SPINOFF: You nikkas really think dime pieces are going to agree to non legal marriages?!

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Dudes don't want to hear reality. I swear some of these coli dudes bash women for the sole fact that can't even entertain a women dime or ugly
They hate women on the Internet because in the real world, women hate them.
 

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where i live you can from my understanding.

i personally don't see the advantage of getting the govt package deal the govt set up when we could get a custom made package that benefits both of us and fits our needs.
until the government changes the tax code to reflect the new dichotomy, I think its in one financial interest to "do the right thing".
 

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Yes I would have loss big time. But marriage is very serious and not everyone can decide if they want to marry someone within 2 or 3 yrs. 5 yrs is plenty of time. Actually it's really to much for real.
the best is to talk about it early on and get a feel of what your partner is about. i'm not saying to make wedding plans on the first date (that would freak anyone male or female out) but get a feel of how he feels about relationships, family, marriage, etc. also let him know sincerely how you feel about it. be honest and don't try to change or trick a guy. and also the most important thing is that actions speak louder than words...

but if a woman waited 5 years to figure out the guy is not trying to marry her, it's not gonna be easy to just let him go especially since she isn't getting younger. a lot of women will just accept that life.
 

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until the government changes the tax code to reflect the new dichotomy, I think its in one financial interest to "do the right thing".
honestly (not even trying to front, this is really how i feel) i'm jus trying to have the least amount of govt involved in my life and relationship as possible. i understand that the govt has to be involved in our lives and does some good in it but wherever i can keep it away, i'd rather reduce it's involvement. i don't like the default contract they offer, why not draft my own?
 

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the best is to talk about it early on and get a feel of what your partner is about. i'm not saying to make wedding plans on the first date (that would freak anyone male or female out) but get a feel of how he feels about relationships, family, marriage, etc. also let him know sincerely how you feel about it. be honest and don't try to change or trick a guy. and also the most important thing is that actions speak louder than words...

but if a woman waited 5 years to figure out the guy is not trying to marry her, it's not gonna be easy to just let him go especially since she isn't getting younger. a lot of women will just accept that life.
Oh trust me. I wouldn't wait that long to mention marriage by that time I would be fed up and out the door. If we got a solid relationship meaning we aren't breaking up and getting back together and aren't fighting a lot. By the time yr one hits it will be mentioned.
 

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honestly (not even trying to front, this is really how i feel) i'm jus trying to have the least amount of govt involved in my life and relationship as possible. i understand that the govt has to be involved in our lives and does some good in it but wherever i can keep it away, i'd rather reduce it's involvement. i don't like the default contract they offer, why not draft my own?
The government always gets what it wants, I think you need to realize you need to do whats in your best interest. I figure the cash you may lose in a marriage is much less than what the government is getting.
 

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The government always gets what it wants, I think you need to realize you need to do whats in your best interest. I figure the cash you may lose in a marriage is much less than what the government is getting.
it's more then the amount of cash i may or may not lose in lawyer fees and other shyt. i just don't like the concept of the government pre-determining how our assets should be divided if we split up. i don't like the government telling me how much time we gotta wait before we can legally divorce if it doesn't work out for whatever reason or if i gotta go to a mediator. i understand the govt will do whatever it wants but as long as i have the option, i'd rather just have me and my future wife be in control of our own affairs.
 

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The dilution from the dudes in TLR is starting to reach Bodybuilder forum status.

Yall nikkas think yall all gonna bag Virgin dimes, that cook, clean, fukk and suck on demand, lets you cheat, and is cool with NEVER getting married? :ohhh:


Not to mention you all plan on waiting to settle down with these women till after your 45 and they will be 25 :ohhh:



:russ::mjlol:

The dilution is REAL brehs.
 

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goes through 1000 Instagram dimes profiles, sees no wedding ring on finger sees no wedding photos

:usure: Yeah, but that's because all them hoes didn't pick good men. They did it to themselves. They had to settle for that one broke nicca who impregnanted them and left them with a child(s) and no wedding ring.
 
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I sometimes think they want the Marriage for the Wedding Ceremony. So they can feel like a Princess. They don't think to much of John Doe but NEED 13 Roses, not 14 nor 12... else the wedding planner is fukking dead :demonic: then she gets started on the cake... :damn:
The urge to get married now is because most ladies didn't have that sweet 16 or prom. They didn't that "royal princess" reception so the next best thing is an over the top wedding.
 

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:snoop: find it funny the irony of your post thas all :manny: I really don't care what you and other women like :heh:

Meh. Idgaf, you shouldn't have said that then. And, if you want to get technical tho your comment didn't even make sense to mine.
 

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Meh. Idgaf, you shouldn't have said that then. And, if you want to get technical tho your comment didn't even make sense to mine.
Are you serious?:dahell: I'm a grown man and this is a mesageboard :heh: I can say what I want.I don't feel like wasting time replying anymore so think what you want and move on
 
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