Spin Off: How do you guys Really feel about rape on here?

[Zapp Brannigan]

Nobody in here said anything bout male rape pause
thats my biggest fear

Avoid prison?

 

[Mike Ock]

It sucks...i'll never forget yrs back I met and ended up hooking up with a chik I had met in atlantic city..but she was also there visiting, and she lived somewhere near DC. So we hook up, keep in touch and she comes and visits and stays with me for the weekend. She has huge tis and was cute so we got to the fukking from the jump when she touched down. So by Sunday(she was gonna leave Monday afternoon), we start talking about our freaky sexual experiences. So for soooome reason she totally killed the mood when she told me that she was gang-raped at a party and got preggo from it a few yrs back and had it aborted. No lie, once she mentioned that, my desire to keep fuming her went out the window. I think she could see it on my face once she told me that. For the rest of her trip, I didn't fuk her at all...she noticed the and was just giving me head instead. The head was good but I couldn't get the image of her incident out of my mind. I wish she woulda kept that to herself.

 

[terminalboredom]

I can see all of that. However:

- I think what men are saying here for the most part (they can correct me if i'm wrong) is that such "changes" may come not during the act, but afterward. Does that not happen?

Well if you are speaking of when a woman realizes she's been raped, yeah that happens, but it's not going to happen if you're not raping chicks. Period.

Like, I've had an instance where I felt at the time it was consensual, but the dude did a lot of stuff that was not consensual..... I had to talk to people after the fact to realize that. I wasn't raped, it was just a fukked situation.

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Women need to dress properly. Be righteous don't be a rape victim.

 

[Anothergirl]

>How do you really feel about rape?

What do you think we think about rape? Of course rape itself is bad. What kind of stupid question is that? You want to know what's also bad? The avalanche of false accusations of sexual assault on men that women later regretted sleeping with or just wanted to fukk with in order to get their way for one reason or another. It's remarkably easy to ruin a man's life via false accusation, and it happens quite often to men that are minorities because they're easy targets for law enforcement. A false accusation can do the following:

• Ruin a man's dating chances with anyone who hears the rumor.
• Getting his ass whooped and/or literally killed by vengeful friends and family.
• Huge amounts of prison time for crimes not committed.
• Ruined careers.
• Ruined reputation.
• Families torn apart by people not wanting to associate with a rapist.

This is a fate that can quite often be worse than rape, mostly because the lingering stigma and the fact that rape is very likely in prison. Who cares, though, right? Men are disposable to feminists unless they can benefit women somehow.

It's also because the word "rape" is very, very strong and invokes a serious amount of emotion in people. Also, the fact that the word "rape" invokes such emotion is the same reason that modern feminists have decided to use their indignation at rape (as if it doesn't affect men) as a crutch to continue to lend themselves credibility as feminism limps into the future.

Another thing, we're also a little tired of the upper-middle class white girl feminist tagline to this situation known as, "DON'T RAPE!" Thanks for the advice, Kaitlin. We know to not rape, thanks. A vast, vast majority of the male population knows to not rape. We also know that many men would happily kick someone's ass if they were found to be a rapist. This assumes that men are by default rapists and that we should all be feared. It's insulting. And no, people suggesting that you should protect yourself doesn't assume the same thing, it assumes that they unfortunately exist, period. Which they do, which is why people give advice. People who say that advising others to protect themselves are assuming all men are rapists, which is simply projection.

When people say something like, "Protect yourself in a dangerous area" to a woman, it's something along the lines of, "lock your car doors" or "don't join that pyramid scheme." It's not victim blaming and it's not being insensitive. It's wanting to remind someone you care about that the world is dangerous and that it will be a bad place if you're not careful.

Pretending that people don't care about rape because they want to see evidence of a crime that's so often falsely claimed doesn't mean that people don't care. It's just a matter of evidence and justice for all parties involved, because jumping to conclusions can be severely harmful.

So yeah, string a rapist up by his nuts. Just make sure said rapist is actually a rapist, and don't make us out to be bad people for trying to advise on self-protection.

i understand what you staying but you know only about 2% of all REPORTED rapes are later found to have been false claims. it's not as big a number of women lying as you may seem to think it is. do i even need to mention the rapes that don't even get reported at all that women just charge to game and carry the burden in silence?

