Spin: can you be attracted to a guy but the sex is wack?

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sometimes you can teach a man how u like sex if thier ego is not too big.
weak stroke game? ride that D or in missionary hold his butt so u csn control his pace and movement in and out
also i had to teach my ex that i dont like fingers being shoved in side me, i had to guide his hand to rub my clit in a circular motion with his thumb, then gently insert a finger

if a man is open to learning there are ways to make sex more pleasurable for both
 

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Neither am I :mindblown:

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My friend is speaking in the general sense (she's a virgin). She's obviously attracted to the guy she's thinking of marrying but the thought has crossed her mind. She thinks it would be very bad luck to have waited so long and then...

What should I tell her?

She can do her due diligence to a certain level i.e. does she find him attractive, is he open minded generally? Presumably this minimises the chances but is it just blind luck?
She's more than likely married by now, but initially your crazy attraction to them makes the sex feel amazing. After a few years sex will start to feel normal, but I think if you're attracted to them the psychological aspect will make it great no matter what. When that high comes down tho :patrice:. She can at least vet to see if he's adventurous
 

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Story of my life. Look, you can't teach "deeper", so if that's the main issue, just go.

Sexual satisfaction is as important for women as it is for men. Most of these dudes here were cheated on for that exact reason, so don't listen to them because they'll only give advice that would benefit the man, not you.

Tell your "friend" that until she knows what she likes sexually, she shouldn't just dismiss the guy. It's unfortunately a trial and error. Most men only know how to pleasure themselves, not the woman, so it will take effort to learn, then teach.
 

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You wouldn't know what good sex or bad sex is if you keep your legs close and goes for man too. Meaning if you waited until you were married you can enjoy your husband sex because you can't critique him cause you don't know the difference, people be messing themselves up and get mad at the other person. World crazy

But lets deal with reality any attraction that deals with the outside not the inside isn't real attraction, just animal lusting which shall soon turn to disaster.
 

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Story of my life. Look, you can't teach "deeper", so if that's the main issue, just go.

Sexual satisfaction is as important for women as it is for men. Most of these dudes here were cheated on for that exact reason, so don't listen to them because they'll only give advice that would benefit the man, not you.

Tell your "friend" that until she knows what she likes sexually, she shouldn't just dismiss the guy. It's unfortunately a trial and error. Most men only know how to pleasure themselves, not the woman, so it will take effort to learn, then teach.

Worst advice I have ever read. Listen, it's not a man job to pleasure a woman. Fellas, if a chick ain't pleasing you you charge her to the game. LSA is for whores that want advice on how to lose men.
 

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sometimes you can teach a man how u like sex if thier ego is not too big.
weak stroke game? ride that D or in missionary hold his butt so u csn control his pace and movement in and out
also i had to teach my ex that i dont like fingers being shoved in side me, i had to guide his hand to rub my clit in a circular motion with his thumb, then gently insert a finger

if a man is open to learning there are ways to make sex more pleasurable for both

This is comical. Brehs really out here listening to whores on what they like during sex. Yall making up stories worst then white People :mjlol:
 

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You wouldn't know what good sex or bad sex is if you keep your legs close and goes for man too. Meaning if you waited until you were married you can enjoy your husband sex because you can't critique him cause you don't know the difference, people be messing themselves up and get mad at the other person. World crazy

But lets deal with reality any attraction that deals with the outside not the inside isn't real attraction, just animal lusting which shall soon turn to disaster.
This is...

A really good ass point
 

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sometimes you can teach a man how u like sex if thier ego is not too big.
weak stroke game? ride that D or in missionary hold his butt so u csn control his pace and movement in and out
also i had to teach my ex that i dont like fingers being shoved in side me, i had to guide his hand to rub my clit in a circular motion with his thumb, then gently insert a finger

if a man is open to learning there are ways to make sex more pleasurable for both
Circular motion , then insert?


Got it


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Considering every woman will eventually become useless in bed sex isnt a good reason to break up a family, unless ur not getting it at all.

Bearing children
Having epidurals
C sections

You wont be fukkin like a porn star for much longer.....
 
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