Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.

[Ronnie Lott]

What I don't get is, why the fukk should her response matter anyway? If she says she has a BF, whether or not she really does shouldn't even matter.

Not only that, but if the woman is attractive, why would dudes think she would be lying about having a BF?

Bingo. It basically comes down to these Kent Tv MF's are basically looking for something to argue and complain about. They would rather go back and forth with silly semantics. once again, they refuse to take responsibility and they put the blame on the woman

They would rather argue mute points and talk in circles

 

[bambinokino]

delete

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Smh..20+ pages of loooong unaccountable justifications for lying. This is common with women. They lie all the time..but men simping and agreeing to hat women have aright to lie?!? You nikkas are real sorry.....a LIE is a lie...all a chick or man has to say is two words: "not interested"
..if you practice lying, you defile your own conscience, and you solidify yourself as a liar.....but keep on believing otherwise..mark my word on that, you won't get far with that mindset.

Man, fukk outta here with that bullshyt.

 

[bambinokino]

Spoiler

 

[ultraflexed]

What you described here are kind gestures that help people and show respect. Someone approaching you to tell you that they basically want to fukk you does not fit in that category. I'm sorry guys but you just have to accept that women don't view strangers trying to approach them all the time as warm and welcoming or friendly. They just don't. Whether it makes sense to you or not, it just doesn't mean the same thing in the female brain and it never will.

Assuming all guys that approach you are "just trying fucc" is just as ignorant, it's not always like, me personally never approached a girl with the "I'm just trying to fucc" I never had any expectation on what the relationship could be, long or short term, MN at be just friendship, regardless "fuccing" was the furthest thing from my mind, but I've never had problems getting ladies so I knew intimately would develope if she really feeling you so I never really pushed it.

 

[ultraflexed]

just telling these soft males out here that your not interested because they ugly is a way to get cussed out and or shot

10000% correct, this is the real problem, feminine males can't take the L on a rejection.

 

[Cynic]

After the Kent thread

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/women-pulling-the-i-have-a-boyfriend-card.427647/unread

I see the need for common decency and respect from one human being to another. Ladies if you already don't, we need to be straight up with the men that approach us.

If you don't have a boyfriend, don't lie and say you do out of convenience. Deal with the awkward, uncomfortable conversation. Be blunt, tell the truth. I mean, he took the risk to approach you after all. That way you can both move on knowing the truth. Woman up, we can do that and we should encourage our fellow women.

And we will...As soon as men make sure others are straight up, and honest about their intentions and thoughts right off the bat as well. I mean surely if the truth is needed for something as small as an approach from a stranger, it is also needed when dealing with someone's body, feelings, sex, and mind . Deal with that awkward uncomfortable conversation. Possibly not getting what you want. That way you can both move on knowing the truth.

Come on guys, let’s do this

Women are passive aggressive. They'll never be upfront about anything until you're their man

but it's mostly demands

 

[bambinokino]

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[ultraflexed]

Ummmmmm, I might be late on but


Who the fu# is kent?

 

[Cynic]

What you described here are kind gestures that help people and show respect. Someone approaching you to tell you that they basically want to fukk you does not fit in that category. I'm sorry guys but you just have to accept that women don't view strangers trying to approach them all the time as warm and welcoming or friendly. They just don't. Whether it makes sense to you or not, it just doesn't mean the same thing in the female brain and it never will.

This isn't showing respect it's paying homage to chivalrous times
and pure gynocentrism at work.

Women can help themselves - this is what feminism fought against.

Women approach men of status all the time too. It goes both ways
except women just can't handle rejection whatsoever.

 

[StickStickly]

I already did. I told you there's a video of Kent interacting with a chick and some dudes and he wasn't socially awkward at all. So come up with something else.

I remember that video and I thought the same thing. He wasn't that bad. But people with Aspergers give it away with their mannerisms, like their facial and body movements just look off. Kent holds his mouth funny etc. If I remember correctly he was wearing a spy cam or something so you couldn't see his face or how he looked to her. If his self presentation was anything like his videos, yeah she could tell there was still something off about him.

 

[StickStickly]

This isn't showing respect it's paying homage to chivalrous times
and pure gynocentrism at work.

Women can help themselves - this is what feminism fought against.

Women approach men of status all the time too. It goes both ways
except women just can't handle rejection whatsoever.

what are you talking about in reference to what I said? What does this have to do win feminism?? Holding doors open isn't subject to men only. I hold doors open for men of all ages. I help little old ladies and men out all the time, help them figure out where they are going, helped a man pick out tampons for his daughter when he looked lost. So what. If that's not in you its not in you. What does that have to do with feminsism??

of course women have problems with rejection. All people do. Why do you guys assume if someone doesn't say something that they are implying that the opposite is true? The problem is if that woman thinks that guys owes her something because she paid him a compliment. It goes both ways- no one owes anyone anything.

Holding a door open and telling someone the "truth" about why they are rejecting them isn't the same thing. Now if she's rude about it, telling you to fukk off or making fun of you with her friends in front of you, that would be in the same category as courtesy. you don't deserve for a woman to make a spectacle of you just because you approached her, unless you were too aggressive , crass or pushy.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I remember that video and I thought the same thing. He wasn't that bad. But people with Aspergers give it away with their mannerisms, like their facial and body movements just look off. Kent holds his mouth funny etc. If I remember correctly he was wearing a spy cam or something so you couldn't see his face or how he looked to her. If his self presentation was anything like his videos, yeah she could tell there was still something off about him.

Nah he was recording it with his cellphone under the table or it was faced flat on the table. I don't know about Kent holding his mouth though. I downloaded that video in case Kent took it down. Someone may have uploaded it onto YouTube though.

 

[Cynic]

what are you talking about in reference to what I said? What does this have to do win feminism?? Holding doors open isn't subject to men only. I hold doors open for men of all ages. I help little old ladies and men out all the time, help them figure out where they are going, helped a man pick out tampons for his daughter when he looked lost. So what. If that's not in you its not in you. What does that have to do with feminsism??

of course women have problems with rejection. All people do. Why do you guys assume if someone doesn't say something that they are implying that the opposite is true? The problem is if that woman thinks that guys owes her something because she paid him a compliment. It goes both ways- no one owes anyone anything.

Look outside yourself. I'm referring to the quoted post.


You are making an assumption based on a assumption. This is circular logic
I will applaud you on saying this though.

No one owes anyone anything.


Take this rep brehette

 

[YouMadd?]

Not about control just honesty and common courtesy, nobody owes anyone anything....

Actually common courtesy would be to not expect a complete stranger to do ANYTHING to appease you just because you approached them and interrupted their day.

No one is entitled to anything from anyone. No one owes anyone honesty in random interactions, especially interactions that they didn't ask for.