SPIN: Quick lil gems for women on dealing with men

[thoushallhustle]

You have to let him know that. It goes back to communication.

By the way, if any of ya'll ladies would like to make a thread like this for the brehs, feel free.

I just might do that when I get my post count up

 

[tofuspeedstar]

dat post count.


Just make me a sandwich woman, post haste.

 

[Emperor Sol]

Dear women,

If you ask me what's wrong and I tell you nothing is wrong, do you know what that means?


IT MEANS NOTHING IS WRONG. FASCINATING, ISN'T IT?

Unless I'm making it very obvious that something is wrong then there is no reason for you to assume something is wrong. So basically..

Don't try to play into emotions that aren't being clearly manifested.

Follow that and you'll go far in life.

 

[thoushallhustle]

Im getting mad because you're nagging me about it instead of just eating the rejection and then being silent. Sometimes we think *maybe ill feel like it next week* or *ill just do you a favor and go next week* Next week comes and we still aint feeling it. You just gotta keep asking until we fold. He should commit to his statements though. It aint right to get mad about being nagged for not keeping your word, but we do it anyway. Life is hard hug me.

this can all be avoided by not being a scary passive aggressive biatch and tellng her straight up how you feel. Dont say next week say MAYBE next week if you still iffy about it. A man is only as good as his word. If you have a man whos word is meaningless than you have yourself a nothing ass nikka..

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Here's a gem

Stop taking relationship advice from magazines, BBW(Basketball Wives) and single friends

 

[thoushallhustle]

You're mistaking not listening for not giving a damn.

As an example, you probably wouldn't have to tell us 50-11 () times about something important like one of the kids failing school, a raise you got, or that there's free beer night at the nearest bar.

If you dont give a damn about her feelings and only listen when it serves you why are you with her? hire a escort and stop wasting a girls time

 

[Schmoove]

Sticky this.

 

[Crakface]

this can all be avoided by not being a scary passive aggressive biatch and tellng her straight up how you feel. Dont say next week say MAYBE next week if you still iffy about it. A man is only as good as his word. If you have a man whos word is meaningless than you have yourself a nothing ass nikka..

u furious but its nothing to do with being scary its just our mood. Your man might need some head in the middle of the afternoon and you say *nah baby later tonight* That night comes and u still frontin on the head and try to give up the ass instead. We are understanding. You might make it up to us the next morning, day or later in the week. Doesnt mean you're being a scary passive aggressive bytch. Just your mood, that day/week/month We arent stalling, we gotta get the energy up to do some of the dumb shyt yall ask us to be involved in. Like meeting some of your old raggedy family members.

 

[Emperor Sol]

The most important and UNIVERSAL law that should be adhered to by all of mankind at all times is:

Never take dating advice from a woman.

Even if you're a woman. Don't do it. Listen girls, most of your friends are probably broads that barely even know what they want, so 'the fukk do they look like knowing what YOU want? Hell, YOU probably don't even know what YOU want.

When women take dating advice from women, what do you think happens? Heartbreak, gossip, "nikkas ain't shyt" mentality, etc.

 

[thoushallhustle]

dat post count.


Just make me a sandwich woman, post haste.

Sure after you tickle my fartbox with that pretty pink mouth of urs

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Ok but what might not be important to you might mean the world to me. I agree there is a time and place for everything. When I was little girl I learned not to bother my dad when he first got home from work until he had time to unwind. I can respect that. But if I come to you about something important to me you should have the respect to hear me out and take my thoughts into consideration instead of writing me off as being "emotional" There has to be balance.

Here's the problem.

Men and women have different thresholds of what "important" is. To a woman, almost every little thing is "important". For my girl, the most recent thing that was important was that I go with her to her nephew's graduation ceremony in Flagstaff. It was not really a big deal so I went, but when I expressed disdain about having to take off work to go, she kept on and on about how it was so important to her that I attend. Why? I don't know, but it was.

For a man, "important" is defined as "what are the consequences if I don't act on this?". Thus, paying the bills - important. If the house is on fire - important. That kind of shyt.

What I'm saying is, if ya'll didn't have a different sense of priorities and FORCE us to do menial emotional-based shyt, we would never go with you to your friends wedding. We would never visit your family with you. We would never do any of that ridiculous girly shyt that really *isn't* important. We do it because it's important to you. On the flipside, we just ask that you understand that most of that shyt is a pain in the ass to us, and try to respect our right to say no from time to time.

 

[Crakface]

Here's the problem.

Men and women have different thresholds of what "important" is. To a woman, almost every little thing is "important". For my girl, the most recent thing that was important was that I go with her to her nephew's graduation ceremony in Flagstaff. It was not really a big deal so I went, but when I expressed disdain about having to take off work to go, she kept on and on about how it was so important to her that I attend. Why? I don't know, but it was.

For a man, "important" is defined as "what are the consequences if I don't act on this?". Thus, paying the bills - important. If the house is on fire - important. That kind of shyt.

What I'm saying is, if ya'll didn't have a different sense of priorities and FORCE us to do menial emotional-based shyt, we would never go with you to your friends wedding. We would never visit your family with you. We would never do any of that ridiculous girly shyt that really *isn't* important. We do it because it's important to you. On the flipside, we just ask that you understand that most of that shyt is a pain in the ass to us, and try to respect our right to say no from time to time.

Wow you really treat your lady like shyt.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

If you dont give a damn about her feelings and only listen when it serves you why are you with her? hire a escort and stop wasting a girls time

And this brings us to lesson #3.

Hearing shyt that he didn't say.

Never anywhere did I say I didn't care about her feelings. What I said was the typical day-to-day shyt that you guys nag with, we really don't care about. This goes for all men, everywhere.

 

[thoushallhustle]

u furious but its nothing to do with being scary its just our mood. Your man might need some head in the middle of the afternoon and you say *nah baby later tonight* That night comes and u still frontin on the head and try to give up the ass instead. We are understanding. You might make it up to us the next morning, day or later in the week. Doesnt mean you're being a scary passive aggressive bytch. Just your mood, that day/week/month We arent stalling, we gotta get the energy up to do some of the dumb shyt yall ask us to be involved in. Like meeting some of your old raggedy family members.

furious?? moi?? Anyway what kinda hoes you fukkin? If I tell my man im suckin his dikk at 12:30am then baybayyy im preppin my esophagus at 12:15 so I can be on time. fukk a mood. Where Im from we call them folks "sometimey" and thats not a good look.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Wow you really treat your lady like shyt.

Would you say it's demonic?