Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

[Sonic Boom of the South]

and the funny shyt is


the men who are the type to hound females they try to holla at

and keep going even after the chick say she not interested

are the bottom of the barrel ass dudes


they more aggressive than homeless dudes asking for spare change






some these women mad
cause those are the only type of dudes trying to holla


ugly ass clown ass dudes







dudes be out here on some damm rapist shyt approaching females



gah i hate people

 

[Raava]

I see what you did there, you ain't slick

That being said, I'm always honest with every woman that I meet. So I think it's fair of me to ask the same in return

:clutchespearls: I don't know of what you speak sir.















:litroll:

But if you do great. I didn't say all men aren't upfront. Well I didn't mean to imply that. Need to correct that.

Things may start out one way but situations change

Yes this happens all the time :litroll:

 

[Blackout]

I do love honesty.

Yet I woudlnt recommend women to give it the unknown men who approach them because it risks your safety.

I recommend women to be honest to the men they have in the friend zone since at that point you will know whether he is aggressive or not and those men can move on and use all of their energy on the women who are actually interested.

The less games people play the better.

 

[Bless't]

I'm extremely honest with the women I allow in my life. I expect the same in return. Any type of "guessing game" is for the birds.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

If you know you want different things be honest. A guy doesn't have to have sex with someone to see she wants a relationship and he knows he doesn't and doesn't see her that way. There are ways to be 100 with someone and not nasty or rude, but the problem for some is that it doesn't get them to their end game.

and a female dont have to sleep with him before she knows he doesnt want one



especially when he said so BEFORE they slept together



im so tired of females trying to strong arm people into relationship

acting like the p*ssy THAT good

shyt dont change my mind 1 bit

 

[Raava]

and a female dont have to sleep with him before she knows he doesnt want one



especially when he said so BEFORE they slept together



im so tired of females trying to strong arm people into relationship

acting like the p*ssy THAT good

shyt dont change my mind 1 bit

I agree. I'm not talking about men who are straight up and women who try to force relationships. I'm talking about those who aren't.

 

[wickedsm]

nahh nikka, you saying in dealing with women you need to be clear even if it comes off rude why? because there women and they can't understand if its any other way is what its sounding like to me coming from you.


its not extreme to be yo I really want to smash and thats it, but it is extreme to be upfront and tell someone they kid is ugly if they ask or if your girl looks "fat" if she ask. All of a sudden it changes and we should have tact.


No you should have tact in everything you do.

There is no tactful way to say I just want to smash, just like there is no tactful way to tell someone there kid is ugly.

lets be honest.
the issue isnt men cold approaching women and saying "hi im phoenix reborn, you look nice, id like to get to know you basically for the purpose of having no strings sex with you"
the issue is when women ask "what are you looking for? if youre just tryna fukk and im not down with that" and the guy lying in return, not whether hes being tactful.

plus
yall cant have it both ways and say "well the girl should infer from statements like "i dont want anything serious, just want to get to know you" that he means "i just wanna fukk"

but
when a guy pulls out all the stops to pretend to be something that hes not or feels a way that he doesnt feel
then all of a sudden we are "dumb bytches who should choose better"
why are women wrong when they infer there?

men and women are both a$$holes in relationships. no need to make up all these special exceptions.
a liar is a liar. a rude bytch is a rude bytch.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I agree. I'm not talking about men who are straight up and women who try to force relationships. I'm talking about those who aren't.

if the female would just stop giving the p*ssy up until the intentions are clear
or just not give up the p*ssy at all

she would have full control


females give out p*ssy like Jack n tha Box coupons
and p*ssy stock so low

men run shyt cause of it


you dont even have to get to know a chick to get the p*ssy

or dudes can spit 1 lil lie and be in that ass in no time

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I remember this guy waiting for a train asked me if I had a boyfriend. I said yes (i didnt), then he said "do you cheat"?
they dont stop

Right. If saying I'm not interested was enough women wouldn't need to lie in the first place.

