I don't think you should make generalized statements in a forum. It would make me more comfortable if you directly addressed ur points to people...I'm willing to bet u don't give a damn about what I want as a complete stranger right?
Spin: More Women need to start being honest with men.
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SheWantTheD
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I'm confused as to what you are talking about. What generalized statement are you referring to?
Can't forget women being killed by a dude because she rejected him, all cause she was being honest.
Rick Fox at UNC
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I didn't read all this nonsense but...
Naw, y'all good, just don't be surprised when a nikka above your years puts you up on game.
Naw, y'all good, just don't be surprised when a nikka above your years puts you up on game.
ultraflexed
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Why do you feel like you need to control what answer a chick gives you
Not about control just honesty and common courtesy, nobody owes anyone anything....
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ultraflexed
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You're acting like a perfect stranger owes you honesty
Common courtesy...look it up
You ever hold the door open for a lady you weren't attracted too.
Helped a old lady with groceries
Walked female c-workers worker to car at night for safety?
No one had to do those things but society was better when we took it apon ourselves to do it without benefit.
StickStickly
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This. Does it really make a difference if she tells you why she doesn't want you? "I have a boyfriend" and "I'm not attracted to you" are saying the same thing: "go away".
Do people really want to hear that she thinks they're ugly? I guarantee that shyt sounds good on a forum but in real life that's fukked up.
StickStickly
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What you described here are kind gestures that help people and show respect. Someone approaching you to tell you that they basically want to fukk you does not fit in that category. I'm sorry guys but you just have to accept that women don't view strangers trying to approach them all the time as warm and welcoming or friendly. They just don't. Whether it makes sense to you or not, it just doesn't mean the same thing in the female brain and it never will.
Action Mike
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should we approach a random women on the street at all or only functions etc, if so what's the best way?StickStickly
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I think it's fine to approach women, but don't expect anything but a polite turn down, even if it's "no tHank you. I have a boyfriend". My comment is mainly addressing the fact that a lot of men think that approaching women is a compliment or that a woman should be flattered because they talked to them so they owe men a response and should consider how hard it is for this person they've never met to get in women's pants. I realize not everyone has malevolent intentions, but in women's eyes you don't know these strangers and you don't exist to be the object of random peoples' fantasies. ( so yeah it's a little unnerving and annoying to think someone is interrupting your day so you can gratify their existence and so that they can use you to get off). You're human and you don't have to reply to every single advance because well you're human, not a servant to someone else's ego. I'm just saying that sex isn't always a compliment considering men would sleep with anything and we know and are aware of that. It just strikes me as very weird that people feel entitled to a stranger's time and energy especially if that person is giving off signals that indicate she wants to be alone or isn't interested. That person is an individual, you will never know her situation and it's silly to generalize to the the entire female population, so just keep it moving.
Approaching women is fine, just pay attention to her signals, verbal and nonverbal. If she drops any line that says she isn't interested, don't take it personally. I know that's hard but Dating is a numbers game. If she's rude to you, you didn't need her anyway.
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Action Mike
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i would say women should stick with the sorry i have a boyfriend excuse
just telling these soft males out here that your not interested because they ugly is a way to get cussed out and or shot
you kent tv types need to fall back because you know damn well kent cannot handle the truth.
sitting up there acting like he can handle being told he is too short or weird is a joke
that dude needs to be let down easy because he the type to snap on a bytch one day
just telling these soft males out here that your not interested because they ugly is a way to get cussed out and or shot
you kent tv types need to fall back because you know damn well kent cannot handle the truth.
sitting up there acting like he can handle being told he is too short or weird is a joke
that dude needs to be let down easy because he the type to snap on a bytch one day
