Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
majority of those chicks are <25 yrs old breh...you SHOULDNT see any rings....
SPINOFF: You nikkas really think dime pieces are going to agree to non legal marriages?!
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majority of those chicks are <25 yrs old breh...you SHOULDNT see any rings....
i sincerely don't wish to debate this with you. at the end of the day, your relationship is your business.
Dudes don't want to hear reality. I swear some of these coli dudes bash women for the sole fact that can't even entertain a women dime or ugly
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
Did a quick google search:
The average wedding cost in the United States is $25,200. Couples typically spend between $18,900 and $31,500 but, most couples spend less than $10,000. This does not include cost for a honeymoon.
Could people justify spending $10,000 in 1 day on a party if it wasn't a wedding?
"But, but, but...weddings are special. It's once in a lifetime..."
Not these days...
spent less than 2k on my wedding....and we didnt go on a honeymoon
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
As you were
mortuus est
Veteran
this thread truly opened my eyes, i was going to do this, find a dime and not marry her (the legal way) 
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
If I'm in a solid relationship with someone for 5 yrs and he isn't trying to put a ring on it. He's gone.
but say you're 25 and start a relationship, stay with him 5 years and he hasn't proposed, if he's gone, you're now 30, single and starting all over. now you wait some time to get back in your groove, then meet another guy, wait a year or two hoping that he proposes, say he does, another year to be engaged, married. now your pushing maybe 35 still no kids (and that's assuming every single thing went smoothly).
my point is, if it took you 5 years to figure out dude wasn't about that marriage life, you lost big time...
where i live i don't think there is a single legal benefit that comes with marriage that i couldn't obtain otherwise through notarized documents.Why wouldn't you want a legal marriage thoughespecially considering you're going to be living with this person, you definitely want the legal benefits that come with a legal marriage.
Would these documents be separate for separate occasions? Like, for example, can you put your non-spouse on your insurance? I think it's more beneficial just to get a marriage license like a "package deal" instead of getting all these separate documents.
where i live you can from my understanding.
i personally don't see the advantage of getting the govt package deal the govt set up when we could get a custom made package that benefits both of us and fits our needs.
Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
There are a million ways to skin a cat. If a woman's goal is to get married and get your cash, she will get married and get your cash.
Lost in all this fear of losing everything is the fact that rich people, real rich people get married all the time. Maybe its their higher education, but they usually get the concept of building wealth.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Yes I would have loss big time. But marriage is very serious and not everyone can decide if they want to marry someone within 2 or 3 yrs. 5 yrs is plenty of time. Actually it's really to much for real.