sometimes you can teach a man how u like sex if thier ego is not too big.
weak stroke game? ride that D or in missionary hold his butt so u csn control his pace and movement in and out
also i had to teach my ex that i dont like fingers being shoved in side me, i had to guide his hand to rub my clit in a circular motion with his thumb, then gently insert a finger
if a man is open to learning there are ways to make sex more pleasurable for both
