wife stays home is dead in any mid to large city.

Steve Harvey lives in a different world . But if I can do it anyone can azz nikka

Gen Z dudes ignore these old ass simps because they leave out the part about social media's impact on relationships, cost of living, debt, housing crisis and social media on relationships.

But they wanna cap about men. If you don't got social media that's a red flag to alot of chicks

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