Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I can't even imagine the amount of threads that would pop up in TLR if women starting telling the cold hard truth about WHY they were rejecting that man.

yall cant win

you have to worry about a man physically attacking you

just because you arent attracted to him or because you dont like the rude way he came at you


yet dudes can chill out in public and cat call women or insult women openly







yall need to start macing dudes when they dont accept NO

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I agree. I agree with all that.

I am talking about lying to: to deal with less drama, awkwardness, get the out come you want and risk someone who can't take rejection well. I'm not talking about a women not being smart (it happens) or a man being psycho (it happens). It's about hypocrisy and being realistic.

In the other thread someone was asking women what they were doing to get other women to stop lying about boyfriends We all know how people are and what happens in the real world. I just found it crazy that saying you have a bf and you don't is so wrong but then lying about your intentions is ok.

women too nice

the p*ssy value is so low
these dudes think you owe them

so if they holla
they think u owe them a positive response

carry mace and a tazer and handle these clowns

 

[wickedsm]

@wickedsm I rate you but I dont agree with this one.

Let fukk be free me say. Good sex is mutually beneficial so withholding the p*ssy doesnt help anyone. Get the sex out the way things get alot clearer

i absolutely agree that good sex is beneficial to both parties, but unfortunately most people arent mature enough to act on that accordingly.
i even agree i would rather have sex earlier rather than later so we both know if thats gonna be an issue.

this is the coli though where if a woman fukks too soon shes a whore, bushes. if she waits too long, bushes,
if she gets pregnant-her fault, if she doesnt want to xyz sexually-bushes, if you lie and she believes you-her fault
if you lie at all-her fault, she wanted you to lie
etc etc.

better for women to just not fukk guys with these mindsets,

 

[Diyhai]

so you want a guy to roll up and be like "hey I want casual sex from you and if your personality is tolerable, I may consider making you my main girl"


or "hey I just want to fukk you"




you will respond positively to that women


Or shall the games continue

u can be truthful and not that blunt
u can say this without wording it that poorly

 

[At30wecashout]

All i know is, thanks to the very small amount of nutso men(that would go off for being turned down) and the very large amount of women that assume there are more nutso men than there really is, I simply stopped doing anything more than the bare minimum *unless*

1. Shes super bad, and shooting my shot is critical
Or
2. Shes made it known very clearly that she is into me.

I hate games, I hate chicks calling shyt creepy one minute, then accepting something ACTUALLY creepy because she feels more connected to this dude or is in a better mood. Approaches have hundreds of variables and you never know as a man when alarm bells are going off in a chicks head.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

If you don't have a boyfriend, don't lie and say you do out of convenience. Deal with the awkward, uncomfortable conversation. Be blunt, tell the truth.

Women will start doing this when rejecting a man's advances doesn't come with the threat of physical violence.

Rejection is part of the game. KentTV type lames can't handle it whether it's blunt or gentle. Dudes like him are the ones who need to wake the fukk up and get over it.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Cold approaching in 2016...

 

[SheWantTheD]

Solve a problem by claiming that you'll begin to act right once the other side acts right

No different than those folks on YouTube going back and forth about why the black community is where it's at.. and blaming the other gender and the other gender is why they can't do shyt.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Women love and want honesty but knowingly mess with players they know won't commit

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I hate games, I hate chicks calling shyt creepy one minute, then accepting something ACTUALLY creepy because she feels more connected to this dude or is in a better mood. Approaches have hundreds of variables and you never know as a man when alarm bells are going off in a chicks head.

Negus keep fighting the protocol as if it doesn't make sense. Yes, creepy for one dude will be what a woman dreams of with another. Case in point there are things a woman will be OK with her husband doing that she wouldn't with a stranger she's not attacted to Yes, women treat dudes they are feeling different than dudes they aren't... just like MEN treat women they are attracted to different than women they aren't. Isn't that how it's supposed to work?

