One of the biggest lessons my father stressed to me is don’t get in the middle of domestics even if it involves family.
My dad taught me the same thing, minus the family part. Like I said, if it's my sister, I'm obligated to get involved, even if I don't want to.
And in that case, he put hands on my sister, I'm not coming in playing fair. Imma steal on that nicca and stab him in the leg or something to get the upper hand. Ain't no fighting fair.
With that being said, your dad taught you a very important lesson just like my dad did.
I remember when I was around 15 or 16, me my dad, his friend and me and my friend went to some dude's house to inquire about buying something that the dude was selling.
While we're there, we see this dude just abusing this teenage girl out in the yard in front of us, God and everybody.
Like, she is screaming, trying to get away from this dude and he is just pulling her and grabbing her. I don't know if it was her father or her older brother, I mean, I never got the story on who it was.
But anyway, me and my friend got mad and we wanted to do something about it because we're standing there in these ppl's yards, and there's an old man (the man we were there to talk to) and his wife just watching like
but they didn't get involved.
My dad was watching like
but he didn't say nothing.
So on the drive back, I'm fuming, I'm mad, hot, and my dad told me, "You can't go to someone else's house getting involved in their business. That didn't have nothing to do with us."
And after that, he impressed upon me the fact that no matter what, NEVER get involved in ppl's domestic situations, cause folks get killed like that.