Honestly, while Atlanta is ten times better with women and their personalities than DC, I was able in two years to get ten times further in DC than in Atlanta career wise. No comparisons at all.
Sometimes I feel like I'll never have sex again...
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Get the Tinder app. It only lets you to talk to people that mutually like eachother. I just jumped on after a few people told they've been eating good on there. Guys and girls !
iamstr8fire
Apex Predator
Now that I think about it there are a few more things I did that can help you out.
1) If you have platonic female friends or female relatives around your age you should hang out with them on occasion. When I was like 23 or so I started hanging out with my cousin every weekend. We would eat breakfast, run errands, and just shoot the shyt for a bit. It would probably take a month's worth of typing to put everything I learned about women in here from that experience alone.
2) Talk to (and even flirt with) women you have no interest in. Oddly enough I picked this up from reading 'The Game'. 99% of the stuff in the book is basura imo, but this helped me out a bit. If you talk to enough people it just starts to flow naturally and it makes it easier for you to engage in conversation.
iamstr8fire
Apex Predator
monster with the bolded when myspace was poppin.
I definitely know where your coming from....But as a counterpoint of sorts, why is everything someone else's fault? Have you every stopped to think that there is something wrong with you?
And you're not fooling anyone with your "don't care about nuthin'" gimmick either. I struggle to write as much as you just did about things I care about without getting bored. Yet you write that much about something you don't care about?
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
the ideals you want, in general no longer exist.
as they are from outdated Keynesian theories from the first depression.
where America was so capitalistically poor.
that the country had to create the mantra of the union of man/woman.
which is where the house, with the wife/white picket fence/dog/children all extends from.
you grew up in a discovery zone that came to an end.
where America studied what would happen if they gave spoils to groups outside of the one percent.
who easily, rose up to rival the old money as new money.
in 2001, that discovery zone was cut off.
to eliminate new money and the war of old money vs new money.
in that and the civil rights movement, ended the discovery zone and union of male/female in this country in general.
you come from Africa.
so, you may have your culture intact.
in a country where no real culture exist.
only thing that exist is non-culturally associated traditionalism.
which are not welled in any fact, and completely absolved of sociological fact and theories.
to better make you a vic for the devil worshipping poison that is capitalism
so, what you seek is few and far between.
you may never find the proverbial needle in the haystack as it no longer actually exists.
you are thirty years old and lack key sociological and maturity points about this life, here.
we live in a matriarchial society, and you have given into that.
you can not be a lion, when you are reared by queen hyenas, breh.
give up the fallacy...it does not exist in America.
there are a few pockets here and there that are exceptions.
you can not base your life on thinking you are special or you are some key exception.
you will lose like that.
first off, every guy on this forum knows you.
as they have already lived or are living the exact same dilemma.
the dilemma that ma lied to you.
you have to do away with your simp thinking.
as it is a fallacy that females who were given reparation instilled in boys.
their own children.
to allow, their own sons to be better open to be had in the long con.
you just don't know it.
as you have done no research and you have no actual life experience to draw upon.
look here, breh...
I was just like you at twenty six.
my corporate career ruined....suffering from cheesy rat blues.
where people were only around me because I had a luxury car, gear and bread.
I was the guy from the two parent family home, and had no idea how I was perceived and who I was.
in that situation I put myself through creating who I would be.
instead of being the corporate poster boy.
I created a real actual self devoid of money, friends, and relationships.
you are who you create, and who you have created.
is welled in the life, females tell their sons.
so, they are taken from.
females know divorce and marriage law.
you don't and that is why you are losing.
you don't know females actually want the guy they can not take from.
as females are in a capitalistic war and can win it.
if you and other guys don't realize you are the prey, and you are at war.
you are losing because your idealogy is flawed and not based upon actual fact/theory/law.
you need to learn marriage law, first.
not try to create a life based on what you want.
you have to adhere and create it around the actual parameters.
those parameters are,...
a union between a man and female is a fifty fifty corporation.
you are trying to create a union with a female based upon being a provider.
the whale, or the simp.
in a time where females do not want a simp.
yet, but to take from the best and most glorious simp.
don't be the best and most glorious simp, breh.
you don't even believe you were put on this earth as your main objective as an animal with no instincts is to copulate.
you have so much work to do,.....
till you do the knowledge...
you will be ignorant to the world.
the world at times is not based on fact...
as the devils who populate it move it away from that.
to better make it easier for them.
you are living in a world where the devil had more than sixthousand years before god talked in stereo.
so, you are caught up and don't understand.
you have six thousand years worth of fallacy to combat as a man on this earth.
get some knowledge of self...which never comes from no cot damn female, breh.
it comes from what you do to acquire it and you have not finished in acquiring your book or actualized knowledgeable experience as a man on earth.
you don't even realize how hard it is for you as a XY chromosome being to be on this world.
and how easy it is to be XX chromosome being.
let alone be fooled by the larger vast abundance of XX chromosome beings..
you need to get it together.
you are in the mecca of hiphop.
where knowledge of self is the key step.
gain, some and stop listening and being lead astray by some fukk'n matriarch hyenas.
you still under the impression eve did not fukk the devil, breh.
get a grip and come into reality, and get the knowledge...
your shyt is awful, and you ain't even been through not one actual ripple of the bullshyt I have.
nikka,...get your shyt together.
you have no fukk'n excuse but yourself...
you are stealing your life, from you.