The game is what it is bruh. The shyt is literally written in blood. You only get one life. Do you want to spend it trying to rewrite human biology or adapting to make what's already in play work for you?

 

[Neuromancer]

Prostitution?


Time & Companionship

Escorts?

 

[wickedsm]

I asked out a light skin black girl in high school
She said no you're ugly to me
If I wouldn't get In trouble I would've stuck my penis in her if she liked it or not



- blackierobinson

Negged for rape trolling.

 

[At30wecashout]

Negus keep fighting the protocol as if it doesn't make sense. Yes, creepy for one dude will be what a woman dreams of with another. Case in point there are things a woman will be OK with her husband doing that she wouldn't with a stranger she's not attacted to Yes, women treat dudes they are feeling different than dudes they aren't... just like MEN treat women they are attracted to different than women they aren't. Isn't that how it's supposed to work?

The game is what it is bruh. The shyt is literally written in blood. You only get one life. Do you want to spend it trying to rewrite human biology or adapting to make what's already in play work for you?

Nah, i get all that, and i actually had more to say but im at work

Things i disagree with in this thread offhand:
Telling a dude why you rejected him. It really doesnt matter. MOST men dont even take rejection as an L, so much as an inevitability. Hell, you can get a no today, and that same chick might feel differently another day. Bottom line, its her right to keep it short and go about her day.

:wangfansonly:Just like I dont have to nod at brehs just because we in the same vicinity.



Also, I dont really feel women are obligated to be truthful upfront anyway, cause afterall, even the nicest man is STILL a stranger. While very few women are getting smacked up for turning down dudes, shyt still happens. Some people you just need a quick out and a lie will be that. Headphones are cool, but occasionally you get line steppers who tap the shoulder or grab the headphonesThe fear of THOSE dudes is why a good samaritan trying to inform a chick about something might get ignored.

Lastly, I curved a LOT of women over the years, so if karma was a real thing(it isnt), I would expect to have every manner of excuse used on me if i was outchere looking. And im ok with that

 

[Bless't]

I think both sexes should just be upfront from the jump but that's wishful thinking. I do notice now that I'm in my 30s and single again women tend to be much more upfront than they did when I was younger

Yuuuuup.

These new age women are pretty upfront and direct with what it is they're looking for. More so than when we were coming up.

I do agree that back in the day it was more difficult to be straight forward with your intentions. Back then I would have ever-so-slightly skated around those major "what are we?" type convos and ate my cake...



But nowadays? It's so much simpler to keep things cut and dry. Could be because we are older and wiser though.

 

[Gold]

After the Kent thread

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/women-pulling-the-i-have-a-boyfriend-card.427647/unread

I see the need for common decency and respect from one human being to another. Ladies if you already don't, we need to be straight up with the men that approach us.

If you don't have a boyfriend, don't lie and say you do out of convenience. Deal with the awkward, uncomfortable conversation. Be blunt, tell the truth. I mean, he took the risk to approach you after all. That way you can both move on knowing the truth. Woman up, we can do that and we should encourage our fellow women.

And we will...As soon as men make sure others are straight up, and honest about their intentions and thoughts right off the bat as well. I mean surely if the truth is needed for something as small as an approach from a stranger, it is also needed when dealing with someone's body, feelings, sex, and mind . Deal with that awkward uncomfortable conversation. Possibly not getting what you want. That way you can both move on knowing the truth.

Come on guys, let’s do this

The road to ruin is pathed with good intentions...
I like where your head's at, but honestly this is bad advice. Women should absolutely lie to men and tell them they have boyfriends to avoid awkward confrontations.
I'm a polite guy who approaches women all the time so i'm used to rejection and honesty wouldn't bother me.
But lets be real, there are plenty of guys who take the cold approach too far. Why deal with all the unnecessary explaining just to tell a man you are not interested?
Letting him know you have a boyfriend allows him to save face. So when he goes back to his boys he can say some shyt like "she has a bf, but she was feeling me "




Honesty isn't as important as being nice/polite.