Sometimes I feel like I'll never have sex again...

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

ur perfect now?

Well I won't bore you to death or put you in a state of depression and besides that I have options meaning I have better company to kept. So yeah I got a leg up.

 

[Larry Lobster]

You nikkas need to leave the hood or whatever you live, there's plenty of decent women out there

 

[TheBigBopper]

you see how emotional you are.
that is why you are only able to bag backpages broads.
you are to emotional and wear your shyt on your sleeve.
plus, you are fukk'n hater.
you mad, cause I have the life experience of fukk'n multiple females in one day consistently for more than eighteen straight months.
plus, been given houses, too.
yousa john face ass nikka....
stop the bullshyt....


art barr

Get some medication for your dyslexia you barely literate ass nikka

I swear, with your random ass punctuation, you're like the retard from Flowers for Algernon before he received the operation.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

i dont think he's looking for a hood chick though....

I'm not.

Even if we had stuff in common my lifestyle and upbringing is just too different.

I grew up in an affluent suburb...I always felt like being Nigerian and West Indian in America would always be a barrier between me getting married or having a simple relationship. Not because of me persay...moreso due to other just not being able to understand us or our culture.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

I see your problem.
at least, you are smart enough to put it in your info.
when many on this site, don't and don't know .
people can't help you in cases like this because you don't put where you rep from, for real.

you problem is you are in ny.
Brooklyn of all places.
the place outside of harlem.
that pretty much is the epicenter of getting fly.

on top of that,.....

ny = the capitalistic center and mecca of print/runway/entertainment.

you need to leave new York.
then, go where there are no black men for black women.
relocate to :

Arizona
Minnie-ap
uk
brazil

those two places, I listed in the states have black women.
the uk and brazil, is also a place where they are dying to have an American black male.
who are starving for American black men of any type.
who want to fukk the dog shyt out of them and will share.
as there is a shortage of American black men there.

leave ny,.......
that is what you must do.
if you want all the cooch you can bear.

also,..stop the self defeatist attitude shyt.
it is just your locale and the fact.
you are in the top three epicenters in the us, for golddiggers.
where, every female in ny.
believes in general,..
they can have the one percent of black males who are prominent in ny.
when, it is a complete farce and lie.

leave NY,.........

that is what you must do.
you can not be in ny.
with your attitude and lack of funds and lack of confidence.
as, you are against actual celebs.
who, every female there feels they can acquire.





art barr

I think I just have no choice but to leave America. I feel like this country is not for me and it's the reason I've always struggled with the simplest things...

I've been to Arizona before and it was depressing...
I've never been to Minneapolis and I just don't want to.

 

[ignorethis]

I'm not.

Even if we had stuff in common my lifestyle and upbringing is just too different.

I grew up in an affluent suburb...I always felt like being Nigerian and West Indian in America would always be a barrier between me getting married or having a simple relationship. Not because of me persay...moreso due to other just not being able to understand us or our culture.

I think I just have no choice but to leave America. I feel like this country is not for me and it's the reason I've always struggled with the simplest things...

I've been to Arizona before and it was depressing...
I've never been to Minneapolis and I just don't want to.

Come to Minneapolis, Dallas, or Houston and find yourself a nice Nigerian girl breh.

Houston, we got jobs, we got cheap education, we got women

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

are u shy or awkward? maybe its ur personality..ive seen some over weight ugly dudes with pretty females. personality goes a long way. your in shape so that already gives you a plus. maybe u should try socializing with different people.

I'm 29. I spent over 15 years of that as an awkward black nerd that wore glasses and was made fun of and picked on from grade school to high school. College wasn't any different either. Girls didn't like me...I spent most of my time alone and miserable. (I had my group of friends don't get me wrong, but no females in sight).

I just spent time improving my looks physically cause I thought it would help. I traded the glasses for contacts...the whole nine yards.

I think my problem is I still have that mentality and that mindset from those years and it's hard to get over.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Ok so I finally read the thread.

1. You probably suck at reading signs, women give loads, and some men just suck at it. I noticed you talked about how you've failed approaching women, but not once mention women going after you. This leads me to believe you either don't read signs well, or you trying to get women out of your league.

2. How often do you go to venues that are full of black women? and if you do, do you still fail at these places?

1. Yeah, I've had women approach me and check me out and show interest but I am absolutely horrible at reading signals. And If I do I just give up right then and there cause I just assume they don't like me, they're just playing games and not interested in me, and it's not worth following up.

2. I usually go to venues with a mixed crowd honestly...so to answer that question...not that often.

 

[360crazy]

I don't understand why u r tripping. Women have great potential to make your life even worse than what you claim it is now. Like seriously. Once u get happy in some vagina and don't pull out, it's over homie.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

1. Yeah, I've had women approach me and check me out and show interest but I am absolutely horrible at reading signals. And If I do I just give up right then and there cause I just assume they don't like me, they're just playing games and not interested in me, and it's not worth following up.

2. I usually go to venues with a mixed crowd honestly...so to answer that question...not that often.

1. It's probably your lack of reading signs then. If they are approaching by default you should know they want you. Women will only go so far with their signs, they are just as shy as men can be.

2. you should probably start going to predominately black venues. You'll probably have little doubt in places like that.....

 

[john goodman]

You're big problem is you're a bytch

Stop showing weakness and develop a killer instinct

 

[Steve Piffler]

gotta play the numbers game. more bytches you talk to the more bytches say yes to your advances. talk to no hoes and you get no puss. simple as that.

you are just a whiny simp that is scared of puss...bottom line.

Spoiler

face it breh....

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

gotta play the numbers game. more bytches you talk to the more bytches say yes to your advances. talk to no hoes and you get no puss. simple as that.

you are just a whiny simp that is scared of puss...bottom line.

Spoiler

face it breh....

I'm not afraid of p*ssy...I'm just too lazy to talk to women and I don't try.

I'd rather have them talk to me instead of going out of my to initiate a conversation (even though that's not how it works in this world...)

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

I'm not afraid of p*ssy...I'm just too lazy to talk to women and I don't try.

I'd rather have them talk to me instead of going out of my to initiate a conversation (even though that's not how it works in this world...)

This is part of the issue right here.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I'm not afraid of p*ssy...I'm just too lazy to talk to women and I don't try.

I'd rather have them talk to me instead of going out of my to initiate a conversation (even though that's not how it works in this world...)

Dude, I don't even know what to say to you. I came in here to clown on you but now I legit want to help you. But you're 29, unfortunately I think it might be too late to change your mindset. I hope life works out in the best for you, I truly do, but I can tell why women find you unattractive just from reading the O/P and it has NOTHING to do with your looks