Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

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bambinokino said:
Smh..20+ pages of loooong unaccountable justifications for lying. This is common with women. They lie all the time..but men simping and agreeing to hat women have aright to lie?!? :mjlol:You nikkas are real sorry.:francis:....a LIE is a lie...all a chick or man has to say is two words: "not interested":yeshrug:
..if you practice lying, you defile your own conscience, and you solidify yourself as a liar.....but keep on believing otherwise..mark my word on that, you won't get far with that mindset.:francis:
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This just isn't true... My girls tells me WEEKLY stories. Doesn't matter if she says "I have a boyfriend", "no thank you", "thanks for the compliment", "im not interested", "have a good day"...

Doesn't matter what kind of "no" she gives. It always leaves it open and the guy continues in one way or another.

Some of you "nice guys" in here need to realize that the average man the women are being hit on is leading to this need to lie for self preservation.
 
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YouMadd? said:
Actually common courtesy would be to not expect a complete stranger to do ANYTHING to appease you just because you approached them and interrupted their day.

No one is entitled to anything from anyone. No one owes anyone honesty in random interactions, especially interactions that they didn't ask for.
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Nobody ask you to hold doors open either. But it's still appreciated.
Nobody asks you to hold the elevator when it's about close and you see someone running to get in but...it's appreciated.

Your basically saying what I'm saying but changing the intention. This isn't about "appeasement" "ego stroking" or "reasoning" it about respect and common courtesy.

I can see both sides, a women would lie for safety issues fearing verbal backlash or physical harm I've seen it happen myself so I understand the women's side.

I can also understand the male side also, on a "Honesty interested approach and then disregarded or lied to by the women"

I can say today males being overly sensitivity and can't take rejection has forced females to lie to avoid altercations which is where we're at now.
 
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YouMadd? said:
This just isn't true... My girls tells me WEEKLY stories. Doesn't matter if she says "I have a boyfriend", "no thank you", "thanks for the compliment", "im not interested", "have a good day"...

Doesn't matter what kind of "no" she gives. It always leaves it open and the guy continues in one way or another.

Some of you "nice guys" in here need to realize that the average man the women are being hit on is leading to this need to lie for self preservation.
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My wife would say the same, but in order to meet my wife is had to approach her, in a mall of all places.

If men and women can't approach each other to initiate dialogue due to interest, how are people ever going to connect? The online thing isn't the answer, it's sucks for young guys in this position it does because how are you ever going to meet someone you like if you can't approach..very interesting problem I'm glad I don't have to deal with this.
 
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The "I got a boyfriend" thing is cool with me whether its true or not. That means she ain't feelin' you regardless so its time to keep it moving and on to the next chick you feelin' to spit at. Fellas ya'll really want a chick to go into some attacking your character sh*t like, "well you're not tall enough, I don't like your style of clothes, I don't date __(insert race)__, etc ?? That's going to lead into some whole other sh*t that you didn't get dressed up and stepped out the house for. Ya'll must be hollerin' at one chick per month or some sh*t. Gotta be on some "marathon mackin'' when gettin' your holla on.
 
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bmack21 said:
I ain't got the sugar daddy or the paralyzed part, but the rest is good to go.

Don't expect money tho
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Well, it was nice talking to you.
Fonsworth said:
nvm I'm good you fukked it up :huhldup:.
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You don't have to be paralyzed, just give me money without expecting anything in return. That's not too much to ask. Just write me off on your taxes or something.
 
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Rawtid said:
Well, it was nice talking to you.
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ultraflexed said:
Assuming all guys that approach you are "just trying fucc" is just as ignorant, it's not always like, me personally never approached a girl with the "I'm just trying to fucc" I never had any expectation on what the relationship could be, long or short term, MN at be just friendship, regardless "fuccing" was the furthest thing from my mind, but I've never had problems getting ladies so I knew intimately would develope if she really feeling you so I never really pushed it.
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Deep down men wan sex most of all right? Some guys make it seem like it's the end all be all to their existence, otherwise women are pointless or menial in their lives. If you're intentions are purer than that, that's cool.
 
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