STAY OUT of domestic situations cause you might get KILLED

[Akata Man Bromo]

@Lumumba

 

[UberEatsDriver]

A lot of them think it’s like the movies when the good guys always win. Well I got news for you some abusive people aren’t stupid and lacking

 

[Neuromancer]

Dude just beat cancer? That's sad as shyt. What happened to the woman?

 

[FaTaL]

I told this story on here before about these 2 white guys I was in a class with that got killed trying to intervene in a domestic violence situation involving their friend and her husband.

These white boys was cool, they had helped me out a couple times, one of them was just getting his life back on track after a rough bout with cancer, he was in remission but it had just happened because his hair still hadn't started growing in from the chemo.

Then one day their friend calls them screaming and pleading for help. They grab their guns and head over to the house. The husband gets the drop on them, shot one in the head, wounded the other one and then circled back around and shot him dead too.

This was a couple years back. I just found out today that the husband got off Scott free.

So now he's back on the streets and these 2 guys are dead.

I'm begging you brothas to stay out of domestic situations. Call the police, folks that at least got training and get paid to deal with stuff like that.

I don't care if a husband is beating the hell out his wife 2 feet in front of me... I'm not getting involved cause I've heard of too many situations like that going left.

I assume because they were on his property?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Forgot to mention that both these dudes had wives and children too

I knew the cancer guys wife

 

[Apollo Creed]

@Lumumba

They'll learn when they get an RIP thread and their mom crying at the funeral

 

[Neuromancer]

Forgot to mention that both these dudes had wives and children too

I knew the cancer guys wife

Fuuuuuuccckkk

 

[Umoja]

Had a situation like this close to home. A family friend got called about his sisters abusive husband, he went to intervene and the husband blew his brains out.

Now wtf do you do in that situation? I mean I know how I handle shyt but most people would just jump straight into that no questions, not thinking you’re bout to leave behind a child over some bullshyt.

To me that's a different situation. That's family. If my sister can't call her brother, who can she call?

But I have also heard of that going left too

I know one dude who was beating his wife, her brother came over to get at him, and then he beat the brother too

Honestly, this is why it bothers me when people preach independence. We live in a society where you're in the wrong if you attempt to control whom your daughter dates and that they should be free to do what they want. The grim reality is, in a family, decisions made by one person doesn't just affect the person making the decision.

I have always said that son or daughter, they start hanging around with criminals they are out of the house. It is a tough choice to make but I do not want harm coming to any of my children because one has a liking for bad boys or one wants to be cool.

 

[Sbp]

Just watched a dude lump up his wife on their wedding day at a resort in the Caribbean. Then punched his best man and a security guard. Me and my peoples just watched from a distance. Ain’t nothing but trouble following that group.

Damn breh giving out free smoke to everybody

 

[xXMASHERXx]

This is why I hate when people get on someone for not intervening in domestic disputes. It's a lot more complicated than people realize and you never know how far someone is willing to take it.

 

[Neuromancer]

To me that's a different situation. That's family. If my sister can't call her brother, who can she call?

But I have also heard of that going left too

I know one dude who was beating his wife, her brother came over to get at him, and then he beat the brother too

The brother out here in Brooklyn tried to save his daughter from her boy friend and got clapped by the dude. He died in his fiancée arms and the boyfriend got away.

 

[Umoja]

Exhibit A


Exhibit B


If anyone does decide to react in such situations, I think they would do well to consider the above. You can act like a hot head and rush into the unknown, or you can control your emotion and settle things properly.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Dude just beat cancer? That's sad as shyt. What happened to the woman?

Honestly, this is why it bothers me when people preach independence. We live in a society where you're in the wrong if you attempt to control whom your daughter dates and that they should be free to do what they want. The grim reality is, in a family, decisions made by one person doesn't just affect the person making the decision.

I have always said that son or daughter, they start hanging around with criminals they are out of the house. It is a tough choice to make but I do not want harm coming to any of my children because one has a liking for bad boys or one wants to be cool.

Agreed. I've mentioned this to my sister before (she's never messed with any of those types) but I did let her know that she may never know when she needs me. What if a situation like this happens? She's gonna call her dad (our dad) and her brothers.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

This is why I hate when people get on someone for not intervening in domestic disputes. It's a lot more complicated than people realize and you never know how far someone is willing to take it.

Easy to do the internet. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that in real life it’s always the same reaction when these things happen in front of others.


You notice the cops, people in court and criminal professionals are never the mad ones. It’s always the ones on the internet that would freeze up the same way

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

This is why I hate when people get on someone for not intervening in domestic disputes. It's a lot more complicated than people realize and you never know how far someone is willing to take it.

I put it to folks like this. When a man and a woman are together, there's some explosive emotions in that relationship, whether those are good emotions or bad emotions.

When you see a husband and his wife arguing, those same explosive emotions that caused them to fall in love with each other, are now in play in that argument. And emotions are volatile and dangerous.

You just don't know how a man might react, me and you included. One time me and my wife got into it and I was going off, yelling and hollering at her. Mad as hell.

My brother came to me later on, being funny, talking about "yeah man, I saw you keeping her in line"

Made me mad at him, like real hot because he was joking about something that was real serious to me. I felt like punching him.

Now I wouldn't do that to my little brother, but I can be honest and admit how I was feeling in the moment.

I was just in the emotion of the situation and whoever approached me during that time was gonna be at the receiving end of my anger.