I know because I had others steal my life from me.
you would never survive being an alpha and having it stolen from you.
get it together breh,..you are on bullshyt.....
no one told you because you to fukk'n weak right now to be told by your friends and they care.
well real talk,..
I actually really care more than them.
as I ain't scared to tell you the fukk'n truth.
the truth is you have to do away with that matriarch bullshyt.
you have been lied to.
now, what you can do...
is ignore the fools on this forum and listen to the realist nikka alive.
my name is:
art barr
*L*E*G*A*C*Y*
Done.
At this point in this thread, I can whole heartedly admit the OP was a front made as a defense mechanism.
And I've already said I'm afraid of rejection by the opposite sex and I'm not as confident as I would like to be.
I've also said that women that I'm really digging make me nervous...
I've also said that I had some issues coming up as an awkward teen that was ostracized that I'm just getting over now.
I hope that explains much...cause I figured people at this point would need some cliff notes.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
do to the mall of America, and walk around.
you will get immediate results.
I guarantee it....
I know so,......
art barr
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
he couldn't do it in the south.
it is to large a mecca for alpha males.
he needs somewhere, where he can get his weight up.
Minnie-ap, is that place.
as it pays a lot for just fastfood workers.
plus, it has the greatest mall, for getting females ever.
once, he get toe tackled by some fine sisters at the mall of American.
maybe he will get it and get his confidence up.
he also suffers from not knowing females are a numbers game.
you have to go where you can find a vast number of females.
who are close to what you want.
art barr
If it makes you feel better I only read the first 20 or so posts. And I have similar issues to what you're having too. There's this chick I'm into but I never made a move, now she wants to hook me up with her cousin.
I found going to the gym has helped me a little. Also just talk to women you're not related to. It doesn't have to be sexual or for long periods of time. Social skills are like any other skill. Practice makes perfect. The guys who always get hugs and kisses have been practicing since puberty, you can catch up though. Good luck breh.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
I already knew this, because I already lived your little comic book nikka.
I already lived what you talembout.
my real name is weird as fukk.
so, everytime I meet someone it is weird as fukk from introduction.
yet, and still...
I still move forward and introduce myself and am a closer.
given every possible thing that could go wrong from introduction.
you got an African name,....at least someone knows you have a culture and where it comes from.
try having:
EMAN
as your real fukk'n name....
every female I talk to thinks it is a joke upon introduction.
yet, and still...
I found out game to get over it.
when, females say that is not my name.
I say,..you got fifty bucks...
pull out the fifty dollars.
now, let's make a fifty dollar bet.
if my real name is, Eman.
plus, my id and ss card say so...
you give me the fifty dollars.
sometimes females shy away and that opens doors for me to be dominant.
in the case of the female who thinks she is cold and gonna win fifty dollars.
it shows me,..
she thinks she knows more than men, and she is poisoned to think all men are liars.
so, I gain fifty dollars and perspective on what type of weak ass broad it is.
I have gotten a lot of fifty dollar bet wins.
on top of, females respecting I showed them I am a winner.
while, they were a loser.
when fukk'n with:
art barr
JasonSJackson
Jah Sun Ma'at Ra
hahahaCome here bro
JasonSJackson
Jah Sun Ma'at Ra
couldn't dap that post but I respect your honesty
JasonSJackson
Jah Sun Ma'at Ra
i recommend you print this post out and read it until you recognize it as truth, seriously
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
If it makes you feel better I only read the first 20 or so posts. And I have similar issues to what you're having too. There's this chick I'm into but I never made a move, now she wants to hook me up with her cousin.
I found going to the gym has helped me a little. Also just talk to women you're not related to. It doesn't have to be sexual or for long periods of time. Social skills are like any other skill. Practice makes perfect. The guys who always get hugs and kisses have been practicing since puberty, you can catch up though. Good luck breh.
lol,...
I had that happen at sixteen, in 1992 or 1993.
when, she tried to hook me up with this booger wolf ass broad.
it was the first time I called a female a bytch to her face and she ate it cause she knows it is true.
in 2008..
years later, I seen the bytch at the stop light, going to the mall.
after I replaced my luxury whip I had and she was all on me.
bytch didn't even know or recognize me.
I was like michelle you don't ever remember me huh.
I thought if you saw me again you would be pissed.
I said my name, and her mouth dropped.
not to mention, I dissed her again.
then, when I got to the mall.
she was working at a mall kiosk cart, and she still was the same bytch I clowned there too.
I can show you this rat teeth having ass bytch, too.
at the 2.36 mark...
art barr