 

[Malta]

I'd put somebody in the dirt if they raped someone I knew.

As a man, that shyt is just so foreign to me, someone literally invading your body against your will. Not cool, and I don't make jokes about it.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Yo, I don't know what to derail this thread, but I had a question about rape I wanted to ask, but I'm afraid people will think that I'm just trying to trivialize the subject.

Let me preface, this is a hypothetical question, but this isn't about me


If a dude with a small piece rapes a female, and there's no physical action involved other than penetration, is the female still mentally wounded? Like there's no violence involved in the form of punching, stabbing, kicking, or any of that shyt, dude just strokes, but his meat is hella puny, so would a broad in this scenario be crying and shyt, or would she be laughing and having to fake cry in the hopes that she doesn't offend the guy raping her and end up getting actually hurt?

That 16 year old pizza delivery boy story from last month made me think of this. The entire thing took about 30 seconds, per words of the victim, and her 7 year old daughter was sleeping next to her while it happened.

Don't condone rape at all, wanted to clear that up, that was just a thought I had. I probably didn't even map it out with proper structure. Been puffing you feel me?

Yes, there is still very heavy psychological damage. In fact, any kind of physical touching alone would legally constitute a battery, but it would be VERY psychologically damaging if it were as intimate of contact as sex itself, particularly because of the risk of sexual contact with an unwanted stranger.

Also comes the duress of being at gunpoint. The fear induced intimate act of sex would be VERY damaging to the victim and should be treated as such.

 

[terminalboredom]

Feminists don't find men disposable. Men are their allies. Stop believing the right-wing hype on that.

 

[Anothergirl]

I'd put somebody in the dirt if they raped someone I knew.

As a man, that shyt is just so foreign to me, someone literally invading your body against your will. Not cool, and I don't make jokes about it.

i love this dude... and at the bolded that's what i'm saying

 

[Taadow]

Well if you are speaking of when a woman realizes she's been raped, yeah that happens, but it's not going to happen if you're not raping chicks. Period.

Like, I've had an instance where I felt at the time it was consensual, but the dude did a lot of stuff that was not consensual..... I had to talk to people after the fact to realize that. I wasn't raped, it was just a fukked situation.

No, i'm not talking about that. I'm talking about when a woman will charge a man/men falsely, like the example we had early in this thread and the Duke LaCrosse case a couple years ago...

 

[terminalboredom]

No, i'm not talking about that. I'm talking about when a woman will charge a man/men falsely, like the example we had early in this thread and the Duke LaCrosse case a couple years ago...

False rape charges are not as high as men like to think.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

Women need to dress properly. Be righteous don't be a rape victim.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

i understand what you staying but you know only about 2% of all REPORTED rapes are later found to have been false claims. it's not as big a number of women lying as you may seem to think it is. do i even need to mention the rapes that don't even get reported at all that women just charge to game and carry the burden in silence?

It's still a fuzzy number. Even the FBI doesn't take that statistic seriously. While there are rapes that aren't reported, there are still many stories that are simply made up and not reported because they didn't actually happen. I just can't take something as truth about such an intense accusation if it's not supported by evidence considering the repercussion for the parties involved.

Now... if evidence comes into the picture to support her claim, now we've got a ball game and of course I'm on her side, just to be clear. However, it's a really heavy situation and it obviously (as evidenced by the responses in this thread) is liable to get people to react really strongly to it.

 

[Taadow]

False rape charges are not as high as men like to think.

I would say men don't "like" to think about that. lol

Even so - looking at the stat AnotherGirl put up - 2% is still high for this kind of thing, isn't it? Considering (as we have already in this thread) the rammifications, what anyone would "like" to think is that such allegations are true beyond the shadow of a doubt.

 

[Doobie Doo]

One reason as stated before is women do use it as a weapon but another reason is bytches sometimes put themselves in awkward positions which could lead to rape. The Mike Tyson situation back in the 90's, a chick comes to your room at 3 AM and you ain't expecting to fukk? shyt like that, I remember Deelishis from Flavor of Love said she got raped at 18 when she let some dude eat her out and then he slide it in. If I'm eating a bytch then I can fukk said ho. Sometimes a woman will say it's rape to deny being a whore so unless a bytch tells me she was pinned down and forcibly raped, you know TRADITIONAL STYLE, I ain't beliving it's rape.