 

[Raava]

if the female would just stop giving the p*ssy up until the intentions are clear
or just not give up the p*ssy at all

she would have full control


females give out p*ssy like Jack n tha Box coupons
and p*ssy stock so low

men run shyt cause of it


you dont even have to get to know a chick to get the p*ssy

or dudes can spit 1 lil lie and be in that ass in no time

Yea

I'm talking about a women trying to get clear intentions and a guy while still pushing things to sex not giving clear answers or leading her on knowing they are on different pages.

I'm not absolving the responsibility of women. I'm saying to those who ranted about a woman not being straight up when rejecting to deal with less drama, awkwardness, to get the outcome they want, and risk someone who can't take rejection well but another thread advocate lying to a woman when the stakes are higher for the same exact reasons. I'm not talking to the men that are 100 and I don't think all men lie like that.

 

[El negrito de tejas]

You could tell a nikka a chick is married and he'd still go holla.

nikkas will see a chick with her man in the club and will mention they can at least be friends with one another.

They call it persistence and some just won't give up no matter what.

 

[The ADD]

Explain please.


.

I don't think it's realistic for a guy to know 100% what his intentions are for a woman when her approaches. Unless it is purely I want an FB, everything else is up for debate.

 

[The Burger King]

lets be honest.
the issue isnt men cold approaching women and saying "hi im phoenix reborn, you look nice, id like to get to know you basically for the purpose of having no strings sex with you"
the issue is when women ask "what are you looking for? if youre just tryna fukk and im not down with that" and the guy lying in return, not whether hes being tactful.

plus
yall cant have it both ways and say "well the girl should infer from statements like "i dont want anything serious, just want to get to know you" that he means "i just wanna fukk"

but
when a guy pulls out all the stops to pretend to be something that hes not or feels a way that he doesnt feel
then all of a sudden we are "dumb bytches who should choose better"
why are women wrong when they infer there?

men and women are both a$$holes in relationships. no need to make up all these special exceptions.
a liar is a liar. a rude bytch is a rude bytch.

What I don't get is, why the fukk should her response matter anyway? If she says she has a BF, whether or not she really does shouldn't even matter.

Not only that, but if the woman is attractive, why would dudes think she would be lying about having a BF?

 

[The Mad Titan]

lets be honest.
the issue isnt men cold approaching women and saying "hi im phoenix reborn, you look nice, id like to get to know you basically for the purpose of having no strings sex with you"
the issue is when women ask "what are you looking for? if youre just tryna fukk and im not down with that" and the guy lying in return, not whether hes being tactful.

plus
yall cant have it both ways and say "well the girl should infer from statements like "i dont want anything serious, just want to get to know you" that he means "i just wanna fukk"

but
when a guy pulls out all the stops to pretend to be something that hes not or feels a way that he doesnt feel
then all of a sudden we are "dumb bytches who should choose better"
why are women wrong when they infer there?

men and women are both a$$holes in relationships. no need to make up all these special exceptions.
a liar is a liar. a rude bytch is a rude bytch.

I thought we were talking about initial approaches, and men being completely honest in what they are looking for. I dont disagree with anything your saying I pretty much said the same thing in another post, but if we talking about meeting the 1st time and being upfront then most of this doesn't apply.

My main point is being honest without being untactful "I'm not looking for anything serious, but I'd like to get to know you and spend sometime with you" As oppose to "I'm not looking for anything serious I really just looking for a f@$" is totally unnecessary, wont be received well and they both are saying the same thing. Someone how one implies something different than the other I guess.

Again, I dont disagree with any of what you said over all.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Yea

I'm talking about a women trying to get clear intentions and a guy while still pushing things to sex not giving clear answers or leading her on knowing they are on different pages.

I'm not absolving the responsibility of women. I'm saying to those who ranted about a woman not being straight up when rejecting to deal with less drama, awkwardness and risk someone who can't take rejection well but another thread advocate lying to a woman when the stakes are higher for the same exact reasons. I'm not talking to the men that are 100 and I don't think all men lie like that.

if she not getting clear intentions from the start
she should stop fukking with dude

stop giving dudes options



and any man that cant take rejection is a psycho

if u reject a man's advances and he still come at you

run off

cause that dude is a possible rapist





if i approach a female and she not giving off positive vibes from the start
i bounce
i dont got time to convince a women to get on the team


that's some clown ass shyt

too many other females out here